In general, would you rather be more or less sexually experienced than your partner?

[AndrésC64]

This is not talking about every person you date. This is about holding a gun to your head and asking you for a general overall preference. Anyone who says anything other than "more" or "less" will have their answer deleted. And please vote in the poll. I'm interested to see whether there's any difference between guys and girls.

Thanks!

I would rather be more experienced

I would rather that they are more experienced

[DizzyDesii]

I guess more experienced than him. I haven't done much but I’ve done enough. I tend to fall for virgins anyways but i like virgins who have a little bit of knowledge that they’ve learned through research and porn. Out of the two I had sex with, one had sex before I lost my virginity to him and the other was a virgin. The one who was not a virgin definitely seemed like one and didn't know what the heck he was doing. The one who was a virgin fcked like a pro because he did his homework before trying to step into the “adult” world. But I always said having more partners doesn't make you more experienced. Its all in what you know and how you’d go about putting it into words and action. Matter of fact, in HS, sex Ed didn't even teach us the body parts and shit. It just showed us pics of diseases and urged us to never do have sex. My first boyfriend and I grew up on softporn that didn't show shit but tits and ass, and had no idea what a clit was. So when we had sex at 15, he was aiming for the hole and never rubbed my clit because apparently neither of us knew what that was for. I didn't do my research until I was about 17 when a friend guy talked dirty to me and had me tease my clit. And then at 20, I started watching regular hardcore porn and full on learned how to finger myself/masturbate. Thats when i learned what worked for me like nipple play and stuff as well. At 15, he came but I dont even remember orgasming until our last few times doing it at age 16 and even then I had no idea our cum would look similar so I used to freak out that omg he prob just came in me because this stuff is oozing out of me 😂 And then he’d purposely try to make me think I was pregnant and would rub and kiss my tummy. He was such an awful dude. But yea We had no fckin business having sex at that age. When I had sex with the virgin guy, i was like 22 and we knew what we were doing for once. However we were eachothers first oral. Plus i had been with guys between him and the other guy, but didn't have sex with them, I just did other foreplay things that taught us stuff. So the sex was better and I def knew when I was cumming lol

[AnnaTumbles]

Good question

I'm guessing i'd lean more towards having more experience than my guy but as of now , I literally have 0 experience , so probably for the next few years Its going to be me who has less experience ;-0

[AndrésC64]

🙂 Everybody has to start somewhere. Learning is the fun part.

[dustybiker]

When in a new relationship both parties will learn from each other regardless. We are always learning.

[AndrésC64]

Learning is the fun part.

[dustybiker]

Agreed.

[Nikki1989]

Less. I love being taught new things, if at all possible. 😜

[AndrésC64]

I'd probably say less too. But I guess it could be fun to be able to teach someone new things.

[Cherry234]

I'd rather have my partner be more experienced.

[AndrésC64]

Yeah, me too. I mean I guess it could be cool to introduce your partner to new things. But having to do that all the time I think could get boring.

[menina]

I would rather them to be more experienced than me. I have no experience so it would be good to be with someone who could teach me some things.

[QuietRunner]

my first time I want her more experience

new partner a little more experienced

[Berethor]

I prefer a virgin over a ho.

[fonduegirl]

More.