He said we felt ”distant ” during date. Why?

[Anonymous]

I’m shy and reserved. Did he want me to be more affectionate? What did he expected?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

If it was the first date then that’s okay.

[Asker]

But he said that we connected in a distant way?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

I have no idea what he’s talking about. How can you connect but be so distant at the same time

[Asker]

I don't know :D like we understood each other but in a distant way. Maybe he wanted something from me? Like affection etc… we were talking mostly common topics. Not about us or feelings or anything like that

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

What common topics

[Asker]

Like school, work, area that we life, family (little but), his upcoming surgery. Tbh almost same topics that we already had discussed when chatting.

[Asker]

But we did learn little bit more about each other