What does it mean when your girlfriend says it would be hard for you to find another girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

She would use threats of breaking up as a controlling mechanism, she didn’t really like to communicate it would trigger her and when I would speak about really serious relevant issues she would lash out at me

[QuadDamage]

It depends of the girls backstory, borderline issues. Nothing is ever as simpel as that. And if it is that simpel, and feels very shallow. You know what to do 👍

Call her bluff big time and make sure she understand it is very immature behaviour and it HURTS you!

In my pov: she does this because she is the one being scared of losing. Can be a defense mechanism because she's used to getting dumped for example. So she can dump you, before you dump her. Just make sure she tells you what the hell is wrong. Because you won't stand for it.

Once in a while you have to step foot down, even if you hurt people. You need to look after yourself and your own value. You know that bad gut feeling you can get. If it's always like that, then it is time.

Good luck!

[Anonymous]

That's called narcissistic devaluation. It's purpose is to make you think you should stay with her and put up with her bullshit.

[anonanonanonomys]

Whether she's actively aware of it or not she is trying to hurt your self esteem in attempts at keeping you in the relationship. Because if you believed that why would you leave someone who wants to be with you.

[Wise4myage]

She thinks your dumb enough to fall for her BS. Just dump her already and move on with your life.

[CA4444]

Doesn’t sound good…

[In_Trance]

nothing