What do men really want?

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BJP21 · Accepted Answer

Knowing that I am emotionally and mentally taken care of. It doesn't make a guy a wimp or a pussy, we are human we need to be treated as such. There are appropriate times when masculinity is needed that a woman may not be able to take care of, such as protecting.

I place a tremendous amount of Intrinsic value on a woman that has initiated a relationship with me. The fact you can trust and love me speaks volumes.

As for the ladies that say its always sex... here's something to suck on with the two evils. Would you rather have the guy that desires you all the time on the deepest intimate level or would you rather have the guy that cheats on you? This goes for the guys too.

It's not always about control in my opinion. Both sexes should share equal parts. Any sex that desires control has a serious psychological issue (Im talking about the control freak in this context). It happened with my previous girlfriend I had. I felt like more of a maid than a partner and it drained me emotionally.

RangerBlue22 · Accepted Answer

I can tell you the root of all the anger, frustration and aggravation in vast majority of men today is the feeling of the lack of respect from women.

Of course men want positive female attention, intimacy and sex. Who doesn’t want that from the opposite gender? But when many women don’t find us valuable and/or likeable then many don’t hesitate to disrespect men despite us doing nothing to provoke them nor deserve it.

Most women don’t understand that likeability does NOT equal respect. They are similar but not the same.

CallyKat89 · Accepted Answer

An affordable mortgage. In the United States, interest rates are at an all-time high. The Federal Reserve's control measure is pushing first-time buyers out of the market. Pre-COVID, the nation experienced an all-time interest rate low. This resulted in a demand that the market could not meet. Combined with market control factors and an inflated housing market, home ownership feels like a dream of the past.

NotTacocaT6969 · Accepted Answer

Every man wants something different.  This is like asking what a human’s favorite food is.

coachTanthony · Answer

We want peace that is it.

Massageman · Answer

In a girlfriend/spouse?  Honesty. Mutual tolerance. Being "in sync" w/e/other (mutual goals, responsibilities, views on the world, etc). Keeps promises. Discusses significant changes/purchases first before acting. Respectful of others. Good helpmate. Oh, yeah - some of that sex stuff, too. :- ) See Mark Gungor: Tale of Two Brains to find out how men/women differ (other than anatomically).  From others?  Fairness. Honesty. "Professional" contractors who can actually do a job better than I can with a helper. Keeps promises.  From merchants?  No BS hidden fees. Honest value. Decent service.

MementoMori_ · Answer

I don't think all men want the same thing. Some only want sex. Some want a committed relationship. Some just want a friend. Some want a family, some don't.

It's a combination of personality and upbringing I think that shapes your desires in relationships. And everyone has differences in both.

jshm2 · Answer

The Eddie Murphy "FFS" aka "Feed me, Fuck me. Shut the fuck up".

Joking aside, relationships are complex. You might get one partner who wants to dote on you, and treat you like his princess. You might get another that treats you like his ATM and personal prostitute.

Hence it's usually a case of what do YOU really want, and can the man provide enough of it to make it work for both of you and not just one of you

rtj1211 · Answer

IN their dreams? Make $100m by 30, put $50m aside as a pension/home/investment portfolio and live off $1m a year for 50 years, being admired by horny women for 5 years before marrying and raising a family.

In reality? Make decent money doing something you are passionate about, find a decent woman to support you and love you doing that, raise some children with her before retiring in relative comfort to enjoy the fruits of 30 years of hard work.

Caliguy88 · Answer

When people ask me that I respond with, a girl that can belly up to the bar. Spend too much at a bar every once in a while. Someone that can fit in at a country club or a crappy dive bar.

I like going out and socializing. Meeting new people…. But I also have a pretty good job and fairly formal family in fiends. So I love people that can be a little more fun than socially acceptable, but also can polish up nice and do nice things. I feel like that’s who I am and who most of my good friends are. But I hate girls that try to be too fancy, but I can’t stand girls that are trashy and dumb.

caring__1 · Answer

For women to stop lumping all guys together and assuming they're all clones of each other. Can you honestly say you're just like all the other women you've ever met and want exactly what they want? Do you want the husbands of all your friends and relatives, because they want that person? It might make sense to broaden your horizons by asking guys to help you see and understand what types of things they, as individuals, value, but never generalize any group as homogeneous.

Qdbrown · Answer

Men want respect, be at the top of their interest and or profession.

Men wants a loyal woman, that will not cheat or leave him, be his kind of sexual object, and maintain her looks he knew when he first met her.

Men what to eat food and get some good sleep in.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

This question isn't easy to answer because each man is his own individual as women are their own individual and have their own personality.

What applies to person A won't necessarily apply to person B nor person C.

Now, in general terms of a relationship, most men typically desire the same thing i. e support system, honesty, good sex and loyalty.

It's all basic common stuff humans desire from each other in a relationship.

