All women who are single are single by choice. I don’t see how anyone can prove me wrong?

[Anonymous]

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+1 y

Lots of triggered women on here. 🤣

[Qdbrown]

Depends on who you are talking about?

Young ladies from barely legal to about 25 are fairly open to dating and seeing what the dating market is all about. They are least likely to have high standards, although most likely the most idealistic.

It's the 25 to 35 year old women who are a mystery. Many have a long list of must-haves. Of course there are exceptions. If man is great looking and is exciting, the scroll of must-have's gets ignored to her own peril. She is extremely choosey, and this is almost all single women. To the point of just wanting to window shop of the dating apps, and maintaining long online conversations.

If you get right down to it, many women spend too much time online. Back in the day, people met at school, parties and work. You got know their basic personalities quickly. Guys were tale quickly if they were attracted to them, and often one thing led to another. Now, women are waiting out for the very best guy. They can be very beautiful or dog ugly, but they all have their sights on a select few, if nearly a non-existent man that is so built up, no local average guy will ever measure up.

But these women, in their groups, keep talking about this one guy, and they all seem to chase that one allusive guy, and let's say that one really impressive guy is local, almost all those women will bend over backwards to get his attention. They will go into his weekly or monthly billing schedule. She might start out as a Tuesday night girl. If he is really top-tier, she might be the early evening girl, and then there might be the late night girl. What's odd is these girls know these other gaggle of women are seeing this man, but oddly don't mind sharing. They see themselves just a little better, and hopes this great guy will notice and make her his one and only.

Of course the guy never settles down. When you have five to 30 girls you are seeing are all over you, a man is never going to settle down. Eventually she will give up, or even get bumped if he sees too much emotional bonding coming any of his girls who he just wants fun and adventure from, and this woman will get bitter over the whole deal. Then she will veg out, see some other guys and develop a very negative attitude about men in general, wondering why they all cheat? Why so they all leave her? Why are they all jerks and nasty perverts?

So now easy going average guys approach her, and she is either full of poison over her past, or worse, she realizes she spent too many years chasing the wrong guys, that she finds the first guys she can land to get married that dating and mating has been turned on its side in these modern times.

As for the 35-50 women, they begin to see the end of their dating life. If they just want to date recreationally, or don't demand much, they can have a guy around most of the time, depending how well her genetics hold up, or how well she can keep it together before she fades.

Women after 50, and much older just have to see what they can get. Their beat bet is to follow funerals and see if she can bag a widower who misses his dead spouse so much, that he is willing to be with any near match of his former wife, that he will pick up with the new woman where he left off with his dead wife. In earlier times, this would be a rebound relationship, but at older ages, people just fear being alone, falling and dying on a cold floor with no one to help them.

Now that is not to say there are some incredibly bad dudes out there that mess up the dating market. There are also a lot of nice guys who come at dating with the wrong ideas, often from single parent homes and or a weak silly father who doesn't understand than his task master wife who probably cheats on him... There is a lot of problems with men too...

[MCheetah]

Yep, basically.

Yeah, I'm using this meme again. Don't care.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t have sex before marriage and I don’t drive so I’m not popular with men, I know guys who asked me out but I turned them down cause they don’t wait til marriage.

[Asker]

Ok even if a guy wanted to wait you would still turn them down if they didn’t fit your criteria on looks/job etc. I’m one of the guys who doesn’t need to have a sexual relationship but it still isn’t getting me a girlfriend.

[jennifer_bloom]

I won’t automatically date a guy based on his chastity, he has to have other good qualities to. I’m flexible, he does not have to be both good looking and rich and funny, one good quality is enough if he is a good person.

[Asker]

Do you like cuddling and holding hands or is that also something you want to put off until marriage? I would be big on a snuggling and movie date.

[jennifer_bloom]

That is fine, but I don’t date people I don’t know in real life.

[Asker]

That’s fine I didn’t think so. Most people aren’t open to long distance relationships haha oh well.

[MikeInHawaii]

The only woman I ever went out with who, I believe, really was saving it for marriage gave the world’s most awesome back rubs.

[Sirenboobzilla]

I... FUCK I can't argue this one...

