I have a few questions men, about role reversal?

Question

Would it bother you if a woman pursued you? If she was really keen, text first thing "good morning, hope you have a good day... And called you every night?
Have you ever met a woman you felt was too good for you? And what did you do?
If a woman joked that she was stronger than you and could man handle you how would you feel?

How do you feel about a woman that talks about and pushes for sex really early?

Sleevey · Accepted Answer

There is a fine art many women use to pursue man, send all the right signals but still let the guy think it was his initiative. In this day and age. If women do not pursue or at least drop hints applied with a sledge hammer it is way less likely to happen. guys in North America and other western nations gave been labeled toxic predators, fired for harassment if a pickup temp is unwanted and reported to HR, off handed compliments. Actual compliments, and so on. Many guys just won’t risk it anymore, the price is to high.

The risk of over pursuing can happen if the campaign is to much to soon. Personally every day and night texts and calls are annoying. It also borders on stalker. I’m a guy. I have had a phone call lasting 3 second with another guy that was 3 words, a few grunts and done. So more doesn’t always mean better.

Manhandled, I’d ask how much would that cost me?

Talks about and pushes for sex really early? I’m a guy, so YAY!. However even though I’m a giant hypocrite i will tell you that if you are looking for a committed relationship, dont.
Example:
It was a longtime ago, but in my teens and early 20s I ne’er had a problem finding a willing girl for sex. At 19 I had a job that attracted a lot of female attention, good and bad, so much so that I actually started to withdraw from to much sex. It’s a long story but the result was I wanted to actually get to know girls befor jumping in the sack. So I stopped the casual sex, one nighters and f friends and asked out women I liked beyond just physical. Like previous generations I decided to date not hook up. when I asked a girl out I let them know I would be dating other girls to get to know them, but would not be having sex with any of them unless I was ready to commit and would tell them before anything happened so not to lead them on and stay honest. just good companionship,

I expected disgust, angry FUs but was surprised when theysaid ok. So at one time I was dating three girl, and would have predicted what happened. They were going above and beyond trying to get me have sex. I rented a small house with a buddy, and our place was kinda traffic central. I had a date crawl into bed sans clothes in the middle of the night, I had one get in the shower with me out of nowhere! skirts with nothing underneath. they were in competition with each other. It was crazy. This went on a while and I remained true to my word. But all good things end and I recieved a call that I was accepted into a organisation and I told the girls and we said good buy.

Fast forward almost 2 years. I finished my trading and was sent to a new city. I met a. Girl and. Took it slow, it’s going grate, we moved in together. I was in love and even had a ring. Then she decided we should have a tell all to air out our skeletons. I told her about my less the chased past, then she started telling me hers. To this day I can tell you the very hour I lost all attraction t her. She went through her body count, her same sex experiences and the period she sold herself for rent money. I was like a color film turned black and white. I had a sinking feeling in my gut, and absolutely no attraction to her. I’m a hypocrite, I slept around, I had multiple partner at the same time, I loved her and still couldn’t explain what happened. I hoped it would just take some time to get over the shock. For the next 2 months I played cat and mouse to avoid intimacy but nothing and she finally cornered me demanding to know what’s going on. I tried lying, it all me, anything to stop from telling her the truth. But she literally blocked the door. So I told her, i wasn’t attracted to her after her list. Well she didn’t say a word, and left. That was 28 years ago. I still have the ring and never stopped loving her. Something in my lizard brain said “nope to many, infertile don’t wast resources.
So, if you want to have a hookup or friends with benefits, go for it, push for early sex if you want a long term, slow down

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

women do not "pursue" me, but most of them have approached me first... and no, it does not bother me, I just see it as something quite normal, because that's how it has been mostly for me, and then, the results of that happening have all been good and even great, so why would I complain about things going very well... not a problem

the second question, no... I have never thought or seen people as too good or too bad for you, if they are interested on me as I am interested on them, then we work well together and that is all there is to it... I have no use for placing people on "categories or levels" or status of any kind

if a woman said she is physically stronger than me as a joke, then I would just take it as as a joke and then we would have fun with it, that is the whole point of jokes, to laugh it out... other than that, I have met very strong women and also very skilled women in combat that have actually challenged me (not in an antagonistic way) to see how they measure against me, and well... it was something fun and interesting and we did not make it about something else other than that, lol

bring up sex on early stages... I do not have much experience with that, I've been in relationships with women who "were not in a rush to make it to that point" although, in some of my relationships it happened sooner and in others happened later, there were no rushing or pushing of things per se... just happened more naturally and gradually, whether slower or faster... and here I am talking about a matter of weeks to months

there has been times in which women have approached me with the interest of that, a more sexual approach, even with the interest of casual sex or just sex, but personally I have never been into that or willing to do that, is just not my thing, lol... so I don't entertain these approaches too much, I just find the best way to let them know that is just not how I go about these things

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Would it bother you if a woman pursued you?

