My boyfriend is broke all of the time and now I am too?

[Anonymous]

I was doing better off financially before I started dating my boyfriend. I had a better social life and everything was drama free.. now, I’m in debt, making less money and smoking weed all day cause that’s what he does. I am fed up of this and don’t know how to go about breaking up with him. I just don’t feel compatible with complacency.

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Been together almost 6 months. And he’s been slowly sinking my ship.

[Sparkie460]

He is using you for. Money. It's definitely time to leave him. If he's with you now, send him home and tell him it's over.

[Sparkie460]

Thanks for the mho

[slatyb]

Who's name it's on the lease? Yours? Kick him out. His? Move out.

[Asker]

He doesn’t live with me. I’m on the lease. He lives with like 7 other men

[slatyb]

Then it's easy. Next time he calls, just say "Sorry, this isn't working for me. Best wishes. Don't call again."

[Asker]

He’s over my house right now sleeping and I want to be out experiencing life on my off time but he feels like a ball and chain and I just can’t do anything.. it’s always an argument that has to do with his jealousy and I end up staying in doing nothing all damn day to keep the peace in the “relationship”..

[slatyb]

You can certainly do something. Send him home, don't invite him back.

[Asker]

He approached me and asked me what was wrong and why have I been quiet/isolating and I explained that I am not comfortable when I’m broke.. so then it lead to him saying that I don’t love him and all of this and kept asking me to tell him what it is and so I told him that I have essentially been broke since being in this relationship and I am uncomfortable when I am broke. He said that means I don’t love him and in my mind I’m thinking it means I want someone on my level of finances so I am not the only one doing everything, buying us meals, driving him everywhere.. he’s just been silent since. He’s sleeping on the couch 🤷🏽‍♀️ I imagine he doesn’t even have bus money to get home and I do not have the $$ to take him home and go to work next week so… but ultimately, I will not dare broke men again. Learned my lesson.

[slatyb]

He's an adult. He can make his own way home.

[Asker]

Broke up with him. Already feel relieved.

[slatyb]

Congratulations and best wishes for a brighter future.

[Summeroflove]

Is he using you for money or are you using him for it? Then get off the pot and break up if you're not happy with him.

[inhua]

not gonna lie. this doesn't sound real at all even though it probably is

I don't know how anyone could get themselves into this situation. what drew to this in the first place? his looks? his bad boy swagger? did the people around you warn about him at all or did you just ignore them?

[Asker]

I guess I like to fix people and settle for people who put no effort in life.. no idea. I am not even all that attracted to him when I’m with him.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Get off that ship. You came to check it out, some stuff was nice, the ship is sinking, get the fuck off and go sailing another day.

[20yearsolder]

It's simple, you state the facts just like you did on this post. Then you add it's unacceptable and it's time for me to move on.

[Anonymous]

There’s no easy way to break up but you know it’s for the better. Just pick a moment when you’re both free and end it. It’s only been 6 months you’ll be over him in no time and much better for it.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Put down the bong, throw the roach in a ashtray, and tell him to fuck off! Well use your girlie powers to act all emotional so he'll break up with you eventually.

[OddBeMe]

Eeesh…this happens a lot. Some people are leeches. Ticks. Bloodsuckers. Just take back what you can of yours, maybe trick him into depositing money and then dump his ass.

[EndGame55]

This is the results of feminist fighting for equality. Enjoy.

[Anonymous]

Isn't smoking weed supposed to make somebody less angry? Or are women just impervious to chilling?

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Welcome to manhood every man who dates women is in the same boat

[cloud9vortex1234]

Nobody is forcing you to smoke weed. That's on you.

[In_Trance]

put up with it or move on