What will be your opinion in this situation?

[Anonymous]

There is this ex, I just started seeing again. I broke up before, to understand after years that it was some miscommunication. He told me he loves me and sometimes going ask me to go out with him and his friends like our relationship was before. I told him that we should take things slow this time but we did go on some dates and see each other sometimes and today I'm really falling hard for him again. I want to tell him I love him, and love the pets name calling idea he said last time. I am even finding him more and more attractive than before. I really can't get him out of my mind. I would really like to tell him about all that but I'm not sure how to tell him all that and how he will take it or should I take some times. What do you think I should do about it?

[Guy13]

I think you should not tell him and back off. You are the one who suggested to go slowly but yet you are thinking of pushing the envelope with such a declaration. I would be confused both by it and you... don't do what you say.. unable to do what you ask others to do. That is an inconsistency and once you have that label Security/Trust is over and relationship can implode. Hope this all works out as you wish it too.

[Wise4myage]

Why not give him a second chance, just be cautious.

[Asker]

I'm giving him, but I am just hidding my feelings. Hidding it is becoming more and more difficult for me

[Wise4myage]

Then stop hiding your feelings.

[EmmaMary]

Personally I would try to hold back a little longer on expressing your feelings and emotions... Just give it slightly more time to get your head straight and clear.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.