Make women wives again! Modern women what do you offer that would make a man want to marry you?

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Ladies let’s be real (specifically modern women) what do you offer your man? If all you have is sex he can get that anywhere & youve no value. you’re not giving them purity anymore, you’re not giving them youth anymore, and now you’re not nurturing either? What do you offer? If all you say is companionship or loyalty he can get that from his boys at a fraction of the price 😂 and they’ll watch football with him all day and are way better at talking about it! Women are nurturing you should be happy to cook for him and take care of him when he watches his game!! Clean and cook and nurture the family! He should be happy to provide for you, protect you. Drop you off in front of the entrance when it’s raining and then go park the car. pump your gas, change your oil, get outta bed & check on the scary noise! Most decent men (and there’s lots of em) are happy to do that!!! So what do you offer him! Why is marrying you worth it what benefit do you bring him? Half these modern women don’t have a cook book. The 70s are over! Let’s get back in the kitchen and make our men happy. Plus if you don’t cook for him from scratch he’ll go order junk get fat in turn lowering his testosterone level & you’ll have worse sex and less of it 🤷‍♀️ make women wives again

sassy_receptor · Accepted Answer

what i offer does not matter if there is not a man of quality on the receiving end to receive it. tired of seeing these questions of what women can bring to the table and what they have to offer without the same questions of what qualities do men obtain to receive said treatment being asked. most men are not even worth women’s time. most have a porn addiction of some kind, do not have an income to support a family, do not know how to take care of themselves or support themselves without their others help, or have no motivation and want to play video games all day. let’s also add that men’s want to marry has declined due to the financial and child support reasons. and a good amount of them don’t want to have kids because they simply don’t want to. this is not a minority of men either so don’t act like it is. are you going to make a post telling them this is wrong and non tradiitonal and not masculine or do you want to continue to shift the blame to fit your narrative? you wanna make women wives again? let’s make men husbands and fathers again. maybe when those two things improve, the situation will too.

Changiis07 · Accepted Answer

It doesn't help that most women now are so easy to get. Most are on social media shaking their ass. Be a high valued women and don't be so easy to get because you end up being replaceable since it was just that easy

ObscuredBeyond · Accepted Answer

At this point in life, I want financial stability the most. And a place to go to. A homestead to defend. So I don't have to be a wandering homeless beggar. My mom is frantically trying to get my sister into doomsday prepping. My dad has all but given up.

The psychos in high places are destroying everything, and brainlets can't even process that a black female film critic might actually find Black Panther 2 to be poorly written and insulting. Her feeling that way conflicts with The Message, so she's suddenly just another witch to burn.

Other than a survival partner willing to do or die with me, even if we get Waco'd or Ruby Ridged for trying, that is a dream woman. A fantasy I doubt will ever be real. I otherwise don't even know what to quantate anymore as an ideal partner.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

Everyone wants to remake the Wheel. Our Intelligent Design Is. If we operate, both spiritually and morally, within our Intelligent Design then we will be a more happy Western World.

The reason for the Asian-Attraction is the seeking of Conservative structure and ways. Those roles and communal functioning still exists in the East. It is the “Good Men” of the West creating this Trend rather than the Porn, Hollywood, and/or Social Media that dictates Western culture.

Bethany22 · Answer

We still offer the emotional labour of caring for your emotional pain that the rest of society (including your male friends) would ridicule you if you shared it with them. With us, you can have deep, intimate conversations without having to worry about being laughed at.

Anonymous · Answer

Men are replaceable too, stop objectifying us.

We don't listen to pick me hoes who lack personality and love to simp after men. Or you're just a guy posting as a woman.

You're neither traditional nor modern.

Firstly, NO a girl is not supposed to be feminine or nurturing. You're someone weak and fragile who's shit scared of successful and competent women that actually has brains and talent. Did your female boss fired you or a woman outsmarted you at work? Let me guess, you don't even work because you're shaming women for being self sufficient.

Why all the pressure on women? We also have loyal companions, our girl besties, pets and relatives. I make my own fucking money and have made these men strip after me, what the fuck do guys offer other than their thirsty dicks? Tell me.

All guys do is work (which anyone can do), play golf, stare at women, have sex with c**ts, what extra thing are they offering as a husband? Why can't they nurture or be a stay at home dad, do chores while we make money?

NO IT'S NOT needed because servants can do that too. So we don't want low value men either.

NewYorkCity · Answer

I Respect and admire your courage for basically pointing out that Social System has been hijacked and deliberately broken down and I hate to say this, but things are not going back. Bastards upstairs placed way too much effort and spent way too much money and time in order to make sure that things won't get back as they were in 1800's. In corporate and governmental eyes, Nuclear family is Very dangerous and not profitable. when both Wife and husband are working 10 hours a day, it doubles corporate and governmental profit. Plus keeping Husband, Wife separate from their children is GREAT for controlling what kids are learning in school which is NOTHING and that is Great too, because that is how government keeps Full control of dumbed down slave population while corporation is using that slave labor to make stupid amount of profit. Do you see how it works. Government+Corporation=Population Slavery Control.

