So the first date went really well we both enjoyed it he asked me to meet up a second time and i think we both enjoyed it.
Then he asked do u want to go on a third date.
But on the second date he was very affectionate like holding my hand and being really cute in ways
but he kind of shuts himself off when I asked what he was looking for he just said he didn’t want a one night stand but to see where things go.
Like he gives me such boyfriend vibes but like is kinda acting like he’s not like that at the same time if that makes sense.
I know it’s early days but I am looking for a relationship myself so I don’t want to be wasting my time either.
But I really hope he doesn’t play me. Lol
I’m a bit afraid as I’ve been hurt before so I dunno like.
He out of nowhere showed me on tinder in the first and second date that I was the only girl he was talking too and I was so shocked like so I dunno I’m really afraid he’s gunna play me as I took that up as a red flag because I don't know how I’m the only one when he has loads of matches if you get me.
Like is that strange?
I mean he gives me such boyfriend vibes but in the same time not if that makes sense I’m just afraid he’s doing that love bombing thing or something lol
Somebody help a girl out
Then he asked do u want to go on a third date.
But on the second date he was very affectionate like holding my hand and being really cute in ways
but he kind of shuts himself off when I asked what he was looking for he just said he didn’t want a one night stand but to see where things go.
Like he gives me such boyfriend vibes but like is kinda acting like he’s not like that at the same time if that makes sense.
I know it’s early days but I am looking for a relationship myself so I don’t want to be wasting my time either.
But I really hope he doesn’t play me. Lol
I’m a bit afraid as I’ve been hurt before so I dunno like.
He out of nowhere showed me on tinder in the first and second date that I was the only girl he was talking too and I was so shocked like so I dunno I’m really afraid he’s gunna play me as I took that up as a red flag because I don't know how I’m the only one when he has loads of matches if you get me.
Like is that strange?
I mean he gives me such boyfriend vibes but in the same time not if that makes sense I’m just afraid he’s doing that love bombing thing or something lol
Somebody help a girl out
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Maybe he is being sincere and simply doesn't want to appear to be overeager.
I hope so lol
Overthinking. Relax and enjoy the dating. 🤷🏻♂️
I know I’m just afraid of being hurt as I got love bombed before thinking a guy was genuine with me to turn out to treating me so horrible and cheating on me repeatedly behind my back I never ever wanna feel that pain again
Try not to make that obvious as there is such a thing as a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Okay I’ll try
It is FUN, damnit !!! if it kills you even... Fun and a quiet cautious eye. :-)
I know I’m just such a softie and I hate it all I want is to find my mr right and I feel like it’s just so hard
You'll be fine...