Nope I’m not bothered. It’s happened before and if she’s attractive i liked it and if she wasn’t I let her know I’m not interested.

If she was really keen, text first thing "good morning, hope you have a good day... And called you every night?

That could get annoying after a while. But instead if she asked me out that’s better.

Have you ever met a woman you felt was too good for you? And what did you do?

Yep that happened a lot in high school. I decided to be friends with her.

If a woman joked that she was stronger than you and could man handle you how would you feel?

I’d just pick her up and ask her how’s she getting down.

How do you feel about a woman that talks about and pushes for sex really early?

Talking is no big deal. It’s a topic most enjoy. Pushing too early I just communicate my boundaries and rarely have had to push her off.

BlueStripedSoul · Answer

- "Would it bother you if a woman pursued you?"

No, not at all. It's nice to feel wanted and appreciated. It goes both ways. Nor do I feel it's explicitly "a man's job" to ask a woman out. If either one of us has feelings for each other it's totally okay for either person to approach the other to say so. Nor do I feel a woman is "desperate" for pursuing and/or asking either. That's just silly.

- "If she was really keen, text first thing 'good morning, hope you have a good day'... and called you every night?"

Again, that's totally okay because it's nice to feel loved and appreciated. That kind of effort is something I feel should be a two-way street, because it shows you care. It's not one person's job to initiate that. It should be genuinely and mutually reciprocated.

- Have you ever met a woman you felt was too good for you?

No, because I feel good people (and things) come to good people.

- If a woman joked that she was stronger than you and could man handle you how would you feel?

Couldn't care less. If she's stronger, then good on her. 👍 I'd love her either way and I would not feel "emasculated" or "inferior" in any way. That's just insecure nonsense.

- "How do you feel about a woman that talks about and pushes for sex really early?"

Well, "pushing" for it, perhaps not, but I think as long as we both feel a connection it's okay for either of us to initiate sex. The amount of time just varies from situation to situation. Just don't "push", persuade, coerce, shame or manipulate someone for it. It can be okay to initiate sex if you both have feelings for each other, but in the case the other person is not ready for it (regardless of gender) you have to be respectful of that and not take it any further. It's a matter of respect and genuine care.

DaveJord · Answer

So my current girlfriends and I text good morning and good night every day, and she calls me every day... and we had sex on the third date and she does all types of truly amazing and awesome things for me... and I love it and I love her... and I try to make her just as happy as she makes me.

At no point in the last 8 months has there been any type of games or foolishness. As far as role reversal I am not sure what that means... unless you mean who should call who or text first, or coordinating dates, or not responding to each other.. never was a problem with this women. I got no time for women like that, maybe when I was 20 but I am grown man not at 45 and I won't up with childish stuff like that.
Women should work just as hard within relationship as men do. It is not about who should do what, if is it something you want to do you do it for the other person... and you should not feel forced or pressured... it just happens by itself, no stress or drama and when things come up just be honest , express your feelings and work it out. It's only has hard as you make it people. But don't put up with silliness either.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Nope, it's happened to me a few times. I don't believe any one gender has the sole responsibility if initiating and I find it attractive when I meet someone who does things their own way.

The texting and calling thing is kind of a requirement to me. I'm not the kind of guy who needs to talk on the phone every night but we should have a good amount of contact almost every day. Especially as adults.

I never met a woman I thought was too good for me. I have met women who I didn't feel like I could offer them what they wanted though and it made me sad. But that has more to do with compatibility. I was honest, we stayed in lust for a while and things naturally broke off.

I'm a pretty big guy so pretty much everyone I've ever dated "joked" like that with me. It's cute. If she actually was stronger than me, I would find it sexy that she worked so hard to be on the same level (or higher) as me and it would make me respect her more.

And about her pushing for and talking about sex early, I guess it depends. If she seems like she's excited to have sex with ME, then I'm down for it. Wouldn't be expecting anything long term but I wouldn't be opposed to it just because of that.

MCheetah · Answer

"Would it bother you if a woman pursued you?"
No, not at all. I don't know why girls think it would.

"If she was really keen, text first thing, good morning, hope you have a good day... And called you every night?"
It wouldn't bother me, but I'd tell her I wouldn't always be available.

"Have you ever met a woman you felt was too good for you? And what did you do?"
Yes. The one love of my life was not only too good for me in personality, but also taller than me by 4.5 inches as well.

