Here’s my take.
As a man, these days women get bombarded with DM’s and messages every day. Hundreds if not maybe even thousands of advances.
This is exactly why initially I don’t invest all my effort in one woman until I clearly can tell I’m the man she wants.
This can take about a couple of days, it’s defined by how consistent she is in communicating, shows interest etc.
I once was talking to a girl that constantly accused me of talking to other women (we haven’t gone on a single date) and she was doin this, plus she was talking to other men too. So there was clearly a double standard.
The reason why I wouldn’t exclusively talk to one girl is cause honestly these days a girl could be really interested in a man and all it takes is one other guy she liked more and bam. You’re no longer interesting to her lol it’s happened to me many many times
As a man, these days women get bombarded with DM’s and messages every day. Hundreds if not maybe even thousands of advances.
This is exactly why initially I don’t invest all my effort in one woman until I clearly can tell I’m the man she wants.
This can take about a couple of days, it’s defined by how consistent she is in communicating, shows interest etc.
I once was talking to a girl that constantly accused me of talking to other women (we haven’t gone on a single date) and she was doin this, plus she was talking to other men too. So there was clearly a double standard.
The reason why I wouldn’t exclusively talk to one girl is cause honestly these days a girl could be really interested in a man and all it takes is one other guy she liked more and bam. You’re no longer interesting to her lol it’s happened to me many many times