BLP11520 · Answer

Mature responsible men should find a solid loving woman. That being said I think a lot of men want to play the field and get through life as lazy as they can. I feel sorry for ladies between 18 and 65 years of age. The exceptions to my remarks ladies should hold onto.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

A woman who isn't a cry baby, not an emotional wreck, and doesn't nag him so often. Doesn't let her bad moods get uncontrollably bad to where she never disrespects him. A woman who wants to help take care of each other as a team. Even in her bad mood, she still will make love keeping her man satisfied and happy to the fullest

NathanDavis · Answer

I usually want the same... common denominator in all the girlfriends I've had before smart, interesting, and funny... not much (=

jasco · Answer

I just want someone to cuddle with, have intelligent conversations about whatever, be able to spend time with each other in ways that require more brain power than just spending money, Be able sit down and have a conversation about her wrong doings and mine. Have kids with her, marry her, have a relationship with Christ with her. Overall just a woman who I can love and is willing to work with me

menina · Answer

I guess different men want different things from women. But honestly, many only want sex.

CasuallySamsonite · Answer

Love, equality in a relationship, a big house and lots and lots of mutually satisfying sex. Lol. Basically, a true partner that I can spend the rest of my life with.

MrCommodore · Answer

Exactly thesame as what women want, however until they meet Mrs Right they are less fussy over who they shag.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Money in the bank, a decent woman and a few kids running around.

Lynx122 · Answer

I really really really wanna zigazig aaaah XD

_Just_A_girl_ · Answer

- to be in power -To sleep around  -For a girl to be present but not bug him

UnknownSwede · Answer

If you ask 10 guys you will get 10 different answers. Most want a person they would want to spend time around.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on the man, but in general there are two groups... those who are mostly interested in casual dating / sex, and those who are looking for a serious relationship with a woman who has more traditional values.

soe11 · Answer

Kindest, tender love, honesty, dignity, loyalty, mature understanding and full of joy lastly sex too.

Anonymous · Answer

I want a woman who will indulge my sexual desires, who will be loyal, and who will miss me when I am away.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

A feeling of peace, a loving companion, someone to grow with, someone to trust and confide in

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Love, Long-term Relationship, Romance, Kisses, Cuddling, Snuggling

Luopio27 · Answer

A life worth living, filled with purpose, great relationships, friendships, family, food and a nice home.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Hmm one wife to press /massage hands.
One wife to press/massage legs
One wife to massage head
One wife to cook and clean that's all man needs and good sex with all of them and they all leaving happily like sisters under one roof.

GreatnessBack · Answer

38, married. 1. Good, clean person 2. reasonably intelligent  3. fucks like a beast for starters.

Ocastbury · Answer

Im from UK but for me its someone to explore the world and have fun with. Somebody who makes my life better every day. A partner who we can make each other better people

Anonymous · Answer

Many today, Whatever benefits them. I have had them ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL and I can tell you it is what a lot of them can get to benefit themselves in their own life. Many left though are still okay.

Juxtapose · Answer

Best friends but deeper and with regular, consistent sex.

Miladin · Answer

We men aren't too complicated and pretentious. What we want is to have a decent respectful and supportive healthy partner. That's all.

TonightYouu · Answer

We want a WIFE!  not a friend, not a companion, not a mistress, not a prostitute, not a butt buddy a freaking WIFE!

omnivert · Answer

Peace in life, true love, madness on the bed,
Money in the pocket as well as a thin layered c------m.
And a person who is ready for action, loves them as they are, not loving money as they want, partner with equality but in real times.

OddBeMe · Answer

Honestly…same thing chicks want. Some want just sex at that particular moment. Most want relationships to make life more fun.

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

We want to feel worthy, chosen, and appreciated.

Kai95 · Answer

Loyalty and respect, that’s it, that’s always been it.

McKellar · Answer

An awesome job that pays very, very well. An exciting career would be nice, but that depends on the person and the country your in. A wife and possibly children and just to have a great life.

dustybiker · Answer

Sean Connery said it best in Medicine man. “A meal and a bath.”

Koalamate · Answer

Everyone wants differant things but if we are talking specifically about men I would say power, freedom and responsibility.

Berethor · Answer

Not much. :)

nawtee_me · Answer

A relationship with a really nice girl.  @lilyanony1 what about you

EaterPeter · Answer

Sex and men cave time. Let us enjoy our lives. And be a good accountability partner.

Reddy4it · Answer

What do they want…? Everything… 😂

Anonymous · Answer

I want girls, love, sex, money ( not her money).

JustADudePlayinADude · Answer

Someone emotionally healthy

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Respect, appreciation and sex.

Anonymous · Answer

Chris Rock said it best. Guys really aren't that complicated. All guy really want is the 3 F's. Feed me, F*** me, and shut the F*** up.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Very simple. 1. Sex 2. Silence 3. Food

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

To have a partner and enjoy life together.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Love support respect and understanding. What do women want

Guanfei · Answer

We've told you many times what we want, but no one listen.

hyperben · Answer

a quiet, peaceful life

dolemite89 · Answer

a girl that isn’t too crazy but that’s like trying to find a needle in a hay stack 😂

Hull6644 · Answer

To experience young love with a nice girl my age. But they all reject me 😔

Hulk30 · Answer

peacefullness respectfulness submission consistent sexual favors and sex

Msputiton · Answer

A baked potato

Anonymous · Answer

To be in control and to cheat.

rabbitzzz · Answer

Honor, glory, love, food, sex etc.

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