Is female 31 years old and male 37 years old perfect age gap?

[Anonymous]

My close friend is making me feel like a loser. She says he will be 40 soon. She is also 35 and been dating up and down for so long. Am I arrogant to say she is maybe jealous a bit?

I never had any relationship in my 20s. I know In this day and age it’s weird. I also wondered why..! But meeting this guy who’s 37 I realized personally I never wanted to play around and be heartbroken so I would rather wait for a guy who is mentally ready to have a family… even though I lost my “20s” it doesn’t bother me.
In my mind being 31 isn’t that young either so why 37 somehow is close to 40!! There is no guarantee I can find someone exactly my age.

[Guy13]

I think that is perfect age range. Anywhere from 5-9 is good. We share enough like experiences in that time frame for ease of communication in living. And, typically men age better so having a woman 7 years younger than you works out well when guy is 45-55 and the 20-27 years olds are up in his grill all the time. I think it is PERFECT !! Like him... marrying material?

[Glenn_lawrence]

they say the perfect age gap is 2-10years max

[Berethor]

She closer to his age and soon not be able to have children, so yea she might be jealous.

[TacosRAwesome]

I don't think the perfect age gap exists but the gap between 31 and 37 is very reasonable.