What does it mean when your ex-girlfriend says "I miss you."?

[Anonymous]

My ex girlfriend dumped me about a month and a half ago randomly. She told me she needed a week break to "figure things out" well sure enough, a week later I find out that she slept with her ex boyfriend two days after she texted me she wanted a break. Her ex boyfriend has caused problems in are relationship in the past and this one definitely highlighted it. Anyway, I wanted to work things out, but she kept telling me she wanted to be single and that I deserve better. So we officially broke up then and after I would vaguely talk to her and try to go No Contact, but she'd still contact me. This happened for about a month and a half and she texted me yesterday that she "Misses me." What does she mean by this? Is she trying to boost her ego because she feels guilty about what she did and the break up or what? I also noticed a few days before, that she de-friended her ex boyfriend on Facebook, could this be part of the reason why she is saying this to me? The two days before this she has been trying to contact me by saying "hey, whats up?" and sending me a picture of her dog the following day, but I didn't respond to either of those. Could she be using "I miss you" to get be to respond to her? I really do love her still, as how horrible of a person she is and what she did to me. I do want to get back with her, but at the same time I'm afraid I'll be hurt again. I just don't know what to do and it's draining me.

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So I just gave her a neutral response by saying "I know." Thoughts about my response?

[TheOneTurv]

alright dude. I went out with a girl that did the same thing... but only did it 3 times... broke up for no reason... fucked up... wanted to get back together. I should have broken up with her the first time.

Stop all contact with this girl. Dont get back together with her for sure! If she sleped with her EX BOYFRIEND 2 days after she broke up with you is just showing she does not give a crap about you and has lied whenever (if she even did) she said i love you.

Don't talk to her man, if you do she will convince you to go back out with her and you WILL get hurt again like me. I was a fool and learned my lesson on when to end things with a girl. End them now dude

I wish you luck. If you wanna talk things over message me.

Chazz

[Bluemax]

It is possible to care for someone and yet know that you aren't right for someone. In some way she probably cares for you, but knows you aren't right for each other. I think you probably know this, too. Therefore it might be best not to contact one another. Just because she texts you doesn't mean you have to text her back.

[krissykarma]

She may miss you, but she doesn't respect your relationship. I'm sorry. This is clearly not a situation anyone should have to go through. Tell her how you feel if you must, and then cut contact. If you don't, you will keep talking to her and get hurt again that way.

[Loves_COD_Ghosts]

I didn't really read that but all I know is if an ex-gf says she misses you it means SHE WANTS YOU 😉😉😏😏 but probably you shouldn't go out with her again cause if she was the right girl for you you wouldn't have broken up in the first place. Enjoy being single

[beautyispriceless]

I wouldn't go back with her simply because she slept with her ex after telling you she needed her time. And second she assumes "you deserve better"; she is basically kind of telling you she is not the girl for you. A true lover wouldn't doubt

[sboy2722]

I agree with you

[girl30]

Honestly, you shouldn't go back. Even if she does love you, from her actions, it's clear that her ex can come in the middle anytime. He controls her. If she can throw away your relationship for her ex then you might as well move on.

[FourStar]

It means she actually misses you and wants the D. You should have sex with her then leave her and flip the script on whos hurting who.