I am a good guy and have good intension of dating and marriage. But Why do girls still think i'm pretending?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

They don't. If they're saying that they're lying. You're not bringing enough to the table for thier liking. And they're using that as an excuse. If a guy is HOT enough he could be a homeless guy with a string of kids with other women in his wake and they'll take a flyer on him. 🤣🤣🤣 It's not you, it's them dude.

[Guy13]

You have plan and accomplishments

[Asker]

Yes ofcourse I do. I am proud of myself. But I am not perfect.

[Guy13]

You are not selling “marriage material”. You don’t provide any information so detail answer is difficult

[KrakenAttackin]

Because the girls are pretending.

[BarryLiverstone]

Pretending to do what?

[Asker]

Girls said you are pretending to be a good guy, you are not serious about dating. You just want to sleep and have fun. Why do girls don't trust guys? They must know how to sort out good guys from bad guys.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because they shouldn’t trust the guy in the beginning. It’s on him to earn her trust by setting expectations with his words and backing them up with his actions

[BarryLiverstone]

Do you know what shit tests are?

[Asker]

I understand, I have to win her trust. I am a good guy with good family background. But I am not a perfect guy. I am afraid girls may reject me for my imperfections but I have accomplished a lot in my life.

[BarryLiverstone]

Don’t worry about that. Anyone who rejects you before she gets to know you is doing you a favor and she isn’t wasting your time.

[BarryLiverstone]

“You just want to sleep and have fun”. If a girl tells me that then I wouldn’t give her a defensive answer. I’d reply : “yes sleeping is awesome and I’ll have fun on the weekends; that’s why I work hard and have goals in life. If you don’t like fun then best to find another guy”

[Asker]

Yes this is the right reply to girls.

[slatyb]

Because you really aren't that good.