Why do I seem to be more attracted to guys who share characteristics with autism but can't find any other guys who are?

[OnlinePeanut22]

I have been in previous relationships with different types of men. Some of the traits that I like to see in a man are: humble, trustworth, trusting, asking questions if you don't know the answer. Be respectful. I dislike guys that talk about their ex girlfriends, blaming trust isuse, controlling, verbal abusers, and cheaters. My experiences are mixed with bad and good, but I have more bad experiences with some previous relationships. College is the worst place to get into a good relationship. I have already graduated from college. My guys that I was attracted to the most were those that were shy, gamers, and listened to people who stayed at home most of the time. I don't want to talk to many women. I did ask my friends about if they know any single guys and they all sent no I don't know any single guys. that i been trying online dating that is facebook dating. is has be hit and miss. match with a new guy.

[ElvenMr]

You said it yourself. You like gamers, try multiplayer games. Any game where you can chat with other players, voice chat, or text. I can almost guarantee you'll find someone who will want to get to know you irl too.

[OnlinePeanut22]

There was a lot of toxic gamers on the box, and when they used voice chat or calls.

[Charlesbrandonf]

You’re cute, attractive, beautiful, young.


Our happiness is always in something that we don’t have. It means we don’t get liked by someone that we think would a nice match.

[mickmrly]

I would say just relax for now and work on improving your own life for now. If after a few more months online dating still isn’t well, maybe you might need to move to have a chance to find someone in person. Also while you are not able to find a new boyfriend, you can instead focus on the relationships you do have such as friends and family. Even if you find a guy, he won’t necessarily be the right one the first time. Try and stay positive and enjoy your life irrespective of your dating situation.

[OnlinePeanut22]

Friends don't know anyone that is single. The family is too older the then me for age. Have tried social events , groups and still nothing.

[mickmrly]

I guess you’ll have to just focus on other things right now then. Don’t try and focus so much on it and try again later.

[OnlinePeanut22]

Already has been focus on other thing.

[Summeroflove]

You will find someone eventually. When you see someone whose single and you're into just make a move

[OnlinePeanut22]

I will say again
Can't find any single men In real life. Online dating has been hit and miss.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah I don't really do online dating. There is plenty of single men out there. Might just not be in your circle

[OnlinePeanut22]

None are in my circle. Or town or city. Just kept meeting taken men. That I already said my previous opinions to you.

[Summeroflove]

I just... Don't know. If you say you get some good dates with online. But I don't personally really like doing that. But hey if that is your only option then

[OnlinePeanut22]

It is my only option that I have. My type are not very social or not it interest in going out in big groups of people. They mind they own business and kept .

[Summeroflove]

Yeah I see what you mean.

[Juxtapose]

I'm autistic, odd that any women want men with it in my opinion.

[OnlinePeanut22]

I had to follow a dating rule since my mum will not allow me to date or be in a relationship with guys who without learning disabilities. Have date guys or be in a relationship with guys only that have a learning disability. Doesn't end well with you try to talk about it

[Juxtapose]

Why doesn't it end well? I don't understand.

[Anonymous]

You're only 24. Don't give up... There's someone for everyone.

[OnlinePeanut22]

That none in real life.

[Opinion Owner]

Or do the opposite of what I said. Your choice lol. Personally, I think it's foolish to give up at age 24. You haven't met anything close to all of the people you're going to meet. You have a lot of life to live.

[OnlinePeanut22]

I have already met a lot of people through college, high school volunteers. Nothing there. No single guy just takes guys. Yes, I even went to social events. No one there will ever be interested in them. What do you think about online dating?

[Opinion Owner]

I never tried online dating. Have you ever considered that maybe you're looking too hard for Mr. Right? You tend to accidently stumble onto the best people.

[OnlinePeanut22]

I don't know that I am looking too hard. Nothing has worked with anything in real life dating so far. I. Almost about to give up.

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't know, you're cute enough.

[OnlinePeanut22]

I don't find you attractive at all
Your age is a turn off.

[FunkyMonkee]

You haven't even seen me! But, I was only telling you that you were cute, I wasn't trying to get into your panties.

[OnlinePeanut22]

Your age is turn off.

[FunkyMonkee]

So? Does that stop you from being cute?

[OnlinePeanut22]

No. I said I am not interested in guys from g@g.

[FunkyMonkee]

Okay but, I wasn't trying to GET you interested in me. I was only telling you that you're cute and, therefore, guys should be interested in you.

[OnlinePeanut22]

OK. No guy will apps approach me and sometimes I will approach guys but I end up getting rejected.

[FunkyMonkee]

I guess that's their loss, then. I get treated like that, too.

[OnlinePeanut22]

Online but different. Did you help make some friends. I also has used online dating to. It deponds.

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, I've made lots of friends online all over the world but, that doesn't help as far as wanting friends HERE, IN PERSON. Around here, I got NOTHING! Just my ex-neighbor that takes me shopping once or twice a month.
Anyway, I was thinking, I went to high school with a girl named, Susan Jolly and she's a bit like you, kinda pretty but she had something that caused her to have a spot of trouble talking well and I think she was 100% swift on her feet, either. The point is, I bumped into her about 10 years ago and discovered that she is (or at least, was) married and has a kid! So, if she can do it, I'm sure you can, too!

[Anonymous]

I assumed they all pursued you and asked you out

[OnlinePeanut22]

No they don't ask me out.

[OnlinePeanut22]

Or pursed.