Is she over him?

[imokokok11]

This girl I just started dating added me on her TikTok. She will post videos about her ex who is her babydaddy and she says he gaslit her. When I talk to her it takes her about 3 minutes to start bringing him up. Is she just mad or is this a red flag?

[IAteTwoFullHams]

No one is ever over the parent of their child. She may never want to get back together with him, but he's always going to be a big presence in her mind and she isn't going to be "moving on."

[imokokok11]

ok, please go into this more, the part of she isn't going to be "moving on"

[Pleaznhim4me]

I think she is. But I also think you are too. Maybe this is why you can’t have your baby over night. Cuz your worried about other women who have babies with other men. Focus on your child. Not another woman who already has someone else’s child. Unbelievable. Get a vasectomy.