There are just over 22 million women in their 30s in the united states, so why am I having such a hard time finding one I actually like?

[TheSpaceGnome]

I get that my preferences in women aren't common, but even rare types should be high in number out of a 22 million population pool...

[HaveNoName]

'"Rare types"? Are you looking for the 3 legged ones? Or women who have absolutely no mood swings? Or those who give perfect directions when they tell you where to find the spatula in the kitchen? Or the ones who can tell the difference between standard definition and HD on a cable channel? Or those who are can tell the difference listening music if only one speaker is working? Or who ask you what to wear, A or B; and ehen you say A, they agree?

Well, you have a lot of rare options. When the time comes, Thou shalt have thy rarity.

[TheSpaceGnome]

A scientifically minded atheist, who enjoys difficult video games, anime, sci-fi, fantasy, paleontology, biology, astronomy, cosplay, and is artistically talented, and probably owned tarantula and a cat at one point.

One who doesn't smoke, doesn't drink alcohol, doesn't do any other drugs, isn't a slut, and doesn't have (nor want) kids.

Basically an attractive nerd.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats also describing me by the way. not just her.

[TheSpaceGnome]

So someone relatable.

[Juxtapose]

Because the internet is dominated by men so you're in for a sausage fest until you go outside.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Women who don't use the internet for online gaming, tv, downloading art programs, etc are not dating material to me.

[Juxtapose]

Then you're going to have join niche clubs or online groups.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Probably, but thus far they are all dudes, or mostly dudes with some out of country women who are half my age. So that hasn't been helpful yet.

[Rockstarrrrr]

You keep chasing the top 5 % ... Good girls are just invisible to you

[TheSpaceGnome]

there isn't a top to percentages, you look at people the wrong way.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm only interested in women who are mentally just like me in terms of interests, views, hobbies, goals, etc, so it's a smaller percentage, but by no means the top of any hierarchy, and other women would not be a match because of differences, even ones you might think are in the top 5%.

[TheSpaceGnome]

people are split by pie charts, not pyramids.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Never mind I was just messing around.. seriously.. I get what you're saying... You have standards and you take relationships seriously... nowadays it's quite hard to find someone similar easily... Most people just get in a relationship with someone they don't really like or connect with... Plus most women ( and people in general ) nowadays have very similar and generic personality... No one really stands out...

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah I can't stand "basic follower" people with no personality, talents, knowledge, skills, hobbies, etc.

I go for the creative intelligent types.

[Rockstarrrrr]

I can relate

[Cheerfull009]

You are may be not handsome or attractive, otherwise you must have woman from USA, many American girls marry Pakistani boys and relocating in Pakistan

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm generally regarded as "hot" by nearly every attractive female friend I've made.
None of them shared my interests or views though.

[Cheerfull009]

You are hot but females are cool. Means you are not attractive and no courage to speak to others

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, thats not what either of those words mean, nor is that the situation.

[Anonymous]

Because you're looking for only "one" girl in 22million...😜

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't need more than one.

[miyaviizm]

Maybe your destiny is in another country

[TheSpaceGnome]

I sure hope not.

[miyaviizm]

Whyy

[TheSpaceGnome]

because national laws makes relocating its own little hell, I like not having to worry about losing a wife to deportation.