My bf’s ex is giving him shit and saying he should be embarrassed for dating someone closer in age to his daughter than him. Why is she doing this?

[Anonymous]

I’m only 25 and he’s almost 40. She’s 36.

[D-Pad_Chad]

Misery loves company. She's miserable and it's probably like nails on a chalkboard seeing him happy. In other words, she's jealous. If he makes you happy and vice versa I say block her communications and if need be consider a restraining order if things escalate.

[Asker]

She’s nuts! I blocked her. But she basically was like telling me she’s shocked he took me so many nice expensive places early on, and told him I’m closer in age to his daughter than him. Like gtfo lady, I made the choice to date someone older, we’re all adults here.

[D-Pad_Chad]

Yeah that's giving off stalker vibes. I'd also recommend never posting on social media about going on trips & dates but if you feel you have to, some advice for that is wait until after you've returned from them.

And again if this escalates I highly recommend discussing the possibility of a restraining order and I'd also recommend looking into some self-defense options just in case.

Good luck to you two hopefully she takes the hint and both of you live the rest of your lives happily 😁

[Berethor]

She might still want him for herself, and she got a point that he almost old enough to be your dad.

[Asker]

Well why is she using age as the main driver here?

[Berethor]

Because you are much younger than her, and it's one of the main reasons that he with you.

[Asker]

Lol she thinks she’s still what he’ll want. Like he broke up with her and she still hung out with him after. Like guys get bored with that and she should have moved on. That’s self esteem problems. I hate to say this but I genuinely think he used her for sex.

[misfittoy]

she's jealous and probably wants him back, dont even entertain her thats what she wants to create drama, simply dont allow in your life

[Asker]

She’s nuts! I blocked her. But she basically was like telling me she’s shocked he took me so many nice expensive places early on, and told him I’m closer in age to his daughter than him. Like gtfo lady, I made the choice to date someone older, we’re all adults here

[misfittoy]

give her no reaction, shell tire herself out

[Asker]

I don't know if they were actually like fully official or anything. It was prob a situations-hip. I had like a week of exchanges with her and she’s exhausting. He never mentioned a girlfriend he had recently.