Which picture should I use on my OKCupid profile?

Question

How do I stand out among the others? Don't other women use their sexuality to get guys to look at their profiles? If I use anything too plain they will ignore me. What kind of pics would you use to attract the opposite sex? Examples would be nice to see.

humanearth · Accepted Answer

I going to show you some photographs that get me to stop and read their page and I'm going to tell you some stuff that will help you out a lot

Use at least one full body photo because people may think you have something to hide

Repeat after me: Bathroom selfies have no place in a dating profile. Do not use photos that are blurry, dark, blocking your face, heavily photoshopped, or that are of you with a group (how will people know which one you are?). People will look at your photos before anything else, so they’ve got to be good and varied. So mix it up and add more then one photo

Think about who you really are and what you like to do, and try to get that across with your photos. Like if you like skiing, hiking or outdoor stuff. By all means post a photo of that. Are you getting the idea

Plus, If you have a pet, post a photo of you with them

The point that i'm trying to make im trying make is this. Add as many different kinds of pictures to your profile as you can, so people can get an idea of what you like to do without typing it out in the read about me part in the profile. Let your pictures do the talking.

Other tips that might help

Use the right Words in Your Username & Bio. Like don't use screen names like Sinfully Delicious, that would make you sound like a slut

Keep It Relatively Short, But Be Specific About Yourself. Like I said above, let your pictures do the talking

Don't be a Karen in your profile (I have seen this a lot on-line) My point is this. Showing positivity is one of the most irresistible qualities a person can possess, and being positive in your dating profile will make people want to get to know more about you.

One the best tips I have is. Go look at other people’s profiles, and make a mental note of what you like and don’t like about them. Yes that means checking out the other girls profiles. Best way to beat the competition out there. Is to see what the men read are reading about other girls.

Spelling mistakes and using improper grammar is the number one worst thing you can do in your dating profile. You don't want to come across as an dunce. It’s worth taking some time to double-, triple-, and quadruple-check your profile before posting it.

I hope this helps

__MisterGoneShiner__ · Accepted Answer

Wheres the logic?
You show us your face (in photos you posted) but asking anymous. I am asking you the same question love, WHERE THE EVER LOVING HECK IS THE LOGIC?

To answer your question, i'd only hit you up if i will need a fake girlfriend to make my ex jealous for a day and nothing more, i'd not be your boyfriend or your friend.
Then probably just report your account for "Sexuality and Pornography".

I would pity the guy who would agree to date with such a low bitch like you. 🙃

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yeah if you just want sex that’s great. If you want more than that, guys going after women for their sexuality ignoring you is awesome. Means many of them weed themselves out right away, less work for you. Mat end up with fewer guys contacting you but the quality of those guys be better. Again, depending on what you’re looking for of course. A good guy looking for a wifey wouldn’t be interested in you if you post those pictures. The low life who wants easy and auick access to sex or sex talk would be though.

PizzaPieMamaBear · Accepted Answer

Ok you’re totally hot and have amazing cleavage. What kinda guy are you looking to attract? I don’t think any of these send off the right message

AviatorTom · Answer

Depends what you're looking for...

If you're looking for serious dating, and maybe a relationship, the first pic (white top) is the best.

If you're just looking to get a guy for sex, the second pic (black bikini) will get more attention.

Summeroflove · Answer

They’re all too trashy and you’re just gonna want men who only want sex.

Guy13 · Answer

You should use the top one

loveslongnails · Answer

None of those, unless you're just looking to hook up. What are saying by showing your boobs so prominently? Who do you think you'll attract with those pics? You have a pretty face and great smile.

I'd change your blouse to something classy and suggestive instead of blatant - mystery is a good thing. The top pic with was less cleavage would work, or take a full body shot in some jeans. All you're going to get with those pics are guys who want to fuck you. On OKCupid, that's all you might get anyway, but any those pics will assure that.

Pegases · Answer

Because so many women use secuality to get men, we've adapted and now can tell which women are just for fun, and which women are for a long term commitment. So it depends on the kind of girl you are, and what you're looking for. You will attract a guy based on what you portray.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I prefer that you use the 1st (top) photo. But, if you believe that photo isn't sexually appealing enough, the 2nd (middle) one should suffice. It's still decent and alluring. The star tattoo can serve as a conversation topic.

Tina19 · Answer

I think you are beautiful and your pretty face is enough to attract men all girls have boobs but your attractive face will make you stand out that's what i believe in if sex could make a man interested or commit in a relationship then every prostitute would have been married

tzdc21 · Answer

Honestly, if you want a relationship, DON'T USE ANY OF THESE! Because it's gonna give off the vibe that you're more promiscuous, and guys won't take you seriously more than likely. They'll probably only have sex with you and that's it. You're portraying your self in a bad light. You're dressed in a hoe's uniform and when you dress in a hoe's uniform, guys are gonna assume that you're a hoe when they see you. Get a picture to where you're dressed more modestly.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

You really don't need to show your boobs, if you are looking to attract a good man. (Even though they are nice, I must say.) Men aren't stupid; we know women have boobs. So if you show them, all that is saying is, "I'm a person that likes to show off their body." And that isn't necessarily a positive quality.

