Do you prefer her to wear sexy š or casual š„¹ on the first date? First impressions always count. What do you think? š§
If I was single and dating again, for a first date, Iād prefer them to wear what they usually wearāsomething that expresses who they are. Or, to dress for the occasion according to the venue.
The first date an the opportunity to leave a good first impressionāto help someone get to know you. Itās one big vibe check. Itās do I really like you and do I think weād make an amazing team? Are you fun? Are you interesting? Are you charming? Are you great company? How do you make me feel? Relaxed? Excited? Bored? Are there any red flags or dealbreakers right off the bat?
All of those things are pretty much outfit independent. Because to get to know someone, itāll be through conversations and interactions and experiences.
But, of course there are a couple ways of dressing they they should avoid like looking trashy or looking like a slob. Just be presentable, be yourself, and everything will be okay. 🤙
Seeing them in something that fits the social setting is definitely a positive thing to me, I wouldnāt want us to be over or under dressed.
Casual and comfy-
I usually know my date before going out with him so he is already aware of my style, look, and how I am, so there's no real need to impress him.
Keep in mind ladies, you can be casual and still look good to impress your date. Sexy would be for a special occasion in my opinion.
It depends on my date honestly and where we are going. If this is someone that I know very well then I relax a bit and I dress more sexy casual. If it is someone I donāt know very well and Iām trying to impress sadly I go full sexy 😂
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Super sexy >>> flattered and try my best to keep cool and make her feel wanted and appreciated
Covered up >>> still flattered and compliment her that she looks stunning
What? You thought my reactions would wary? It doesn't really matter to me if she dresses up sexy or casual for our first date because if we've come here, chances are I really like her a lot. I don't open up to just about anyone because I still have trust issues about who to let in after what my ex did, so if we're here, this girl must really be special if I'm willing to give her a chance.
Regardless of what she wears, I'll compliment her and give a positive response as long as she looks like she's put effort into what she's wearing and she's glad to be there and spend some quality time with me - and not bored or uninterested and looking like she could be doing something else instead, like the date is forced.
When I go on dates with my SO, we usually both get dolled up! Dates are supposed to be magical, happy, & fun, experiences so definitely dress for the occasion! 🤗🌼 If it's something like an escape room or an outdoor date, then of course dress in something more casual.
It's been so long lol š¤£ I remember our first date was dressy though
That's true! We went out the other night for my birthday š I was semi casual dress for dinner and movie.. he loves anything I wear he says all the time lol š¤£
It needs to be appropriate to the date.
seeing someone dressed up sexy etc and then driving to local stables for an afternoon horse riding and picnic on beach would be not really a good look.
equally a ballon flight, mountain biking up into hills and picnic.
Iāve taken a girl axe throwing and she struggled in her blouse and skirt.
Dates are about dressing comfortably and something you are confident wearing, like donāt wear high heels if you do not usually wear them, it looks bad when they walk.
I like to be able to tell that she was excited about the date and wanted to look her best. Does her hair look pretty, is she wearing any makeup or scent, did she fuss over her choice in clothing?
I think the best bet is to wear something pretty that subtly shows off her waist and hips. Not too casual but not over dressed. Comfortable and casual but nice.
I'd prefer a mid-calf length skirt or dress. The top can have a neckline that shows a bit of decalotage without being overly revealing. The top can be loose or tight. With or without bra is fine. I don't think braless behind clothing is promiscuous at all.
Dress to impress 🥰 or more like dress for the occasion. If youāre going to see a movie or coffee dresss casually but to go for dinner or to a club ouuuu dress really nice to show him/her what theyāre going to be missing if they donāt behave 😇
I think casual. A first date to me seems. ore like getting to know each other it shouldn't be high pressure and well she shouldn't be expected to dress up.
The fact is if you end up dating you'll see her in casual clothes more then dressed up. And anyway you don't need to dress up to look good.
