How did you stop being a pickme and how has it changed you?

[Iz9eu5yd]

I noticed that im not as obsessed with looking perfect 24 7 in front of others. Also i just stopped worshipping males. Most of them especially the ones pickmes worship are basically egotistic narcissists whos entire aim is to make womem feel inadequate so they set these ridiculous shallow standards like they are a god or something and judge women based off it. For example when women get surgery to have the "perfect" body features like Kim K is obsessed with her appearance and surgery. Its pathetic.

[SiberFox]

I don't understand the whole "pickme is bad", isn't the whole point of finding a relationship to be "picked"? For both men and women. Girls hate being told to change for their partner, but the whole point of self-improvement is to change yourself to be more desireable to a future partner. Be a pickme, but know by what kind of persob you want to be picked. Have standards basically.