What is something that would lift a heavy burden off your shoulders?

[MissingAWoman]

I am 27, almost 28, and I never had a real girlfriend. I have always wanted a woman where we can be each other's first loves and first real relationship. Essentially, I seek a woman without a romantic past.

I came so close one time to having that, but she rejected me upon meeting in person. She never even had a male friend before she met me!

I am hoping I can find another woman like her. It hurts every day being single and alone. I am feeling a huge part of me is missing.

If I can find another woman like that and make her my wife, I would feel so much better.

[Anonymous]

A decent amount of cash would fix almost of my issues tbh (both externally and internally). I mean my love life is also currently pretty burdensome but if I have the money, I can just focus on working on my business and forget about love.

[MissingAWoman]

Money is not as big of an issue for me as finding the love of my life, a woman without a romantic past

[Opinion Owner]

You wanna be each other’s first love at 28…?

[MissingAWoman]

Well, of course, she can be younger than me, but yes.

[Opinion Owner]

What exactly do you mean by a “romantic past”? Do you mean someone who’s never had a relationship before? If that’s the case then it’s realistic buttt if you want someone who’s had 0 experiences in relationships + someone who never even dated around before then your chances of finding her are slim to none even if you go for younger girls…

[MissingAWoman]

Well she could have went on a date or so as long as she wasn't really close to the guy, especially from her youth. I want me and a woman to be each other's first loves.

[Opinion Owner]

Ah okay, good luck! Be sure to put yourself out there, go travel and meet new people too.

Also I read that you met a girl but immediately got rejected upon meeting her, what happened there? Was she not attracted to you in person?

[MissingAWoman]

She was not attracted to me in person. I was beyond devistated, especially because she was a girl who never had a male friend before me. I was so traumatized that she married someone else who got to be her first everything, I had to be hospitalized.

[Opinion Owner]

Damn that’s tough… well it means that she wasn’t the girl for you. Work on yourself and you’ll find an even better girl, prove that other girl that rejected you wrong!

[Jasooty]

You need to learn to be happy being single. Then you can share your happiness with another woman (Be happy with what you do have and not focus on what you don’t).
Go out and meet real people at events. I know rejection is hard but you have to be prepared for it in order to find another woman.

[midnightmoon05]

Go meet as many people as you can in real life. You are stuck with the idea of this woman you never met in person. This will old your back..

[MissingAWoman]

No, I did meet her in person, and she rejected me. I want to find another woman that is just like her when we first met... one without a romantic past.

[midnightmoon05]

Good luck finding another woman “just like her”

[MissingAWoman]

Do you think I have a chance?

[midnightmoon05]

Just like her - no.
When you have moved in from her, open up to new opportunities, you have a chance of meeting someone new, nice, kind to you.

[MissingAWoman]

Thanks, but I thought you were trying to say I wouldn't find another woman without a romantic past.

[midnightmoon05]

That too.

[MissingAWoman]

So you don't think I can find a woman where we can be each other's first loves?

[midnightmoon05]

Let me know when that happens.

[Anonymous]

Probably half a million in cash