[Asker]

At least you own it unlike the others lol

[Sirenboobzilla]

I had to think on it cause my first response was like the other girls here. But then I think about how many guys ate shot down just because if stupid shit like their height and stuff. Whereas (and I know this is gonna sound arrogant) it's a lot harder for a guy to turn me down than it is for me to turn a gut away

[Asker]

That’s obvious lol. Sometimes I’ll just cope with my loneliness by listening to a girl singing a love song and closing my eyes imagining she’s singing it to me directly. Hahaha

[Sirenboobzilla]

And IIIIIIIIIIIIIII will always love youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

[Asker]

😍🥰🥺

[Pinay_ako]

Yes SOME women are single by choice. But not ALL. Same goes with men.

[MCheetah]

In what scenario would a woman not be single by choice? Femcels aren't a thing. Desperate women aren't a thing, even those 40 and older. Women willing to date men who are 'lesser" than them on the social ladder, is barely even a thing.

So where are all these "desperate" single women at?

[Pinay_ako]

@MCheetah when they CHOOSE NOT be with someone or anyone because they just don’t want to be! Why is that even a question?

[Pinay_ako]

Not every woman will have 86 guys proposing romance and Iove to them. Some are lucky to even have 5. Some men shouldn’t think they’re the only ones who have it bad… I’m tired of seeing about these name calling and branding of people. Let it go

[Asker]

@MCheetah they exist in a parallel universe I think.

[Asker]

Honestly miss “influencer” find me ONE woman who says she can’t get a boyfriend so I can ask her out. When she rejects me guess what? She is single by choice.

[Pinay_ako]

It’s her choice if she wants to be with you or not. If she decides not to be with you for some reason I don't know 🤷‍♀️, that’s on you not her. 😑 and don’t “influencer” me. I’m here to be nice. I don’t need you to use quote and quote on what Gag branded me… so please be nice back

[Asker]

I want to be nice but it seems everyone has an attitude on here. Surely you’ve come across it over your time here.

[Pinay_ako]

Did I give you an impression that I had attitude? Honestly, I have been attacked and ridiculed here but I never give anyone attitude first! But I fight back. So don’t come at me. I’m here to answer your question! If I’m not being helpful, just say thanks or disagree or say nothing at all! But be respectful and tactful! No wonder 💭 some guys get rejected because of this anger towards women who reject men in general! It’s unfair for someone like me who genuinely respect men and this is what I get? Oh please 🙄

[Asker]

You seem to be trolling me lol

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 I’m trolling you? 🤣 You’re anon, hiding behind whatever and I’m trolling you! Please block me I beg you! I can’t deal with you anymore bye 👋

[Asker]

Bye go make out with your abusive boyfriend/husband whatever you have.

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 gladly! Have a nice life with your hate towards women! Block me now please thanks ☺️

[Asker]

Hate towards what I can never have lol sure as if I have anything to lose 🤣

[MCheetah]

@Pinay_ako
All I asked was where are these women at who can't get a partner? Since you implied many women are not single by choice (which I don't believe).
Women date for convenience, not out of loneliness or feeling unwanted or anything. That's what men do. Men don't get too many options; women get endless options, but hold out for perfection, then claim "they can't find a guy" because he doesn't tick literally every perfection box.

So that's all I wanted to know. Where are these so-called "desperate, can't find a date" women at?

[Asker]

Exactly. The double standard isn’t even close to equal.

[ElementoP]

Lol whoa... this was fun to read. Now kiss and make up kids, that's enough

[Asker]

@ElementoP lol well I’m not kissing her for sure. She would call that harassment.

[ElementoP]

Lol... fair enough

[Ghostluck]

I have been rejected, I have done some rejecting of my own. Yet, even with all these helpings of rejection going around, I still have zero issues finding attractive, fun and intelligent women to enter in to relationships with. And I am insanely picky. I literally turn down more women than most men get due to my specific taste in women. And I would rate myself as a 5 +1 beer, lol. So if I can be as picky as I am, and I'm nothing but average on the looks scale and I still have zero issues getting women, I think perhaps it might have something to do with people confidence in themselves that may be preventing them from getting women. And this very thing applies to women as well. I can't tell you how many women I have shut down either because they lacked confidence or because they were way too confident that it approached a level of unattractive behavior due to it becoming extremely self entitled and self centered. So honestly, I think men who don't get dates often and women who don't get men often might have a bit of the same problems... and solutions.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If they are rejecting guys because they haven't found one they like, thats not being single by choice, thats stewing in frustration over being single because finding a match is hard.

