Would you date long distance if all your travel was FREE?

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midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

of course. We did and paid for our ways to see each other. That’s love, dedication … we are now married.
my sister did as well, over seas. He moved here, married and have a baby now.

so many persmisstic people here. If no one is welling to do the work…love ends. Be it close by or far away.
he was dating a woman 15 minutes from each other…ended bad after 4 years.

he was “in love” with a mental case manipulator for 15 years. who also used to live 15 minutes … then moved an hour away…he continued to “love”her, went to see her, dropped plans with his own gf…

so as anyone who is reading this…distance and money is not an issue when it comes to love.
hope those out here…understand the work requires to build a happy healthy loving romantic relationship.

side note…I “made him” drop that 15 years. of “family/brother/sister” connection. Was not easy.

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

Even then, it would be a strong no from me. How much ever great the guy is, I’d much rather refrain from dating someone who lives far away. I need physical touch and I want to do cute stuff together.

Besides, long distance relationships rarely ever work out. If your partner lived in a different country, even if the travel cost was free, how many times a month could you go back and forth? That would be an utter pain in the arse and not feasible for me.

Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

Of course. If it was free you could easily just go every weekend. Or you could just simply move there. You could even do a thing of coming every weekend for a couple weeks then slow start to move your own shit there. And next thing ya know you are just living there.

Travel been free would just help in so many ways. You could go to work without spending money to get there. You could go to a event in a different place much easier. Holidays would be cheap as hell. Could easily go to america to see a band who only tours in america.
And of course date someone from a different country. If it was free I would of been married to my 1st love by now no doubt.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

Yes for sure, however, I pay for travel as it relates to Business and friend out in Thailand. I lived there for a short while. That 10,000 a year you can save. Who do I contact please? Is there a club I have to join with monthly fee ? What's the deal for real? ;-) During Covid it was difficult to get in but 700.00 and hotel rooms during that time were 5.00 USD per day !!! Crazy... I stayed in the hotel just so i didn't have to cook. Sofitel was half priced too !!

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Nope, don't want a relationship with someone I have to "travel" to another state/country to spend time with...

MCheetah · Answer

I'd do it. At the very least, I'd be getting a free vacation out of it. But no, I don't have a problem with long distance relationships at all. At least, if there's a good chance we could possibly meet up in the future and she isn't halfway across the globe.

exitseven · Answer

I don;t know. I had a Long distacne reltionship and she lived 1500 miles away. It was almost a 30 hour drive and I forget how much plane fare was but it was more than I could afford. Even phone calls were expensive. I imagine the expense was one of the things that led to the denise of the relationship. If travel was free and phone calls are basically free too mayb eIwould give one a go.

magiusX26 · Answer

keeping in mind sexual relations is s big part of why dating, nope. no sex is worth the trouble. from a hetero male stance ain't no pussy worth the trouble. honestly have veen broken so much and do badly in my past that the perfect woman (for me) could come at me begging for a chance and i would still say no if for no other reason than out of spite.

Bexxiib · Answer

Even if it was free I’d still would say long distance isn’t for me, I get motion sickness when travelling and also while I don’t show concerns of cheating I do fear being cheated on in long distance.

RavVid · Answer

How long for? I have worked overseas a fair bit and done FIFO (fly in fly out). So that was free travel. Even though you talk every day it isn't the same as coming home to somebody.

So I would rather not.

menina · Answer

No, I still wouldn't do that. Being in a long-distance relationship is never easy, they're more challenging than "normal" relationships. I need to be close to my partner.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Unless she were the perfect girl or close to it, then probably not, unless we'd take it in turns in terms of who goes to who or we meet somewhere in the middle.

PhenomenalQueen · Answer

Yes that would definitely be super awesome if that could be done!

pepper1993 · Answer

only if he lived in tokyo, paris, rio etc.. and only if i didn't have to actually go on the date ;-)

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I had long distance relationships before. They were not easy to maintain. So, FREE travel or not, I'd refrain.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Cost is not the issue. Its more of if you have the time to take off work or if you can trust your partner when you're not around and so on

Rania05 · Answer

I would still do it even if it isn't for free, long-distance relationship isn't as bad as many think, if both parties are determined it works out.

Sour-rose · Answer

If it's free, i'm in. I'll have to make sure its in america because I only have USA money. Sooo that would be fun... for a while

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Absolutely! I mean, the cost isn't that much of an issue for me as it is; it's moreso the time. But yeah; I certainly would. And I guess maybe I might go longer distances, like across the ocean. Right now I would really only date on my own continent.

Iron_Man · Answer

I am dating long-distance money is not an issue

Avatar74 · Answer

It still wouldn't be the same as seeing your girlfriend if she lived nearby.

Although the free transport is tempting, time restraints still wouldn't allow you to see your beloved enough in person which I would want.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

If my SO had to leave for work & I had to travel for him to see our son, absolutely

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

If so, I’d travel to Jordan, marry Noura, and fly to Morocco or the Philippines. No need of dating.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Yes including immigration for her to live in my house

hahahmm · Answer

Sounds like the kind of thing that a person who wants to put as LITTLE as possible into relationships would love. Not going to increase the potential quality of the relationship at all.

Twalli · Answer

If I get the job I am aiming for, yes. My job can be completed remotely. Therefore I don't need to be somewhere specific to work.

HighValue · Answer

She can use the free travel to come to me, and even then only for a short time. Either we are compatible and she moves to be with me in person or end it.

BJP21 · Answer

Only if they are a real person and they can do the same.

Guardian45 · Answer

That's a nice idea, but NOT the REAL issue with LDRs!

OnlinePeanut22 · Answer

Nope i still can't drive or getting buses. My mum will refuse tl go by plane to get a relationship.

Paris13 · Answer

Probably would have Been a Better Bean. xxoo

Adam1978 · Answer

No travel will always cost time and that can be harder to find than the money for a ticket.

melanieeeB · Answer

Nope, I like to have my man at my side and here with me

genericname85 · Answer

no. because other than money, travel drains my life time. i don't wanna waste a bunch of time just to figure out if a person is for me.

Cecinene · Answer

Even if my travel was for free I will rather focus on the main reason why I went there.

AsaKyo · Answer

Yeah, because then I could see them as much as I wanted

nawtee_me · Answer

Is it really long distance if the trip is free? If I can go see you when I want is it really long distance?

Paul09 · Answer

I don't think so. Time is money too. I'm not sure why or how people do it. You need more of closet connection.

NathanDavis · Answer

no love should not depend on money

SnowedIn · Answer

This would be awesome!

msc545 · Answer

Yes. I did it and paid for travel for awhile.

Jennz6 · Answer

No, my work won’t allow me to travel

Zolly99999 · Answer

Definitely!! I Iike adventure!!

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Only if teleportation was invented

kikissss · Answer

Maybe but would only do it for a short period.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Nope.

legalboxers · Answer

Im always in a LDR so without a doubt yes

Raaj4you · Answer

If it's free or not, I would date.

Fuentes · Answer

Nope long plane rides aren't worth it.

Anonymous · Answer

Very unlikely.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I’d vacation if the travel was free

boredgal · Answer

absolutely, yes

bubblegunnn · Answer

Hell yahhhh

moonpie89 · Answer

Sure

MrJMM · Answer

Yeah.

Anonymous · Answer

Meh.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe.

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