Do you prefer her to wear sexy š or casual š„¹ on the first date? First impressions always count. What do you think? š§
If I was single and dating again, for a first date, Iād prefer them to wear what they usually wearāsomething that expresses who they are. Or, to dress for the occasion according to the venue.
The first date an the opportunity to leave a good first impressionāto help someone get to know you. Itās one big vibe check. Itās do I really like you and do I think weād make an amazing team? Are you fun? Are you interesting? Are you charming? Are you great company? How do you make me feel? Relaxed? Excited? Bored? Are there any red flags or dealbreakers right off the bat?
All of those things are pretty much outfit independent. Because to get to know someone, itāll be through conversations and interactions and experiences.
But, of course there are a couple ways of dressing they they should avoid like looking trashy or looking like a slob. Just be presentable, be yourself, and everything will be okay. 🤙
Seeing them in something that fits the social setting is definitely a positive thing to me, I wouldnāt want us to be over or under dressed.
Casual and comfy-
I usually know my date before going out with him so he is already aware of my style, look, and how I am, so there's no real need to impress him.
Keep in mind ladies, you can be casual and still look good to impress your date. Sexy would be for a special occasion in my opinion.
It depends on my date honestly and where we are going. If this is someone that I know very well then I relax a bit and I dress more sexy casual. If it is someone I donāt know very well and Iām trying to impress sadly I go full sexy 😂
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Super sexy >>> flattered and try my best to keep cool and make her feel wanted and appreciated
Covered up >>> still flattered and compliment her that she looks stunning
What? You thought my reactions would wary? It doesn't really matter to me if she dresses up sexy or casual for our first date because if we've come here, chances are I really like her a lot. I don't open up to just about anyone because I still have trust issues about who to let in after what my ex did, so if we're here, this girl must really be special if I'm willing to give her a chance.
Regardless of what she wears, I'll compliment her and give a positive response as long as she looks like she's put effort into what she's wearing and she's glad to be there and spend some quality time with me - and not bored or uninterested and looking like she could be doing something else instead, like the date is forced.
When I go on dates with my SO, we usually both get dolled up! Dates are supposed to be magical, happy, & fun, experiences so definitely dress for the occasion! 🤗🌼 If it's something like an escape room or an outdoor date, then of course dress in something more casual.
It needs to be appropriate to the date.
seeing someone dressed up sexy etc and then driving to local stables for an afternoon horse riding and picnic on beach would be not really a good look.
equally a ballon flight, mountain biking up into hills and picnic.
Iāve taken a girl axe throwing and she struggled in her blouse and skirt.
Dates are about dressing comfortably and something you are confident wearing, like donāt wear high heels if you do not usually wear them, it looks bad when they walk.
I like to be able to tell that she was excited about the date and wanted to look her best. Does her hair look pretty, is she wearing any makeup or scent, did she fuss over her choice in clothing?
I think the best bet is to wear something pretty that subtly shows off her waist and hips. Not too casual but not over dressed. Comfortable and casual but nice.
I'd prefer a mid-calf length skirt or dress. The top can have a neckline that shows a bit of decalotage without being overly revealing. The top can be loose or tight. With or without bra is fine. I don't think braless behind clothing is promiscuous at all.
Dress to impress 🥰 or more like dress for the occasion. If youāre going to see a movie or coffee dresss casually but to go for dinner or to a club ouuuu dress really nice to show him/her what theyāre going to be missing if they donāt behave 😇
I think casual. A first date to me seems. ore like getting to know each other it shouldn't be high pressure and well she shouldn't be expected to dress up.
The fact is if you end up dating you'll see her in casual clothes more then dressed up. And anyway you don't need to dress up to look good.
If you wish to that's cool, but I don't know it could also be something she could do you know wait for a special occasion and kinda wow the guy. As I'm sure a few women at least would enjoy the reaction.
But as to what to say. Well I believe you should always be polite and respectful yes it's okay to compliment her and say that she looks pretty or the like. Maybe even compliment what she's wearing but there a caution to that as some things come across as creepy.
I hope what I've said makes sense and doesn't come across as wrong or offensive.
As a woman looks presentable, I don't mind sexy or casual. You would think this was a no-brainer, but no it isn't. I dated someone from a dating app. First, she had no pix (that should have been my first clue!). Then she shows up late for our date wearing a crappy stained sweatshirt, baggy grey trackpants and running shoes (and no, she wasn't out jogging!)
That was the first and last date!
If she shows up super provocative, I get a little confused. But I play along. If she's casual, and so am I, great. We can enjoy our time together without any pressure or expectations. Play everything by ear.
I think honestly I think Iād prefer to see her dressed up in causal manner, or maximum in formal attire. This is an appreciable index of āseriousnessā in the date appointmentā¦ I see sincerely the ones who wear sexy outfits at first appointment as ones who want absolutely to like to the other, so something forceful.
I'd prefer comfortablity if both people are at their most comfortable with what they are wearing it usually will allow for a more truthful and imagitive date it allows for them to be able to open up and not have the issue of did I over dress compared to the other and for both it can leave the sense of wonder about how they may appear when they dress up
I'm not dating any more... I have an SO. When I was dating, I wore something casual and nice, and it was always good when she wore the same. If she was wearing something hot and sexy, that was a hint that she was looking for sex, which, depending on my mood, was either okay or not.
This is for me. Men do not know this. But if I do not dress up for a date, it means I am not nervous and I am not actually interested in the date.
When I was dating I was just happy that she choose to go out with me. If the date was something that required special clothing then I would let her know other wise. I preferred my Dat to be comfortable in whatever she wore because she looked beautiful and sexy in whatever she wore.
First impressions are important sure, but I don't think I have ever cared what a girl is wearing on a date.
Definitely casual. I mean I have no problem with her taking pride in her appearance. But there's a definite line between trying to look good and just trying to show off. Woman that show off come off as car salesmen to me. And I don't like car salesmen. If I wasn't physically attracted to her at all I wouldn't be on a date with her. I mote interested in learning more about who she is at this point. Because if we don't mesh it doesn't matter how attractive she is.
Super sexy makes me love them even more, but not if they dress like a hoe lol
If they dress modestly but they look good (in good shape/ nice clothing) it isn't as flashy but if you love the girl it doesn;t matter so much. I'd say for the earlier dates 1-5 or so dress to impress lol
Depends on what we're doing and what I want from him
u I'll prefer anything she is comfortable with and confident in... I want her genuine, not pretending or trying to calculate any impression
be yourself, and I will prefer that every single time
I like to dress sexy for dates to show the guy I really wanted to go on the date. I feel like if I dress too casual he might think I wasn't interested or not taking the date seriously.
I'd want her to dress however she normally dresses so I will get to know her better instead of her putting on a fake show to try to impress me with behavior that likely won't continue if I was actually in a relationship with her.
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