Is it a red flag if a girl is a virgin past 30? (Page 2)
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It's not a red flag. I don't know why being virgin is shamed on this site but incest and gang bangs are normalized.
Incest isn't normal. Gangbangs is prob normal tho. I'm not shaming any virgins I just think it's concerning for a woman of that age to still be a virgin/have no love life
@labelleame i admire and encourage every virgin girl...
@TonyMetal___86 Then I'm glad people like you exist amidst all the conceited f**ks you find here.
Thanks miss labelleame and i'm glad because precious girls like you exists š
@labelleame Hopefully youāll find a great man someday. Iād love to have someone of your type.
@WhiteBoyChill Thank you :)
You can have ālove lifeā without having sex. In Most often sex is not connected to love at all.
Lol it's a red flag and weird af if you ask me
For sure is very weird
It's not a red flag, but it's more just a curiosity to me. I have to know why she's still a virgin.
Because she didnāt settle for less
@FictionalCharacter that can mean a lot of different things too though. Some women donāt settle for men who are genuinely deficient, other women are refusing to settle for fantastic men who just donāt meet an insane āstandard.ā
Like someone else has mentioned, she is a green flag, she is waiting for the right person. In a world where abortion, sexual orientation, dress code etc. are all not to be judged, people keep on judging virginity.
Everything will always be judged. That's just the way life is lol. And being 30 and still waiting isn't healthy. They should have dated sooner and found that person earlier on
Lol 30 and still waiting is not healthy? There are people who choose to stay alone and still find happiness and satisfaction. Everyone is different and has their own preference. If she isn't so eager for sex then she can stay virgin as long as she wishes.
It's not healthy to do that. It's literally depriving themselves from a essential part of life. Love, relationships and sex is something that everyone needs. If someone is content without that then I'm a concerned for them and their mental health
@Apple1996 Not necessarily. Some people just have goals and education that they are working towards. What about doctors? Many of them have to go to graduate school for 8 years on top of 4 years of college.
It doesnāt automatically mean something negative about a person just because theyāre a virgin. It simply means they find themselves in an unfortunate situation if theyāve had to wait that long, for whatever the reason may have been
@WhiteBoyChill doctors tend to ignore all their relationships (friends/family) in there life which isn't healthy. But still even a good amount of them eventually find love before 30
And that isnāt because they donāt necessarily want those things. Its just harder to achieve when youāre busier than the average person
No, could actually be a green flag... she's waiting for the right person. And there's nothing wrong with not being virgin.
Good duck finding a girl who is a virgin past 20years old. By that time, theyāve had at least 2-5 partners and have done a bunch of crazy sex stuff. Virgins are good because you have a sense of security they donāt have stdās and carrying emotional baggage from previous relationships. You also get to experience everything for the first time with them.
I don't think that's the issue. There are a lot of virgin girls in their 20s and only want one partner. The issue is when these girls hit 30+ and still never been on a date and are hoping for Mr. Right to magically show up. So they claim to be saving themselves. Something seems off about those girls. Like they are the leftover women that nobody wants type of thing
Usually in those cases Iāve noticed these women are actually a bit special in the head, so naturally they either donāt want a relationship until mr perfect comes or they just donāt have the capacity to date. Even though women can easily find a man, it must be a problem with themselves. I know a lot of women who may not be virgins but canāt hold a man because they are crazy or have other serious issues.
Unless there is a religious reason its pretty odd. Not a red flag but odd.
Iād want to know why for sure, and assume there is a story.
Yea it is kinda weird to never have had sex at 30 years old
Uhhh, I'm a virgin at 33. Does that make me weird?
@RealDaveThomas maybe? But you are still sweet
Iām not trying to sound mean but I agree with youā¦ sex isnāt everything but itās a really fun, exciting pleasure I donāt know how someone could wait so long. Maybe I just have a high sex drive and very in tuned with my sexuality but sheesh those people are missing out.
i wouldn't say a "red flag" but it would certainly make me curious why a woman would wait for that long.
Maybe she want to save herself for marriage. Women shouldn't be sexual active until for marriage and only to her husband no one else.
@Alwayreckles93 yeah maybe and if that's the case, that was the first and last date.
If she has morals, itās fine. If itās involuntary, something is wrong.
For me it's neutral but the reason behind it might be red flags.
Itās unusual and makes you wonder why they are waiting so long but not weird
I think it would depend a lot on why she was a virgin at 30
Yes red flag, but not a bad one.
Its really why she's a virgin thats the red flags.
ya iād assume past a certain age if they were a virgin they have social problems or a disorder of some sort.
The opposite. It means she has self control and had higher life priorities sheād been pursuing
To a certain age it's self control but past like mid 20s it's either they are asexual or have mental issues
Whatās wrong with being asexual?
That it's not normal for humans to asexual
It occurs naturally, its just uncommon
And honestly I'm more talking about women that have opportunities to and want to be with a man but choose to stay a virgin cuz they are being picky. Not a sexual or one's that are legitimately busy in life with other goals
Whatās the big deal about losing your virginity? Some people just really donāt care that much compared to their desire for a spouse
Then they should find a spouse earlier on in life to have a relationship and for sex. Waiting till 30+ all their good years of life are behind them
I agree theyāre in a much worse spot but who am I to judge them because of it?
I dont know what went on in their lives
I prefer a virgin over a ho so it's not weird to me, but she might be running out of time for children.
It's not a red flag. Most people probably find it odd for someone in their 30's to still be a virgin.
Well look here, the Virgin Apple finally comes clean ;-)
Not asking this for myself. Everyone here knows I'm constantly pregnant and ain't no mother Mary