Also guys have the same problem with girls just as often, everytime I find a match, she is either taken, or outside the US.

I'm liked by many more local women, but they aren't my type.

[7barbieringz]

Cuz back in the day women were pressured to get married and have kids before the age of 25, due to sexism and having to depend on a husband to provide.

Now women can provide for themselves and don't have to rush or settle. And sadly a lot of men (not all) aren't really worth settling down with.

Psychology studies actually show that single women are healthier and live longer

[Asker]

Well unless a wealthy man enters the picture. All of those successful women on onlyfans are being funded entirely by men. So women kind of depend on men single or not.

[scarletyes]

But not all successful women are on onlyfans.

[TonightYouu]

They weren’t pressured to get married they wanted to because marriage is extremely beneficial for women and children

[jestergent]

She would tell me 'i don't need no man' then you heard her cry through the walls a few times or once a week.

[Vegasrunner]

@7barbieringz Which studies are you refferring to? All that I have read claim the most unhappiest women are women 32-45 yr old career women who are single w/o children.

[7barbieringz]

@asker extremely misogynistic. That is a complete a total lie that you made up. I myself do not depend on a man at all, niether do a lot of women in my family as well as my friends, they have their own spot, car, etc and pay their own bills. You must not be from America because here, us women don't need an onlyfans at all to pay the bills. Stay mad at the truth

[7barbieringz]

@TonightYouu not true. Young women were always told don't do xyz so you'll "get a good husband". From the time they were little girls they were being told they need to find a good husband. Why tell that to a child unless it's pressure?

[7barbieringz]

@Vegasrunner straight out of my psychology text book buddy, not a Google search. Psychology degree here by the way so ik what I'm talking about 😊

[7barbieringz]

@jestergent the women crying in corners are they ones married to trash men who cheat and beat them on a regular basis. That's the reality for most women around the world. Men beat, rape, and abuse them. In Germany just yesterday a woman was killed by her boyfriend for trying to leave him... but men are "so great". Yea right.

[TonightYouu]

@7barbieringz so teaching a girl how to be a wife or ladylike is pressuring

[Blackcosmo]

@TonightYouu If someone doesn't want to marry it's not right to force them or pressure them to. In the past and in some places today many young girls and ladies are forced to marry against their will but they wanted to pursue their dream careers. They didn't want to give up their dream to become a housewife and that is a right being taken away from them.

[TonightYouu]

@Blackcosmo people do things like that when they know what’s best for you people know their children and no career in the world will make you feel more fulfillied than having a family a society that places business over family cannot stand you’re talking about arranged marriages which are completely different from telling your daughter to behave a certain way to get a good husband

[Blackcosmo]

@TonightYouu What some people want to do is have a career and marry when they feel ready. People don't even get a chance to go to university and that's not fair. Love is not forced but rather acted on by free will and consent and anything else is not love.

[Blackcosmo]

But I do understand where you're coming from. Being a pleasant person is good.

[TonightYouu]

@Blackcosmo that’s a big mistake a lot of women make you think career now love later it won’t just happen later you’ll be older less attractive and have no idea how to be a wife meaning your first marriage is going to fail and hopefully you don’t have kids from that failed marriage and you go out dating again but by that time you will either have to drastically lower your standards or buy a dog and die alone

[TonightYouu]

@Blackcosmo which is why a lot of women over 35 who focused on their careers are so unhappy because they know when they retire at 50 they’ll be alone yeah they’ll enjoy the fruits of their labor but that gets old really fast and holidays will be the hardest marriage is way more important and beneficial than a career for women

[Blackcosmo]

@TonightYouu What I mean is you can meet someone in high school or college and date but not settle just yet. You can get a career and become successful then settle at even 24. All i'm saying is someone should never be forced to give up their dreams because they have to get married so soon.

[TonightYouu]

@Blackcosmo you’re young so I understand why you think that but at some point you’re going to have to choose the career or family whichever you pick you can’t get time back for the other one we only get one life why would a guy choose a woman focused on her career over a woman focused on having a family and being his wife

[Blackcosmo]

@TonightYouu Oh don't aim at my age. I know people who have careers and are married with kids which means I've got a point and I'm not just running my mouth. If you don't want to listen that's fine.

