DDid the White women in your family ever try to stop you from liking Asian women?

[Chris_8036]

I'm a White male and I can remember my mother and my aunts basically teaching me to be racist against Asian girls. They would make fun of their eyes, they would tell me that she will eat my cat and dogs. They would even refer to the local Asian owned gas station as the Ch**ks. It upsets me now because I literally love Asian women more than any other women on the planet. To this day my mother tells me not to date Asian women, and I tell her that they're the only ones I'm really attracted to.

I feel like the White women in my family were always jealous of Asian women and basically tried to sabotage me from dating one.

Yes, the White women in my family taught me to be racist against Asian women.

No, I was racist all on my own.

Something else, see comments.

[KostasKouvalis]

Pretty much, and they have good reason. My cousin dated some Asians, Chanqua and Bomi Kim, and we bullied him so much for it. He was getting pissed at us and calling us "racists", but then they ended up dumping them when he wouldn't sponsor them and pay for their college, and tell me who was right? He ended up marrying a White girl😂 People aren't racist for no reason.
I still can't believe he actually wanted to marry a girl named Chanqua😂

I still remember the first time he brought her over. He was calling her, "Janet". "Janet". We were all expecting a hot, White blonde Canadian girl. We all freshened up, dress nice, made a fire place, ordered pizza. Then instead of Janet, a Chanqua showed up. My family was fucking pissed!

My dad also cheated on my mom with Asian bitches on multiple occasions. I don't know why so many men in my family love Asians so much, since literally no one in our family on either side, is in an interracial marriage. I was getting shit for liking Indian girls, when Asians are far worse!

[Anonymous]

no but i never really dated any Asian women , only local Asian women i can recall were a korean family that owned a nearby store but never really knew them that well

[Chris_8036]

There was a Korean family in our town too.
I remember watching the girl writing in Korean in the 3rd grade and thinkng she's a ninja. Way later on when were teenagers she was flirting with me a bit, but I was hung up on the White girls in my class and I mostly ignored her. She was getting perfect grades and telling on me for misbehaving when the teacher was out of the classroom usually. If I would've only known how I would end up loving Asian women. I guess my brain hadn't fully developed yet at that point or something.

[Opinion Owner]

i never really went to school with any of them , must of been older or younger that i never had any classes with them. there still around now , have a restaurant in town now , had tried it once but wasn't really my thing but seems to be doing ok

[LazerBean]

The majority of people I know like Asian women. And I'm just assuming that the ones who don't keep quiet about it because it's not really socially acceptable.

[Chris_8036]

I think so too. I also think Asian beauty is something that's difficult to compete with.
I'm 42, I was married to a Native woman and to this day my mother still mumbles under her breath to me about Asian women. I think it's because her boyfriend still keeps contact with his Filipina ex.
My mom feels threatened and she tells me to stay away from them. As if she has a choice of who I date, lol.

[LazerBean]

Ah yeah, jealousy can be a strong force lol

[Chris_8036]

It is. I remember my mom going out of her way to tell me that some chinese food place somewhere got shut down because they were eating cats or something. Like why try to scare me? My aunt would pull the skin around her eyes to make them narrow. They should've been encouraging me to make friends with Asian girls at a young age.

[LazerBean]

Lol some people are like that, but they're very few and far between. I will say that I am definitely suspicious of the chicken on a stick as well, but not enough to stop me from eating it 😂

[Chris_8036]

LoL!
Cats are annoying to me anyway.

[LazerBean]

That's fair 😂

[CALIGVLA]

Lol. White women know they will never be as good as Asian babes so it's just sour grapes on their part. They're butthurt losers.

[Chris_8036]

There's definitely some competition there.
My mother was kinda racist in general though because she actually told me not to bring home a Black girl either (Even though there were no Black people anywhere near us), because my mom said she would "Rob us." 😂

[CALIGVLA]

I've dated a lot of Latina babes and the white women in my family (except my mother, she's OK with my choices) HATED them. Now I'm dating an Asian babe and they still hate her. 😆

[CALIGVLA]

White female acquaintances also seem to be bothered when they see me and my Asian girlfriend together. Always in a passive-aggressive way.

[Chris_8036]

Oh yes, I'm sure they whisper "Fetish, fetish, fetish" to each other because of course a, White man would need to have some weird fetish to find Asian women attractive.
Some White women think Asian women are ugly just because they don't look like them.
They need to open their minds.

[CALIGVLA]

They also hated my Latina exes. I was used to hearing from them that Latinas are moochers, they "probably have drug dealing brothers," gold diggers, have attitude etc. Now I hear that "white men dehumanize Asian girls," "Asian girls hate themselves because of colonialism and wannna land a white man," are "white worshippers," etc.

Super normal and healthy, aren't they?

[Chris_8036]

Yeah it seems like they try every angle of manipulation to drive a wedge between White men and any viable alternative to marrying White women. It's quite a twisted game.

[CALIGVLA]

They fear we're getting addicted to Asian girls... 😂

[Chris_8036]

There's something there, a bit of jealousy.
It's apparent that some White women want to explore their preference for Black guys in their 20's, but then have a plan of marrying and having kids with a White guy. They don't necessarily want to marry a black guy, and if White men and Asian women are having families together it kind of ruins the White woman's retirement plan. She has less options the more White men are free to fall in Love with Asian women. That's why some White women date Black guys while simultaneously shame some White men and Asian women for being together. She wants her White men under control and waiting to take care of her in the end.

[-Asca-]

@CALIGVLA No way, you‘re that guy from Whisper right? 💀💀💀

[MikeInHawaii]

I wonder how large parts of my family would have reacted if I married any non-white woman. I would have done it anyway, I’m just wondering what the reaction would have been.

[fatmucho]

Asian women r beautiful, and being racist is wrong, but yknow, all women hate me lol :'''( but my family is ok with any race

[Snakeyes7]

I have no idea why they would be against it considering I have Asian friends.

[Waldoe]

nope.. neither... I like them all and no one has tried to change me

[Anonymous]

Asians are the second most beautiful women on earth after white women love them both

[NeffexSelfMade]

what lol

[Chris_8036]

Yeah, that's what I remember from my childhood. I think back now and realize how some of the women in my family kind of groomed me to stay away from Asian women. It irritates me because they're all I want.