Would you ever be in a long distance relationship?

[Anonymous]

[DaveJord]

No I do not think LDR are actually anything more than relationship of convenience. It like are relationship you can maintain on your terms, because this person is not really physically present in your life on a routine or regular basis.

You can tell them everything they want to know about you, but at the end of the day you only really know what they have told you or want you to know. If you only see each other one another weekly or monthly, they can be who they say they are... one weekend at a time. They can really string it out over a long period of time... at the end of the day who are they really.

It easy and intoxicating to fall in love with someone based upon who you want to believe they are... and it's easy for it turn into this fantasy thing.

NO I never had a LDR and I do not believe in them. Its someone you are talking to over a long distance, it not a real relationship.

[Anonymous]

If they're at the distance of 3-4 hours maximum, then yes

[provokeesmokee]

I did that once, nearly married the guy even, and it was shit.

He managed to hide enough of his idiocy (and my rose tinted glasses certainly helped) through the distance.

When push came to shove, he was a complete manchild incapable of even doing his work without me effectively managing him. I would have to help him plan his day over a morning call. I didn't even work for his company but they got my labour.

Now I only date local.

[jennifer_bloom]

I could like a guy I had an online connection with if he was loyal and consistent and wanted to one day get married and live together. But there would have to be a lot of connection and compatibility and stability in both our lives.

[Singing_Hollow]

Depends, if my now boyfriend had to move overseas for work etc then yes id make it work because we have already built something strong together but if it was online dating etc, then no i wouldn't, they very seldom work

[Lliam]

No. The idea seems more like a game. What's the point, to have a friend?
You can't really know someone you can't see or be with in person. Plus, I want physical contact.

[FreyaRed]

No. Like veggies, meat and fish, I prefer my men from local market. XD

[desidoll]

I got married to someone from a different country. We only met twice a year. It worked for us but a lot of obstacles.

[Beatrix7]

nope i would have to really really trust him av been hurt to much with that and the guys have nit even stayed that long away never mind big distance

[Simslover92]

I'm in a long distance relationship now and it's irksome at times but worth it when we get to see each other.

[Billlewis]

I've served several women as an online pay pig in the past and I actually loved it.

[asphaltrhymes]

Nowadays asking me, probably not. Probably no. Actually, definitely no. 👍 It'd seem, off-putting.

[Nikki1989]

No, it is not what I consider a relationship.

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

No. I just think their pointless. I mean you would have to wait for months to see your partner for months.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Hells to the fucks in the no's

[gothbxtch]

yeah, i think i could

[FunkyMonkee]

Been there, done that, twice.

[Anonymous]

Nope.