[TonightYouu]

@Blackcosmo well I’m a lot older than you and I can tell you those women got married first career then marriage isn’t the way to go you probably still think it’s a good idea to go to college don’t you? If you aren’t going to look for a husband then you’re just wasting your time

[TonightYouu]

@Blackcosmo so young so naïve

[Blackcosmo]

@TonightYouu It can happen either way but some people expect you to marry and not have a career at all. All I'm saying is people should be allowed to have a career instead of having to only become a housewife. If that's what you're saying then I agree with you.

[7barbieringz]

@TonightYouu your problem is you have this twisted idea that all a woman is worth is getting married. Literally some women don't want to get married and they aren't desperate for a man nor do they care. This is just your way of trying to add importance to yourself when the real truth is women do not need men at all nowadays. We can work for ourselves and build our own lives, all without having to push out a baby that ruins our body and mental health for a man who's just gonna cheat anyway. Like my university psychology textbook says, single women live longer and are healthier than married women. It's a psychological fact

[MCheetah]

@7barbieringz W
"The most unhappy person in society was a 42-year old woman who was unmarried, had no children, and was a professional."
www.psychologytoday.com/.../meet-the-least-happy-people-in-america
www.eviemagazine.com/.../the-not-so-empowering-lies-women-have-been-sold-about-happiness

Why?
"Self-promotion that much of the popularity on social media depends upon has, quite predictably, contributed to an increasingly narcissistic society. And though confidence is generally a good thing, "self-love" to the point of narcissism is tied to depression and, quite paradoxically, low self-esteem"

Almost all psychology studies say the exact OPPOSITE of what you claim.

[7barbieringz]

@MCheetah a study on one person (from Google) versus a study done on multiple people over time in a university textbook? Lmao yea u tell me which is the actual credible source

[7barbieringz]

@MCheetah did u even read the whole article? You literally pulled out one piece and tried to claim I was wrong lmao but the article literally says that married working women are stressed because they take on most of the load at home while men don't help. It goes on to say those women are burned out and stressed... like this article actually confirms my point.

And again, are u really telling a university textbook that it's wrong? Because that's my source, not an article on Google

[MCheetah]

I read the article. Just because you give a reason why, doesn't change the fact they are unhappy. The gist is, women are unhappy the most when they try to be like men. Women make for terrible men, but you keep implying otherwise.

And you keep talking about this textbook, without showing us anything. As if one textbook can't be wrong or full of inaccuracies. How many "credible" gender studies book could make the same claims as you're doing? So what is this book you keep referring to?

[7barbieringz]

@MCheetah sir you cannot base ALL women off of one article that literally only interviewed one woman. You're feeding your own bias. Also that article is not a credible source.

Lol are you really attacking a textbook? So all the accredited psychologist who wrote it, and the APA who approved it to be used in universities across America, as well as my professor who has a doctorate are ALLLLL questionable because some guy on the internet with 1 article, and no background on the subject said so? Lmao that's actually hilarious.

[TonightYouu]

@Blackcosmo we don’t live in Should- Land and answer me this why is a career so important to you?

[TonightYouu]

@7barbieringz that’s the crap I don’t like single women paint this narrative that you’re more happy and better off without a man when we all know that’s a bold face lie human beings are social creatures life is about people you type of women keep other women single because misery loves company If you women are so happy why are you more likely to attempt suicide? Why are you more likely to be on antidepressants? But you clearly don’t get it because it’s not about women needing men it’s about family being more important than careers men who work hard and are successful do that for their families women like you do it for yourself stop pretending like you’re just so happy because you’re not quit poisoning the minds of young women who still have their youth and entire lives ahead of them be alone and shut up happy people don’t need to tell anyone how happy they are

[Blackcosmo]

@TonightYouu Excuse me? Why is a career so important to me? You would know if you weren't so old fashioned. I have DREAMS and I want to get my dream job which I love. Who the hell do you think you are to say people have to marry and drop their other dreams if they don't want to? Why does it even mater if people marry or have relationships? It's really none of your business.

[TonightYouu]

@Blackcosmo that’s why I’m asking why it’s so important to you because it’s like you’re getting scammed you think your dream job and career will make you more happy and fulfilled than a good marriage and a family so why is your career more important?