If you wish to that's cool, but I don't know it could also be something she could do you know wait for a special occasion and kinda wow the guy. As I'm sure a few women at least would enjoy the reaction.
But as to what to say. Well I believe you should always be polite and respectful yes it's okay to compliment her and say that she looks pretty or the like. Maybe even compliment what she's wearing but there a caution to that as some things come across as creepy.
I hope what I've said makes sense and doesn't come across as wrong or offensive.
As a woman looks presentable, I don't mind sexy or casual. You would think this was a no-brainer, but no it isn't. I dated someone from a dating app. First, she had no pix (that should have been my first clue!). Then she shows up late for our date wearing a crappy stained sweatshirt, baggy grey trackpants and running shoes (and no, she wasn't out jogging!)
That was the first and last date!
If she shows up super provocative, I get a little confused. But I play along. If she's casual, and so am I, great. We can enjoy our time together without any pressure or expectations. Play everything by ear.
I think honestly I think Iād prefer to see her dressed up in causal manner, or maximum in formal attire. This is an appreciable index of āseriousnessā in the date appointmentā¦ I see sincerely the ones who wear sexy outfits at first appointment as ones who want absolutely to like to the other, so something forceful.
I'd prefer comfortablity if both people are at their most comfortable with what they are wearing it usually will allow for a more truthful and imagitive date it allows for them to be able to open up and not have the issue of did I over dress compared to the other and for both it can leave the sense of wonder about how they may appear when they dress up
I'm not dating any more... I have an SO. When I was dating, I wore something casual and nice, and it was always good when she wore the same. If she was wearing something hot and sexy, that was a hint that she was looking for sex, which, depending on my mood, was either okay or not.
This is for me. Men do not know this. But if I do not dress up for a date, it means I am not nervous and I am not actually interested in the date.
When I was dating I was just happy that she choose to go out with me. If the date was something that required special clothing then I would let her know other wise. I preferred my Dat to be comfortable in whatever she wore because she looked beautiful and sexy in whatever she wore.
First impressions are important sure, but I don't think I have ever cared what a girl is wearing on a date.
Definitely casual. I mean I have no problem with her taking pride in her appearance. But there's a definite line between trying to look good and just trying to show off. Woman that show off come off as car salesmen to me. And I don't like car salesmen. If I wasn't physically attracted to her at all I wouldn't be on a date with her. I mote interested in learning more about who she is at this point. Because if we don't mesh it doesn't matter how attractive she is.
Super sexy makes me love them even more, but not if they dress like a hoe lol
If they dress modestly but they look good (in good shape/ nice clothing) it isn't as flashy but if you love the girl it doesn;t matter so much. I'd say for the earlier dates 1-5 or so dress to impress lol
Depends on what we're doing and what I want from him
m I'll prefer anything she is comfortable with and confident in... I want her genuine, not pretending or trying to calculate any impression
be yourself, and I will prefer that every single time
I like to dress sexy for dates to show the guy I really wanted to go on the date. I feel like if I dress too casual he might think I wasn't interested or not taking the date seriously.
I'd want her to dress however she normally dresses so I will get to know her better instead of her putting on a fake show to try to impress me with behavior that likely won't continue if I was actually in a relationship with her.
Sexier the better as far as I, m concerned. No bra, nipples poking out to get him excited to want sex with me.
Hot momma! Iām always needing a daddy! LOL
I don't do sexy to well I was taught to find a guy who loves you for you to dress Modest and clean don't get me wrong I don't where sweats to a date but I don't show up half necked either I'm just Beautifully modest
depends on where we are going. if it is a nice dinner date at a fancy restraunt it will probably be a knee length body hugging dress showing off just a bit of cleavege. if it is a nightclub or something a shorter flowyish dress is a better option to the library or arcade is probably jeans and a nice tee. shorts and sneakers to a cafe date and so on the place is honestly very suggestive of the outfit
I find classy and casual to be sexy. Just because more skin is shown doesnāt mean they are being sexy. Thatās honestly how media interprets sex appeal which isnāt really the case.
