Would you lose respect for your S/O if they tell you they used to be a sugar baby?

[snackthatsmilesback]

Like they had a sugar daddy/momma before.

Obviously now they don't cause they're with you, but would you see them different or think less of them if they tell you that about their past?

[Guy13]

Not necessarily as I would appreciate the honesty that would eliminate any later surprises.-there's much to be said for that.

Of course at that moment, my intuition of "high maintenance" would be confirmed. That's not a deal killer for me... I have a leaning towards spoiling. Each case stands on its own as far as I am concerned...

[sassy_receptor]

i used to be a sugar baby. not granted it was for about a month a half and i never slept with this man ever, but i did get paid over $500 for hanging out with him one time and texting him everyday. i do share this with guys i’ve dated and they always laugh or ask me questions. never got a bad reaction after telling a guy but maybe that’s because it was so short lived and there was no sex involved.

[sassy_receptor]

*now

[Aerissa_Jade]

If they waited until we were really serious or married, it would cause a loss of respect but if they told me early on when I gave them the chance, it would not.

[Effably]

Lose respect? No. In some way it validates me does it not? If material things is not my main contribution to our relationship it is akin to her telling me she values what I provide more than she does those. That is endearing to me.

Of course I'd see her a little different. Learning new things about people always changes how we view them at least a little.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Good point

[Avicenna]

Maybe. It depends on a lot of things.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Like what?

[OpenClose]

I mean yeah kinda. But if they're making the effort to establish a life for themselves rather than setting up shop in someone else's, I down to play cheerleader for someone wanting to claim some agency.

[petitedollbabee]

Nah. It’s a job like any other. People glamourise sugaring and make it sound so easy but in reality it’s not easy, it’s very mentally and physically draining.

[Miristheiss]

I would have broken up immediately and found someone who has the same values I have.

[annabananna]

I would probably think he is joking but if he really did I would think he must have really been through a hard time and love him anyway.

[msc545]

yes this wood concern me a great deal because indicates is that they used to Trading sex for money. Although I think most women do this in one form or another, most are not so blatant about it.

[AsaKyo]

No, they were just makin' the dough lmao

[DailyAsk]

Yes, I would.

[Fuentes]

She would be dumped

[Solitario_94]

No, that's kinda revealing of how wise they are.

[Bruce24]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

No..