[Vegasrunner]

@7barbieringz Unfortunately I'm not sure what you're referring to are you sure you tagged the correct person? What is the revelance of you studying psychology?

[Blackcosmo]

@TonightYouu Who said my career is more important? And if it is so what? I don't see how that affects you at all. People can get careers and get married and they're fine. No one has to get married against their will.

[TonightYouu]

@Blackcosmo im asking you why is it more important to you than marriage and by the way arranged marriages are the most successful the rest end divorced which mostly filed by women

[Blackcosmo]

@TonightYouu Arranged marriages should never happen against someone's will and they should be in the past now. People should be able to find their own loves and if they divorce then it happens.
I have already answered your first question several times already but you keep asking. Read what I said or don't, it's up to you. You do not seem to understand what I'm saying and that's fine. This discussion is not going anywhere and it's only repeating so it's time we close it. You have your opinion and I have mine. Let's just live with it. I hope you have an understanding.

[TonightYouu]

@Blackcosmo well let me know how that works ot for you 😂 a taught lesson beats a bought lesson

[Asker]

@Blackcosmo sometimes arranged marriages are necessary for men who are unable to find love. Our sperm won’t last forever and some of us want to be dads.

[Blackcosmo]

Of course as long as both people are willing to do it. The problem I have with some arranged marriages is people are forced to do it.

[Asker]

@Blackcosmo nobody is forced to do it anymore, that was in the past. We have laws now preventing that.

[Blackcosmo]

@TonightYouu Oh don't be silly. It's my choice what I decide to do and if it's not going to hurt you then it's really none of your business.

[TonightYouu]

Arranged marriages works everywhere they do them but she doesn’t care about how successful they are she wants to do what she wants then complain that men are the problem because of her choices

[Blackcosmo]

@TonightYouu Both men and women are responsible. i'm not blaming anyone for my choices so I don't know where you got that from. Stop putting words into my mouth.

[TonightYouu]

@Blackcosmo you jumped into my conversation with @7barbieringz don’t get pissy when sht gets real you are welcome to leave this conversation nobody invited you to

[TonightYouu]

@Blackcosmo you put words in my mouth doesn’t feel to good now does it?

[TonightYouu]

@Blackcosmo I have better thing to do than argue with an ignorant naive child (post muted)

[Blackcosmo]

@TonightYouu It's alright for people to point you out when you're wrong. Also this conversation was technically over so it's fine.

[Blackcosmo]

It still happens in some places but we just don't see it.

[Asker]

@Blackcosmo it really is unfortunate how difficult dating has become. On common dating apps like tinder and okcupid you aren’t even allowed to send messages to someone unless that person has clicked match on your profile. So as a guy we really don’t have a good chance to tell a girl about ourselves. I know I’m going off topic but the whole point of this question leading to all these threads is to let people know how difficult it is for many men to date.

[Blackcosmo]

Yes it is sad.

[jestergent]

I agree. I watch 50+ women chase 1 bad man. The studies must not contrast to married women. Married both genders live longest to single counterparts.

[TheBigGuy9]

I think that’s only because many men cannot control their sexual nature. Sure, women can get a boyfriend when she wants, but it doesn’t mean she is automatically happy. Not if a relationship is what you want because there are many other factors that make a relationship work.

[Vegasrunner]

I dont think there single by choice most women atent able to lock down a high value man. Which is what they want. I dont think saying women should just accept any man is a good strategy either. Reality is men hold the keys to relationships so you can't really claim women are single by choice.

[SolitarySolace]

You're not wrong. If a girl wants a relationship, she'll be in one. It's impossible for majority of men who actually want to be. And those men who don't want to be are considered incels 🤷🏻‍♂️

[jshm2]

Don't be silly.

Yes some people get off on rejecting and some people get off on stringing along. But "single" isn't always a choice. Some people SHOULD remain single as we don't need to breed such people.

[jamiexoxo]

Totally true, I would fuck anyone woman who wanted it.

Why don't girls give a bit clearer signals they want to fuck? Fuck sake girls that's what we're here for!! Use us, fuck us & cast us aside?

[MikeInHawaii]

It’s the plausible deniability game. As much as men lie to women during the seduction process, women lie to themselves worse. If they have cheap, meaningless, non-committed sex because they’re hornet, they want to convince themselves they were seduced, lied to and used.