LazerBean · Answer

As a traditional woman, I find it very odd that you would come out slamming modern women when you yourself are sleeping around with some dude half your age that you aren't married to. It's very modern of you, and very not traditional of you. I dont disagree with anything that you said in this post. I'm just saying that maybe you need to focus more on being less of a modern woman yourself so that you aren't sending out friendly fire.

MzAsh · Answer

I pay the bills. I keep the relationship on its toes. I was there for him riding the bus with him when he was broke and had no car. I nursed him back to health for 6 months after he had an accident at work that left him in a wheelchair for months and during that time doing everything: working, cooking, cleaning, driving him to appointments, getting him dressed, running his errands. I was there for him when both his parents died, when his uncle died, and his grandma died. I’ve supported him through stress and anxiety. So am I a housewife? Absolutely not and he doesn’t want a housewife. He wants a modern wife who is a life partner and that’s what I am. And it’s working well for 15 years and counting.

flautistnaturist · Answer

Looking to the Loving Source common to all things as the true purpose in life, helping another to do the same, by example through your submission, is the essence of true value which women have the blessing of being talented at more naturally than men. In this sense, leading by example, by submitting to the Love which gives us all breath, is where you women truly shine for us men, according to the design intended for human beings. In this way, you all are golden.

"He who finds a wife, finds a good thing." (It's in the Bible.)

oddwaffle · Answer

I think you have a point. I am pretty happily single for a while now. I live alone, I can cook and I only need to clean for one. I have a girlfriend who promise to have a fwb+ relationship with no marriage and no kids with me.

The thought of getting a wife is just wrong. I feel like I would be losing out.

There was this guy who asked to marry another guy for the tax benefits and pooled their resources together like a couple but live as independent guys. That was so appealing to me. We could share the work, tools and help each other on tougher work around the house. He could buy a boat and I could buy a Lambo and we could share them to chase girls. We could hire a nude maid to clean while we watch over a beer. No hard feelings!

Kori1236 · Answer

I’m happily single and not currently looking. To me the point of a relationship is to be partners. I don’t want him to be the sole provider, I don’t want to raise the kids (don’t want them anyway). Cooking for the both of us sure, but he’s expected to cook too; if he doesn’t know that basic life skills his parents have failed him. Cleaning is a shared chore too; again if he can’t keep a clean home and clean up after himself his parents have failed. I don’t want kids so why would I want to raise a man who can’t take care of himself?

All the relationships I’ve been in were a partnership, their parents taught them to be self sufficient and independent so they didn’t rely on me to do their laundry, cooking and cleaning. With my last relationship I genuinely saw a future with him until he broke our trust; and after that there was nothing left for us.

Anonymous · Answer

I can give him purity, make him laugh, cook, clean, look after him, his house, kids, wealth etc. I just can't find him - otherwise he would get it all without asking. I think a certain brand of feminism was invented to create a divide between men and women and now no one is happy. Women can be free without hard core feminism. Men and women are different physiologically, emotionally etc for a reason. We are different but equal. We don't need to constantly compete with each other. Social media, changing societal values/morals have destroyed what could have been beautiful. The trick is to recognise the world for what it is, a lot of us feel the same on the inside but you can't say what you feel because you'll be labelled. I say don't be scared, say what you feel, you'll get the relationship you want/deserve.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

I will be possibly the best wife for my husband... once I find a man who is worth the title.

by the way. You make it sound like as if men/husbands were just kids that you have to look after and so on. A husband is a 24/7 companion in the first place. NOT a kid

art84 · Answer

I can clean for myself like kitchen, dishes, room and laundry but cooking alright in that category with simple stuff like eggs, bacon, burgers, frozen food but not making stuff from scratch. If I had a wife I honestly would expect her to do half of the household work like laundry towels and dishes. I am not huge into sports and wouldn't spend my day watching football or basketball maybe wrestling or a movie. I think a women would need to bring more than being a housewife as those type of woman are rare that want to raise children while the husband supports the family. Most woman want a career and should go after their dreams and goals and accomplish them then getting married in today's world. I just think I would make husband material as I don't stand up for myself and would let a woman run all over me if she say how weak I was and she was aggressive.

MichaelEspinoza · Answer

Listen , as a male let me say this - women you are special you are loved God created you for a purpose. A woman is more than her outer shell but inwardly is what matters most. A respectable man will love you for you not what you look like. So what matters most in a marriage is that the husband & wife come together in love & unity for they're Marriage not strife. Allowed God in your marriage & it will work out

Sanamina · Answer

If u r dating a working woman it goes without saying that u have to share household work.

Also if u want a full time housewife why are u dating a working woman?

