My boyfriend called me a scumbag, should I break up?

[Anonymous]

Break up

Insult him back

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He told me that if I don't suck his dick on
command, he'd go find someone who will and
how he'd watch porn and Jack off in my face
and I said whatever I rather talk to your friends
and he said you're a slut, scumbag, you're not the woman I thought you were & I’m still a virgin and he’s my first boyfriend

[DoctorSex]

Depends if that's your type of humour as well... Personally it's not my type of humour so I'd firmly let the person know that I don't appreciate being spoken to like that. Most of the time things like this happen, it's because of simple miscommunication. Some people have different love languages than others. However, after telling him, if he persists to insult you. Break it off.
No one should stand for emotional abuse.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[rip999]

You need to break up with him. That is toxic. Dm if you want me to break it down for me. I had a girlfriend that literally was like that. Do yourself a favor and break up with him before he traumatize you for years to come. The pain you experience from the break up is nothing to compare of what he can do to you. Trust

[MoniqueTLC]

In what context did he call you that and was he being serious?

[Asker]

He was being serious when he said it and when I said okay I’m done talking to you he said “noooo don’t hang up on me, I want to talk about this”

[MoniqueTLC]

How long have you been together? Is this the first time he's said something like this? I think you could hear him out and see what he has to say, but you need to reiterate to him that it's not okay and you're not going to stand to be spoken to like that.
If he's continuously disrespecting you in other ways in your relationship and speaking down to you than you 100% need to reflect if you're happy, and whether or not you want to give him the time of day

[Asker]

we've been together for a year and ya it has been and he is continuously disrespecting me and my family, im tired of it

[MoniqueTLC]

Okay, then I definitely think reconsider your relationship and how it's going. It won't be able to carry on like that without you being negatively affected.

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[Asker]

And that means?

[Anonymous]

I think you should break-up with him...

But not becuz he called you a scumbag. You guys clearly don't know what you're doing. Call it quits early.

[Shamalien]

Shitty options but break up is better than being a child

[Sandeeppingping]

Depends, are you a scumbag?

[Sandeeppingping]

Ohhhh shit you're actually not a scumbag, dude's an absolute dickhead if I was you I'd breakup quite frankly especially if it's a repetitive thing, if it happened once I'd at least talk it out with him so he'd realize how that makes you feel and he shouldn't talk like that, if he doesn't care, you bounce

[Jenny-Marie]

Once is too much, it's inexcusable and unforgivable.

[Jenny-Marie]

Is it the modern chat up line? I hope not.

[Jenny-Marie]

This question sounds like a guy trolling as a woman.

[Asker]

I literally wish I was trolling, this is what I have to deal with

[Jenny-Marie]

If that is the case, why do you need to ask if you should break up with him? If you are prepared to put up with that shit, you have no hope or self-respect. Give yourself a chance to do better.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Are you sure you didn't like it?

[shortster]

Yes, that is disrespectful.

[shortster]

He is toxic; you deserve someone a lot better.

[TheFlak38]

you possibly are

[Xtendable]

This needs context

[jasco]

Why did he do that?

[Asker]

He told me that if I don’t suck his dick on command, he’d go find someone who will and how he’d watch porn and Jack off in my face and I said whatever I rather talk to your friends and he said you’re a slut, scumbag, you’re not the woman I thought you were

[jasco]

Oh than yea break up with him

[Anonymous]

Because you are