If you’re single, at what point do you think you and the other person should exclusively talk to one another?

[Danny_dan92]

Here’s my take.


As a man, these days women get bombarded with DM’s and messages every day. Hundreds if not maybe even thousands of advances.


This is exactly why initially I don’t invest all my effort in one woman until I clearly can tell I’m the man she wants.

This can take about a couple of days, it’s defined by how consistent she is in communicating, shows interest etc.


I once was talking to a girl that constantly accused me of talking to other women (we haven’t gone on a single date) and she was doin this, plus she was talking to other men too. So there was clearly a double standard.


The reason why I wouldn’t exclusively talk to one girl is cause honestly these days a girl could be really interested in a man and all it takes is one other guy she liked more and bam. You’re no longer interesting to her lol it’s happened to me many many times

[NathanDavis]

usually... we don't even talk about, we just happen to spend most of the day together and in person

or, we are in touch digitally for most of the day as well, and it happens naturally... the interest is genuine so things just happen, or they don't... lol

[Guy13]

2 months then on from there another 2 month evaluation

[LazerBean]

Whenever the two of you communicate that you are interested in being exclusive. Never assume anything.

[In_Trance]

when you both declare you're not seeing anyone else

[Anonymous]

I guess when you both say it is only you two.

[Anonymous]

I say a few months.