Also depends on whether u can afford a housewife or not... If ur making minimum wage then u clearly cannot and would prefer to be with a girlfriend with a job

In which case u should probably share the household work.

desperatelyhungry · Answer

I’m loyal. I don’t really have interest in a man that ain’t my own and shown himself to be reliable and a good man. I believe in communication and not unnecessary drama. I will be there for him and be a shoulder to lean on. I will also make him feel like a man. I don’t wanna be with someone just cause they have money. As long as he works hard and does his best to get by, that’s good enough for me

A_Bell · Answer

Tbh, not much any more. My single female friends have little to offer a husband and the lo longer I am married the less I can stand their crap. I look back to myself two or three years ago and I was worthless relationship material myself.

Adaeva · Answer

Primarily women are not pure and never have been. They are not designed to be pure, they are designed to keep their options open.

Tennessee_fan · Answer

I believe the cooking and house cleaning should be shared between the husband and wife I like to cook myself and I like to have a clean house besides the world is freaking nuts today with all the dumb shit going on and it takes two to make it these days

Anonymous · Answer

Well…. You won’t wait until marriage again so you’re not giving him purity and worried he’s using you….

You don’t have time for this at 40. It’s normal to be attracted to who you like. As I said. Younger man. Higher chance for healthier kids if you tied the knot down quickly.

You ain’t got time for this shit

Anonymous · Answer

A 40 year old woman doesn't have much to offer at all.

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing, I don't know why anyone would want to get married. If not for papers, marriage is useless. I see it as only a very old tradition that doesn't hold any value anymore. Only wasting money on wedding and making separation more complicated.

TryMeBee · Answer

Nah. I'm more than happy to cook, clean, care, nurture, provide, protect, park the car in the rain, pump gas, change oil, and get outta bed & check on the scary noise myself. Men can do their own thing it's fine. I'll just be a person.

DaisyM23 · Answer

I mean I'm single but I'm fine with cleaning and okay enough at cooking to do this for my partner as long as they clean up after themselves to an extent and cook too sometimes but it'd have to be both of us giving equally to the relationship

18Uma21 · Answer

I cook everyday
I'm an obsessive cleaner
I do chores everyday
I am energetic
I have a good job
I am romantic
I am loyal
I've gotten offers from 3 modeling agencies (so I'm not bad looking)
I don't fight
I am sociable
I am polite

There is this problem tho, I am not humble

TallAnon · Answer

Most women seem to bash the question, rather than answer it; Disappointing.

I currently live on my own and manage just fine, with a fulltime job and plenty of time and money to spare. Cooking, cleaning? I can do all that myself, I don't need a woman to do this for me.
I want a woman for companionship, that's all. If life is easier with her by my side, that's enough.
Be likable and carry your own weight; That's all you need to do.

Anonymous · Answer

Ah, the good old days, when women were feminine and knew how to treat a man well.

Alas, those days are a thing of the past. Some of the females who responded here with comments like "ask my husband" have posted so many things here on GAG that show they are horrible wives, it's just comical and sad at the same time.

RangerBlue22 · Answer

Women changed first in the social revolution of the 60s and men changed in RESPONSE to it. Women started up feminist organizations first and men RESPONDED to it.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

You can’t have traditional men or women in a post-modern society. The government has taken up all of the responsibility and provides incentive for throwing the whole marriage away at the first sign of trouble.

fonduegirl · Answer

I don't want to offer anyone anything. But hey, thanks for asking.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Great post! Agree! 99.9% of women offer nothing or nothing close to whats required for a commitment.

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

I am married.

My wife's companionship has NOTHING to do with the one I have from my friends.

Not better or worse. Different. I need both.

She doesn't need me, but wants me. That's what most men want. A partner, not a child.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

You're 40 years old trolling the web? What wife 😳 has time to do that? Pretty obvious you're a guy. Quit trolling

Lis-the-librarian · Answer

Guys still pick these type of women.  Either they are fooled or they want such women.  It's like voting with your wallets.

Anonymous · Answer

40 year old pick me keesha have you been chosen? Is your self esteem so low that you value Is determined by a mam? The question is , "what does he have to offer in order for me to say I do". Now tfoh grandma

Anonymous · Answer

Men don’t want purity anyway. They like loose women. And they don’t want to get married because they want to be with as many women as possible

Anonymous · Answer

I will speak for myself only. The way a woman will win me is by giving me massages and cuddles and love and sex and to not cheat on me. is that too much to ask for?

HoneyButterCup525 · Answer

I don't want kids and I hate cleaning but I can cook really good stuff.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell me you’re a man without telling me

Twalli · Answer

My girlfriend provides something I can't accurately put into words.

Luopio27 · Answer

I would like to have some pizza.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Best gift is virginty

Subarugirl · Answer

Ask my husband ;)

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Interesting proposal.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

they offer absolutely NOTHING.

krin_m · Answer

Be a friend and a partner!

Alperengin4 · Answer

love ofc

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