[jamiexoxo]

@MikeInHawaii
it could be the slut shaming comments that mostly come from the female side in my experience, so i can understand the caution a girl might have, But Jesus a little "breathy whisper in your ear suggesting you fuck her brains out" would help, GIRLS take that control, I love girls who fuck anyone they want ;-) they have a very strong sexual energy & that's super sexy.

Girls!! I'm sure you've been in a bar & thought i'd love to just fuck that guy tonight?

there should be actual free real social group sites that facilitate the opportunity to fuck, Like bumble, most girls put NWS on their profile as they don't want to portray themselves to other girls as promiscuous, reason i said free is the paid ones are mostly scams (i've tried a few)
for me the first couple of days decide the out-cum ;-) If the sexual energy isn't instant enough, i don't want to win over someones sexual offering as if it's a reward. just getting on & fucking works.
i'm single at the moment, but i've decided to do the friends with benefits technique for a while, great fun, great fucking because i find girls are more adventurous friends with benefits sessions.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

There's nothing bad to it. Some people are better off alone and isolated, while others fare just fine by themselves.

I'm all for the social isolation of certain elements.

[Anonymous]

Another one of these, I see. I never, ever, reject guys if they're actually interested and explicitly show that interest But, for some reason, they're so cold to me. They just hate to even look at me, and I don't know why. I don't get why people act like they know everything about a situation they've never been in, and have hardly even been close to. Maybe it's trolling, but there's so many of these dudes acting like they know half the U. S population perfectly. I'm so sick of everything I am being wrong in the eyes of others.

[TonightYouu]

Funny how anons always accuse people of trolling

[Asker]

I bet all of my money that you’ve rejected a guy before. This is a straight up lie lmao

[MikeInHawaii]

Never rejected “IF THEY’RE ACTUALLY INTERESTED…” Attractive women routinely get propositioned all the time. I was in a Waffle House one night and the waitress was propositioned four times in about two hours. Of course they reject random men taking the shotgun approach.

[Opinion Owner]

I said maybe trolling. This is because they always seem to trying to piss people off. But, there's so many of them, I don't even know. But, no, guys don't approach me. I would not be single if that was the case, trust me. And yes, I'd date conventionally unattractive males. The only guy who has shown any interest whatsoever me was just that, and he decided he didn't want me. But, I'm female, so I guess you know every single thing about me and my personality, because being a single male instantly makes you a genius.

[TonightYouu]

Everyone and everything that upsets you isn’t intentional people are just too sensitive nowadays

[Opinion Owner]

@TonightYouu No, people definitely go out of their way to piss people off, at least sometimes. Whether or not it's intentional, I'm pretty sure making a broad generalization about a whole group of people and implying that makes them inferior has bothered people since they've been able to even have complex social interactions. Especially when the generalizations aren't even correct. But, I should probably stop trying to encourage critical thinking, considering these kinds of guys see me as objectively below them for being a different sex

[TonightYouu]

I think you’re taking this stuff too personally

[MCheetah]

"I never, ever, reject guys **IF THEY'RE ACTUALLY INTERESTED AND EXPLICITLY SHOW THAT INTEREST."

Guy's only 5'9"? "He's not actually interested."
Guy's only a five out of ten in looks? "He's not actually interested."
Guy's overweight? "He's not actually interested."
Guy works at SUBWAY and has a roommate? "He's not actually interested."
Guy's less than a 10 out of 10 in all categories. "He's not actually interested."

"WHY DON'T ALL THE PERFECT MEN EVER SHOW INTEREST IN ME! I'M SUCH A NICE WOMAN!"

[Opinion Owner]

@MCheetah No, I mean every guy. I'm not valuable enough to have high standards. But I guess, due to my boobs, you know more about me than I know about myself. This is why I think they're trolling, there's no way anyone can be this stubborn and dumb.

[MCheetah]

@Asker
Fine. Put yourself out there on GAG. Say you're single and looking for someone. If you reject anyone for any superficial reason (too short, too ugly, not wealthy enough, etc), then you are not single by choice. PLENTY of men would happily date you. You just don't want these men cause they're unattractive looking.

[Opinion Owner]

@MCheetah I seriously do not reject men for superficial reasons, but whatever you say.