Depends on where weāre going.
honestly if your clean and dressed decently then Iām fine with that. Besides the right kind of woman can make even a t-shirt and pair of jeans sexy.
Been in a relationship for a year and a half if I like a woman, Iāll try and impress her. Sheās into music maybe Iāll rep some band shirts or whatever. Iām into sports so Iāll throw on a jersey or Iāll throw on a boxing hoodie w/eā¦ I used to be a big time nerd at one point in school so I got dress shirts to the 9z as well.
If it were a single mom but still liked her as long as I built a good relationship b4 hand seen potential. Iād dick her down dress hot as fuxk and what not.
I mean, it depends on the date. Most dates have been casual
I live in LA, and I'd probably wear jeans, a fitted shirt, and heeled sandals if it wasn't too hot out. If it were, I'd wear a mini dress and the same shoes.
I like it when there not afraid to be causal
No makeup Jean shorts or yoga pants
Sneakers
Pretty much the more she looks like weāre about to go do something fun the better
Bonus if we go do something funā¦
I just wear a normal outfit. I can understand the desire to look extra but really, on first date I just wanna look like myself.
Classy. Somewhere in between. We got some sex appeal, but we also got some casual, some chill.
I personally don't care what she wears, and I don't see why others think it's a big deal.
I guess I would only be turned off by the "librarian" look. Because then I might think that she doesn't like to play sports.
@Pinay_ako No, I don't mean office outfits. The "librarian" look is a certain look that says "I like to stay indoors."
But damnit, Pinay, I said I didn't care. And then you made me have an opinion. So I gave you one. And now you're trying to make me defend my opinion! šš
Ohh okay. Lol š
All covered up in shapeless clothing? That's a turn-off. There's a middle ground between sexless and highly suggestive.
If you're going to a sporting event only a moron would expect high heels ROFL
@BigWhiteWolf87 Of course. High heels aren't required. A person can look attractive while appropriately dressed for most occasions.
I'd just follow my style, which I'd call street-chic
Sexy but not over the top is best. I definitely prefer that she wear something that wouldn't QUITE be appropriate to wear at the office.
On my first date with my now husband, I went for just looking like I know how to dress myself. (Casual)
casual, if we have even a chance of dating, you gotta know what i usually wear without thinking i dress up every single day
The mind goes south... like.
Is she wearing granny panties or surprise! it ur birthday panties. I hope she ain't a dude. I hope her dad was in her life. Because I ain't a therapist.
To me it should depend on what the first date is going to be. For example: picnic in the park, anime convention, nice restaurant
I'm usually a very modest dresser. I've talked publicly about modesty. On my first date with hubby I dressed a little sexier than my usual style. He noticed, and the date ended well.
I used to dress nicely sometimes sexy but never in a revealing way.
It depends on the venue. Dinner and dancing: flashy. Chinese Buffet and a movie, casual.
If I were going on a date I would dress casual nothing revealingly sexy.
Honestly if it's the first date I'm just happy to be meeting her. lol. she can wear what ever she wants.
I would rather see her dressed casually. It's only the first date
I think it depends on the place more than the person there :)
Honestly casual, of you don't like me dressed down you don't deserve to see me dressed up
How she dresses definitely says something about her intentions.
For me,
Super sexy = my reaction is wow!
Casual = my reaction is warmth.
Both types of attire are still attractive to me.
@Pinay_ako If I see my date super sexy or covered up, I'd question her intention.
I'd rather she dress casual. Its way sexier that way.
obviously sexy dress
Casual/athletic/streetwear
Casually well dressed
Nice casual... it's a safe middle ground.
It depends on where we are going
Definitely casual.
It depends on where Iām going, I guess. 🤷🏽āāļø
I'm always sexy on first dates.
We all show our good an best side
I like a nice, sexy outfit
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