How to call out a guy lying on his age?

[Anonymous]

Talking to a guy online and he asked to meet up. His age says 24. I always try and stalk people prior to dates for safety reasons. Stalked him and found out he is only 20!! I want to call him out. How do I do this without saying I stalked you haha. I just said let’s meet for drinks and he said I’m not a big drinker except holidays so let’s meet for food lol. Now what do I say?

Updates

+1 y

Lol this convo has gotten funny. I just said “wow rare to find a 24 year old that doesn’t drink! “ he goes “ I’m kidding I drink just not often. More of a dinner or movie night kinda guy” lol. I should totally say “that’s a shame because I like to go out and get drunk and get wild and have a good time” heheh.

[Tiptoetamm]

If you know his age is different I would bring it up tell him the age I know he is and demand explanation. I guess it really depends. I refuse to date anyone under the age of 25 glad my dating days are over for now anyway lol. I hate dating

[kylee2437]

Why not admit that you stalked? You have a right to invest your time into figuring someone out when involving yourself with them for safety /boundary reasons. You can’t call someone out for lying, if you are going to meet them with a lie as well.

[Wise4myage]

Call him out on this, but also admit you stalked him.

[boggboss]

There is no way without him knowing u stalked lol

[In_Trance]

straight up, face to face