So I was talking to and dated a girl who was my very first real girlfriend, for a short time. She's 19.
Christian gal, has some standards, and isn't afraid to speak her mind.
She always told me she was really really eager to start a family and have kids. She really loves kids.
I wasn't the biggest fan of it, but I was really into her. I wasn't too sure about marriage however.
Fast forward, she's my ex, still great friends, and we decided to break it off bc we both admitted we weren't ready.
But it's been a few months now and I recently had my own realization: maybe marriage wouldn't be such a bad thing. I mean plenty of young people (18-25) get married.
And at first I was afraid of the idea. I was afraid of growing up. But now, for some reason, I want it sooo bad. This feeling just came out of no where.
At some point in the near future, I will ask if we can give what we had another try. Only this time, I want what she wants. Because I finally see why and how getting married could be a net positive.
Or maybe love music from the 80s is making me want this 😂
So what could be causing this change of heart in me?
Christian gal, has some standards, and isn't afraid to speak her mind.
She always told me she was really really eager to start a family and have kids. She really loves kids.
I wasn't the biggest fan of it, but I was really into her. I wasn't too sure about marriage however.
Fast forward, she's my ex, still great friends, and we decided to break it off bc we both admitted we weren't ready.
But it's been a few months now and I recently had my own realization: maybe marriage wouldn't be such a bad thing. I mean plenty of young people (18-25) get married.
And at first I was afraid of the idea. I was afraid of growing up. But now, for some reason, I want it sooo bad. This feeling just came out of no where.
At some point in the near future, I will ask if we can give what we had another try. Only this time, I want what she wants. Because I finally see why and how getting married could be a net positive.
Or maybe love music from the 80s is making me want this 😂
So what could be causing this change of heart in me?
