How do I stand out among the others? Don't other women use their sexuality to get guys to look at their profiles? If I use anything too plain they will ignore me. What kind of pics would you use to attract the opposite sex? Examples would be nice to see.
I going to show you some photographs that get me to stop and read their page and I'm going to tell you some stuff that will help you out a lot
Use at least one full body photo because people may think you have something to hide
Repeat after me: Bathroom selfies have no place in a dating profile. Do not use photos that are blurry, dark, blocking your face, heavily photoshopped, or that are of you with a group (how will people know which one you are?). People will look at your photos before anything else, so they’ve got to be good and varied. So mix it up and add more then one photo
Think about who you really are and what you like to do, and try to get that across with your photos. Like if you like skiing, hiking or outdoor stuff. By all means post a photo of that. Are you getting the idea
Plus, If you have a pet, post a photo of you with them
The point that i'm trying to make im trying make is this. Add as many different kinds of pictures to your profile as you can, so people can get an idea of what you like to do without typing it out in the read about me part in the profile. Let your pictures do the talking.
Other tips that might help
Use the right Words in Your Username & Bio. Like don't use screen names like Sinfully Delicious, that would make you sound like a slut
Keep It Relatively Short, But Be Specific About Yourself. Like I said above, let your pictures do the talking
Don't be a Karen in your profile (I have seen this a lot on-line) My point is this. Showing positivity is one of the most irresistible qualities a person can possess, and being positive in your dating profile will make people want to get to know more about you.
One the best tips I have is. Go look at other people’s profiles, and make a mental note of what you like and don’t like about them. Yes that means checking out the other girls profiles. Best way to beat the competition out there. Is to see what the men read are reading about other girls.
Spelling mistakes and using improper grammar is the number one worst thing you can do in your dating profile. You don't want to come across as an dunce. It’s worth taking some time to double-, triple-, and quadruple-check your profile before posting it.
I hope this helps
Wheres the logic?
You show us your face (in photos you posted) but asking anymous. I am asking you the same question love, WHERE THE EVER LOVING HECK IS THE LOGIC?
To answer your question, i'd only hit you up if i will need a fake girlfriend to make my ex jealous for a day and nothing more, i'd not be your boyfriend or your friend.
Then probably just report your account for "Sexuality and Pornography".
I would pity the guy who would agree to date with such a low bitch like you. 🙃
Yeah if you just want sex that’s great. If you want more than that, guys going after women for their sexuality ignoring you is awesome. Means many of them weed themselves out right away, less work for you. Mat end up with fewer guys contacting you but the quality of those guys be better. Again, depending on what you’re looking for of course. A good guy looking for a wifey wouldn’t be interested in you if you post those pictures. The low life who wants easy and auick access to sex or sex talk would be though.
Ok you’re totally hot and have amazing cleavage. What kinda guy are you looking to attract? I don’t think any of these send off the right message
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Depends what you're looking for...
If you're looking for serious dating, and maybe a relationship, the first pic (white top) is the best.
If you're just looking to get a guy for sex, the second pic (black bikini) will get more attention.
They’re all too trashy and you’re just gonna want men who only want sex.
You should use the top one
None of those, unless you're just looking to hook up. What are saying by showing your boobs so prominently? Who do you think you'll attract with those pics? You have a pretty face and great smile.
I'd change your blouse to something classy and suggestive instead of blatant - mystery is a good thing. The top pic with was less cleavage would work, or take a full body shot in some jeans. All you're going to get with those pics are guys who want to fuck you. On OKCupid, that's all you might get anyway, but any those pics will assure that.
Because so many women use secuality to get men, we've adapted and now can tell which women are just for fun, and which women are for a long term commitment. So it depends on the kind of girl you are, and what you're looking for. You will attract a guy based on what you portray.
Honestly, if you want a relationship, DON'T USE ANY OF THESE! Because it's gonna give off the vibe that you're more promiscuous, and guys won't take you seriously more than likely. They'll probably only have sex with you and that's it. You're portraying your self in a bad light. You're dressed in a hoe's uniform and when you dress in a hoe's uniform, guys are gonna assume that you're a hoe when they see you. Get a picture to where you're dressed more modestly.
I prefer that you use the 1st (top) photo. But, if you believe that photo isn't sexually appealing enough, the 2nd (middle) one should suffice. It's still decent and alluring. The star tattoo can serve as a conversation topic.
I think you are beautiful and your pretty face is enough to attract men all girls have boobs but your attractive face will make you stand out that's what i believe in if sex could make a man interested or commit in a relationship then every prostitute would have been married
You really don't need to show your boobs, if you are looking to attract a good man. (Even though they are nice, I must say.) Men aren't stupid; we know women have boobs. So if you show them, all that is saying is, "I'm a person that likes to show off their body." And that isn't necessarily a positive quality.
If you're looking for a serious relationship and a man to respect you for who you are as a person and not for your body then I recommend using the tips of the person who gave you the long answer on the types of photos/content to use.
I’m calling bullshit on this however if you dare to challenge me post a picture of that girl holding a sign that says Hello Static!
I like the first one best; they are all nice because you have a very beautiful smile. If a guy passes you up because you are not showing enough skin in your pics, do you honestly think you could build a solid relationship with him? When I do sites like that, I will use a pic of me and my dog, if allowed, because I want to attract a lady who will care about my/her pets as much as I do.
I would save the second one for guys you match with. The first one looks better than the third one in my opinion. You don't want to be too sexualized with your public profile. If you can use multiple photos, like you can on some other dating apps, use all 3.
You look happier in the first so that is more attractive to me. If a guy is wanting a girlfriend he would quite likely would reject you on the other two. If he is wanting sex tonight he would go for those pics if he liked big boobs.
Some guys really dig my I Don't Give A Fuck look. You should try that.
I have to vote for the first one. The other two you obviously look great in but those are going to basically attract the guys who only want sex and that’s it
Go with the white tee, the more serious you take the dating the higher chance you will find a guy who will stay. if u come off as just another toy. You will definitely attract the wrong attention.
Can't believe I'm saying this but picture number one. You don't look needy and slutty in the first picture. Just my honest opinion
OK Cupid was the best of the best, until Match bought them so they could destroy the site. Now it's just a web version of Tinder. Find a better site.
Use the top one if you are looking for a serious relationships. Don't use photos with revealing pictures as that sends the wrong message.
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