"If a woman joked that she was stronger than you and could manhandle you how would you feel?"
I'd tell her to prove it by wrestling me.

"How do you feel about a woman that talks about and pushes for sex really early?"
I wouldn't believe her.

Th3ft · Answer

So my ex was all of this. Lol! I always pushed back and she loved that because she knew she wasn’t totally stronger then I was. But she had been a gymnast for a long time and was amazingly strong. She also did ask me to hangout a bunch at the beginning. And then finally started telling me that I had to ask her dad to ask if I could date her and that I needed to date her before doing things we both wanted to do. So I guess she kind of pushed me in to a lot and I liked that

so I guess I do like it when she does all of that. Haha!!

Massageman · Answer

Lots of questions there - - - -

Pursuit? It sure would have made things easier.

Constant texting? This might get a bit tedious or boring after the first week or two.

Too good? Possibly one, but I never realized it in 8th grade! At my 50th High School reunion, it turned out that this gal had a crush on me in elementary school, but I kinda knew that. But there was another lady (who I never realized) was keen on me, even though I was very geeky back then. And she is still holding onto her good looks and young (facial) cheeks.

Stronger? Come to my house and help me re-lay some patio stones- I'm expanding a patio and need some help. Of course, we could always wrestle a bit , too ; - )

Well, I'm "off the market" for sex. But before I got married, that might have made things easier, too!

NovaCourier · Answer

I am bothered by absolutely none of these things. I have no crisis of confidence in my masculinity because I'm with a strong or assertive girl. Masculinity is really a matter of perspective.

I actually like and respect girls like this because they have the confidence and courage to give the proverbial middle finger to society's expectations.

Phoenix98 · Answer

1# nope it wouldn’t bother me it’s never happened though.

2# Hmm 🤔 I don’t think so no.

3# I’d tell her she’s wrong because she would be. But if she really wanted to test it she’s more then welcome to joint me on the mat and find out.

4# If I’m comfortable with it then fine if not I’m not gonna do it I do not enjoy being pushed into stuff I'm not comfortable doing or that I don’t want to do.

Zolly99999 · Answer

I've had women pursue me in the past and make the first moves. I'm ok with it. I was quite flattered.

Yes I have met many women I thought were to good for me in the past. I didn't bother with them as I thought the failure rate was too high. I don't feel this way any more though.

Sure no problem if she stronger then me. Wouldn't bother me a bit.

I like if they push for sex early in definitely into that.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Showing interest from her I'm cool with. Her being nice and all I'm fine with. Calling me everyday is a no go. I'm not a fan of that at all unless she has something meaningful to say to me.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

If you want to get laid and you’re attractive, no one will object. If you want a relationship, you have to find a feminine man and you have to be the masculine woman pretty much the entire relationship. Can’t flip flop, it will end badly. Know who you are.

RobT312 · Answer

Never experienced your examples, but I had an aggressive girlfriend that kept pushing dates. It didn’t work out, not because of that , but I didn’t like her pushing dates either.

exitseven · Answer

I have been pursued by women, too bad it happened after I got married. My wife is definitely too good for me.  I dated a girl who was very strong. She was stronger than a lot of guys.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

I’d welcome it if she’s truly interested in me and just wants to get to know me. I think I’d view it as awesome

MrCommodore · Answer

No its perfectly fine, so long as she doesn't become a psycho stalker. It's not that a girl has to make the first move, just initiate signs of interest

TonyV · Answer

So basiclly exactly what we want? No that wouldn't bother us.

Rizwan_khan · Answer

It is really good infact men want these type of women but it is not happend to us. No girl ever done this to me.

athlete_7 · Answer

I would love that un fortunately that never happens

Keepitreal007 · Answer

Sounds good to me. Ok fine with that stuff.

Juxtapose · Answer

I would be absolutely thrilled with that arrangement and work harder to keep her as a result!

Methis · Answer

You know I'd find that very arousing as I'm normally the chaser

Waldoe · Answer

I have dated women like this and I enjoyed it... a lot

Charliefretz329 · Answer

I love being pursued! It shows the girl cares! I think both people should pursue each other

joeldalton · Answer

I’m fine being pursued, but remember I’m the man in the relationship.

Mgtow1990 · Answer

Might as well be I mean men are nothing so I guess have to accept the beta role and let every single women just walk all over you

Anonymous · Answer

Most men would prefer the female make the first move. It’s better than being accused of a sex crime.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, had that before but all that might be a tad excessive Probably and nothing Try it  Red flags

FilmGuy93 · Answer

We enjoy being pursued.

Xtendable · Answer

Sounds familiar

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