[ElementoP]

I think you're adorable and I like your way with words. I'd like to take you out some time. Can I have your number?
(No response is a rejection by the way)

[TonightYouu]

@ElementoP 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Opinion Owner]

@ElementoP The thing about that is, I'm still in high school, you're probably across the country, I don't even have the slightest idea of who you are, I can't drive, and I still live with my parents who will not let me date internet men who are nearly 10 years older than me. Also, you probably don't actually like me, but I'd say yes if you approached me in person, in a Walmart or something

[Opinion Owner]

@ElementoP Maybe if you move to Santa Fe, New Mexico right now and somehow find me and approach me

[RiseofArtemis]

It's either by choice or their personality is so bad a man would rather end his life then be with her. Both are very possible.

[ElementoP]

I'm sure there's plenty of women on the heftier side that could prove you wrong

[Asker]

Ok I’ll believe it when I see it.

[Anonymous]

It's better to be single than be with a shit man. The guy who liked me had a different religion, no morals, didn't take care of himself, cheated on his ex twice and you tell me I should have gotten with him? No, I'd rather stay single.

[Vegasrunner]

Exactly women definitely aren't single by choice. There single because they're unable to keep the kind of man that they actually want.

[MCheetah]

So most guys are "sh*t men" nowadays?

[MikeInHawaii]

Congratulations! You seemed to have figured out that a man who cheated on his ex will cheat on you. “Things will be different with me” and “I can change him” are two of the dumbest ideas ever conceived.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner You're right.

[Opinion Owner]

@MCheetah Yeah according to my standards. I am looking for a man that I am compatible with personality wise and has the same religion as me and actually FOLLOWS the religions rules. (Roman Catholic)

[Opinion Owner]

@MCheetah Most women are shit today as well. It goes for both genders.

[Opinion Owner]

@MikeInHawaii Thank you! Exactly.

[loveslongnails]

How long have you been without a recent girlfriend, and why did your last one dump you?

[Asker]

It’s been around 7 years. Lasted for about a weekend and reasoning on her end was that she was “too busy”

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Nearly everyone is single by choice believe it or not.

I'm sure you can get a girlfriend within a week if you want, problem is getting the exact girl you want.

[MikeInHawaii]

I’ve had women who turned me down bitch to me, or in my presence, that they can’t get dates.

[TheFlak38]

Every girl has a buffet of ten thousand cocks to choose from. If they're single then they're single by choice.

[ArtemisSilver]

There are definitely train wrecks nobody will touch but you're generally correct.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Talk with an ugly fat girl and say that again.

[Asker]

I've had fat girlfriends and they lost interest quickly. Sooooo yeah.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Did you wanted them all?

[Asker]

Yeah. What’s your next response that you don’t believe me?

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Actually they did date you right? They lost interest, but they did date you at first. You called them girlfriends so you actually had a relationship with them.

[Asker]

That’s correct. Well it was years in the past that I got dates. Now with social media all over the place dating has become hell for many men except for you know, the “Chad” types.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Regular guys can also get dates. Harder for sure. But they can.

[TonightYouu]

Yes they are because dating is like dodgeball and every woman is a captain who picks their team

[fonduegirl]

My boyfriend says guys will die without sex. If what he says holds true, I feel for you guys.

[Asker]

The sex is irrelevant, any guy can get that by paying for it. It’s a long term relationship with a girl who loves me for who I am that most of us want. At least me personally.

[fonduegirl]

Fat chance

[Asker]

Fat chance for what?

[Asker]

Your boyfriend must be a complete douchebag. Women in my generation don’t want to be with sweet romantic guys. You just want abusive trash.

[fonduegirl]

Is that right?

[Asker]

Yeah because I see it. The sweet and caring guys get nothing from women but a “your handsome” from the occasional old ladies. Hahaha that’s my life.

[fonduegirl]

But he IS handsome. So I shouldn't be giving compliments now? Haha

[Asker]

You compliment as long as it’s the bad boy type lol

[fonduegirl]

And you think my boyfriend is one? Lmao

[Asker]

Yeah seeing as how your a typical hot girl. No way you’re dating a normal gentleman. I can guess he’s in the 6 foot range and has some cool tattoos lol

[fonduegirl]

What makes you think I'm hot?

[Asker]

Even with that hand over your face you look like a model. I’m not trying to sound like a simp lol just saying your hot to me and probably most guys.

