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Showing interest from her I'm cool with. Her being nice and all I'm fine with.
Calling me everyday is a no go.
I'm not a fan of that at all unless she has something meaningful to say to me.
Even in the early stages of getting to know each other?
At that phase is normal. After that phase it's not cool..
So would you date this woman who pursued you? And how would things change?
I mean surely if a person is a go getter, and an initiator that would be how they always are?
Her showing interest is fine enough for me. I'll take it from there.
If you want to get laid and you’re attractive, no one will object. If you want a relationship, you have to find a feminine man and you have to be the masculine woman pretty much the entire relationship. Can’t flip flop, it will end badly. Know who you are.
No idea how that answers my questions...
If you pursue the guy, you’re the masculine one. Period. You have to ask for the number. You have to be the giving one. You have to be the one who cherishes him while he respects you. You have to be the leader.
If you can’t handle that, if that’s not who you are, then don’t do that.
If you try and chase another chaser, you’re going to have problems. Lots of arguing.
Never experienced your examples, but I had an aggressive girlfriend that kept pushing dates.
It didn’t work out, not because of that , but I didn’t like her pushing dates either.
I have been pursued by women, too bad it happened after I got married. My wife is definitely too good for me.
I dated a girl who was very strong. She was stronger than a lot of guys.
I’d welcome it if she’s truly interested in me and just wants to get to know me. I think I’d view it as awesome
No its perfectly fine, so long as she doesn't become a psycho stalker. It's not that a girl has to make the first move, just initiate signs of interest
Why does showing a keen interest mean stalking? Is that what women should think of men when they are pursuing us?
I'm talking extreme examples, like I had my sisters friend take my picture from my parents house. I never had kissed or dated her, it was too weird.
I still don't understand what you're getting at here...
I'm saying that I am perfectly fine with women taking a lead in the ways you mentioned. However I know from experience that some girls maybe go a little too far, which is not okay. Granted most girls are often afraid to initiate for fear of rejection.
Thank you for you're clearer answer...
No worries, it's a great question by the way.
Thank you
So basiclly exactly what we want? No that wouldn't bother us.
It is really good infact men want these type of women but it is not happend to us. No girl ever done this to me.
I would love that un fortunately that never happens
Never happened tbh
Sounds good to me. Ok fine with that stuff.