Starbers99 · Answer

If you're looking for a serious relationship and a man to respect you for who you are as a person and not for your body then I recommend using the tips of the person who gave you the long answer on the types of photos/content to use.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

I’m calling bullshit on this however if you dare to challenge me post a picture of that girl holding a sign that says Hello Static!

DCowboy4747 · Answer

I like the first one best; they are all nice because you have a very beautiful smile. If a guy passes you up because you are not showing enough skin in your pics, do you honestly think you could build a solid relationship with him? When I do sites like that, I will use a pic of me and my dog, if allowed, because I want to attract a lady who will care about my/her pets as much as I do.

Twalli · Answer

I would save the second one for guys you match with. The first one looks better than the third one in my opinion. You don't want to be too sexualized with your public profile. If you can use multiple photos, like you can on some other dating apps, use all 3.

RavVid · Answer

You look happier in the first so that is more attractive to me. If a guy is wanting a girlfriend he would quite likely would reject you on the other two. If he is wanting sex tonight he would go for those pics if he liked big boobs.

fonduegirl · Answer

Some guys really dig my I Don't Give A Fuck look. You should try that.

Aaron03 · Answer

I have to vote for the first one. The other two you obviously look great in but those are going to basically attract the guys who only want sex and that’s it

Pyrofox · Answer

Go with the white tee, the more serious you take the dating the higher chance you will find a guy who will stay. if u come off as just another toy. You will definitely attract the wrong attention.

20yearsolder · Answer

Can't believe I'm saying this but picture number one. You don't look needy and slutty in the first picture. Just my honest opinion

Anonymous · Answer

OK Cupid was the best of the best, until Match bought them so they could destroy the site. Now it's just a web version of Tinder. Find a better site.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

with thise kind of pics, especially the bikini pic, after 1 day your mailbox will be filled with 1000 thirsty guy messages and then your choosing game on which one to pick begins haha

Smoothing · Answer

Use the top one if you are looking for a serious relationships. Don't use photos with revealing pictures as that sends the wrong message.

tfan1 · Answer

First one if you want a relationship Second and third if you are wanting a one night stand?

scooogy · Answer

Too late, you already attracted us on here 🤷

MCheetah · Answer

The first one. Did you erase my first comment?

Therisinghero12 · Answer

Depends on your target audience, if you're looking for more casual stuff I'd say something more risky; but if your looking for something long term I'd say pics that help someone know you

TacosRAwesome · Answer

First pic for OkCupid.  2nd pic for tinder.

NerdInDenial · Answer

What type of relationship are you looking for?

Anonymous · Answer

how could you still single even tho you have big boobs?

Likes2drive · Answer

The first one as your main, maybe sneak in the bathing suit pic afterwards but it’s a regular dating site not Tinder

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

the middle on... i am an ass man and prefer the rearend shots of beautiful women but out of the 3 you have posted, i'd go with the middle one

soe11 · Answer

Last one is best, but every picture is unique style and attractive too.

Guardian45 · Answer

First one is fine! Second and third ones are too sexual for a PP.

The_Naughty_Guy · Answer

Use the second one. You look damn hot in it. Lovely cleavage 😍

Anonymous · Answer

If you are just wanting to get fucked, any of them will work.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I’ll hedge my bets on this, but are you trans by chance? Your face just looks really masculine for some reason

KrakenAttackin · Answer

OMFG, priceless! Just skip "OK Cupid" and go right to "Only Fans".

Anonymous · Answer

The 1st one why show lower half of body when top says your in shape

Anonymous · Answer

Riiiiiiight. Bro. This girl has trains running through her already. She doesn’t need a dating site.

jjj101010 · Answer

It would be good to use something full length if u have one.

Anonymous · Answer

are you looking for a fuckbuddy in that app

Anonymous · Answer

The middle pic gives a better overall view of your physical anatomy

Faith18letsgo · Answer

First one, it’s very cute.

sheikalana · Answer

I like the one with the white shirt.

TroyDT2 · Answer

Use ones that are actually of you.

Hardworkingguy · Answer

The one I'm white makes you look great 😃

HelpingMcHelpington · Answer

How much did you pay for those?

Wise4myage · Answer

I agree, use the first pic.

Anonymous · Answer

The one where guys can see how big your tits are.

QuietRunner · Answer

the second one

Anonymous · Answer

How about you use a picture of yourself.

Mafia24 · Answer

What's your charges?

joeldalton · Answer

Top one.

legalboxers · Answer

no scammer

In_Trance · Answer

First

Preeti161101 · Answer

First 🥇

panamared1 · Answer

middle

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