Why do guys match you on tinder but dont message you?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Why don't women? (they don't either). And I think that's why, often we get no response either way. I'm often unmatched actually as soon as I do message them, so now I don't even bother personally. I wait for them to (which they never do). So personally that's my story. Probably for many guys it's the same?

[MrHopper]

Variety of reasons, could be they just trying to see what "they worth" i know a female friend who matches with people to just get a little bit of "i can't be that bad!" vibe

[Asker]

So they dont want to talk per say? Are they still single?

[MrHopper]

Again can vary i guess, this female friend i know is in a relationship

[boggboss]

Could be anything from just swiped right on anything found someone better to talk to wanted the girl to message first

[Gent207]

Because a large portion of profiles are bots or fuckboys

[FictionalCharacter]

How do you know?

[Gent207]

@FictionalCharacter
Personal experience plus testimonials from female friends that used the app

[Anonymous]

Because girls match on tinder for the attention and ego stroke but don’t actually want us to talk to them.

Here’s a novel idea... write them first!

[Dnc_21]

Exactly lol

[FictionalCharacter]

Girls do, and guys are like “sup” and *boom* ghosted.

[Opinion Owner]

@FictionalCharacter Haha yeah ummm if you chase fuck boy douchebags.

[spartan55]

Did you message them? Why do girls do this?

[qwert1234]

Why don't girls take initiative instead?

[tanvishah123]

That's why i don't use online dating sites

[DavidRaul]

Well i have experienced just the opposite.

[KrakenAttackin]

Same reason women do this.

[In_Trance]

They have other options