[fonduegirl]

That's not me. That's an aesthetic I got from pinterest.

[fonduegirl]

See? You don't know a thing about me and yet you're making guesses at what kind of guy I'm dating

[Asker]

😭 I want a girlfriend! Life is so unfair.

[fonduegirl]

You'll get one soon. Have faith. :D

[Asker]

I’m glad there are nice girls on here. The other ones commenting are just laughing and it’s making me more depressed.

[fonduegirl]

Sure, no problem.

[SevilleJuan]

On either side, it depends on the individual. If the person want to stop, they can always start again.

[Subarugirl]

Same goes for men then hon. If you are single, you are single by choice.

[Asker]

Huge difference if your a man, something you will never understand sweetie.

[Subarugirl]

The same can be said about women sweetie. Something you will never understand. At the end of the day it's still a choice... they just don't want to lower their standards that far.

[Subarugirl]

Yet... it kind of seems like you want women to.

[Asker]

I just want it to be fair that’s all. There are plenty of good non abusive men who never get a chance to experience a real relationship because of their height or financial situation. Yet any poor/unattractive woman will never have to look far at all to find romantic comfort with someone.

[Subarugirl]

Life isn't fair... Relationships are mutual. Each person has to want to be with the other. That's not something that can force.. you want to be forced into a romantic relationship with someone you don't like and aren't attracted to?

I have never met a good man whos only down side being how much he makes or his height... What I do see is men blaming those attributes instead of what is really causing people not to be attracted to them. It's easier to blame something like your height, instead of focusing on things that you can improve like you personality of character.

Men don't have to look far either if they are willing to lower their standard, like you are wanting women to do.
Romantic relationships and sex are not things you are entitled to, they are earned.

[jamiexoxo]

would i be right in thinking girls would give a lot of weight to a mans confidence? which would link into the chase as you said "they're earned" ?

Do you like a guy to go in for the kill for want of a better word?

getting back to the question, of course single women are single by choice, but i'm sure plenty seek out sex when they fancy it? on their terms, mind you i'm still in search of this land where beautiful single independent women roam in search of men like myself to devour ;-)

[loveslongnails]

I wish he'd answer my post: "How long have you been without a recent girlfriend, and why did your last one dump you?" And the previous one too.

[Asker]

@loveslongnails I did.

[Asker]

What do you mean by earned? How is it that horrible abusive men earn the right to marry a beautiful woman who wants to have his kids? There is no earning in the dating world. It’s just shallow women who want either a bad boy douchebag boyfriend or any guy not in their looks standard who has a ton of money. Relationships are earned my butt.

[Subarugirl]

It means making an effort and working towards something you value… you would rather believe your are entitled to it?

[Asker]

I work so hard as a man. I have an honest back breaking job and I also take the time to volunteer on my days off. I’m constantly around and women around my age and nobody shows any interest in me. This hurts as a guy and makes me feel worthless.

[Subarugirl]

Being honest and having a job is the bare minimum of being a responsible adult…

[Asker]

So tell me what I can do to get a girl to like me? Being patient and waiting for a woman to accept me? Is that how I earn it?

[Subarugirl]

You find one who is into people like you.

[Asker]

I really hope so. It doesn’t feel right with me being alone all the time 😢

[Subarugirl]

then be the kind of person that others would want to be with in a romantic capacity.

[loveslongnails]

All i can gather so far is that you're a "two-trick pony" when it comes to projecting your feelings and attitude about woman. As you stated, you're attitude towards women is either a) you're either lowering your standards to date me, or b) you think I'm a good source of money. A woman is going to sense this conflict in you and it will fester as mistrust. Then she'll leave.

I'm not saying everything is your fault. No, there are plenty of bad women out there who are just as you describe. However, it's uncanny that they would be the ONLY ones you've attracted - ever - for no reason other than "bad luck". Something's going on in the mystical world of energy.

[Anonymous]

All GORGEOUS and childless women you mean. The girls, who are 8/10 and below are not being considered in this statement.

[Asker]

Um no I’m considering every female. Women who are 1/10 will find men who will want to date them too lol

[Agape93]

So what are you asking?

[Blueeyes81]

Ah do you need a hug?

[Asker]

I need to get rich.

[katestar]

I've been there

[Gangactivities911]

I agree