Eew. She's trash. Anyone who does that and expect to be taken seriously in any relationship, let alone respected at all, is seriously deluded, narcissistic, and entitled to the extreme.
These people literally sell their dignity, self-respect, future job employment, and right to be viewed as a valuable productive member of society by doing lazy, shameless, half-assed, pseudo-sex work for a couple thousand dollars a month, and still think they're entitled to be seen with dignity, respect, future job employment, and the right to be viewed as a valuable productive member of society anyway. They are not.
When you sell your ass for $9.99 a month, you are telling the world what kind of person you are. Someone who is lazy, selfish, predatory, shameless, untrustworthy, and exploitative. No one is obligated to respect you for that anymore than people "respect" drug dealers and felons. Especially if you're disrespecting your partner by doing that kind of non-work.
But hey, welcome to the 2020s.
I really don’t understand the aversion to OF, short of insecurity among non-users.
I don’t really know the platform beyond its reputation. So i have to make some assumptions. Forgive my ignorance, please.
It appears to primarily favor females who have sexuality to sell. People, mostly men in my observation, who can’t or won’t accept this seem to object to the idea of women selling their image. They often compare the behavior to prostitution. Yet OF is safer in every way. Subjects don’t contract disease or infection and don’t subject themselves to abuse or theft of service. Their earnings are monitored and taxed, contributing to the economy and helping to pave the way for themselves and other workers to receive healthcare insurance benefits. They’re NOT increasing their “body count” in doing so but they ARE learning about the needs and desires of their target demographic. I’ve been with multiple women who were less than satisfying sexually despite having more sexual partners! Literally the only reasons for people to object to others using OF are jealousy and anti-capitalism in my opinion. Don’t get me wrong here. FUCK capitalism in its current form in the US. But if you’re mad about people making more money than you because you can’t do whatever they’re doing, grow up. Otherwise dismantle the system. We’ll wait. Ell oh ell!
Nothing wrong with doing onlyfans.
If she hides her face/identity, only does toys and such. And uses that money to invest or otherwise spends it wisely.
If she is public with it and like most, do whatever on it and spends money like it's Christmas, Then she is isn't your girlfriend, she is our girlfriend, for only 9.99$ a month 😉
A regular job with regular headaches involving coworkers and etc isn't anything to be proud of either.
If some women or men, want to use their body to gain few of their best years back, while doing what they like and also thinking about the future and etc then im happy for them.
Depends how you feel about it, plus what kind of Only Fans as not all involve nudity. I subscribed to a guy who played awesome guitar on there.
Everyone always has the option to not approve of someone else's income methods. Men complain a lot that women won't give them a chance if they have a crappy low income job, which is their choice too. If someone works at fast food then dump him, some will say.
Same goes for men, if you disapprove of what they do, go for what you feel like
The main thing I will say is don't try to be okay with something and be resentful it, that never works out.
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That depends on you and how you feel about it..
I’m out. Not my kids mom ‼️
While I don't condone it, I support her decision, but I will not be with a woman that did it. She made her money that way exploiting her sexuality, more power to her, but it also means that it takes away from the relationship integrity in my eyes. She is taking her clothes off and interacting with men while in a relationship for a price.
It comes off as though she can be bought by anyone. There is no privacy because now every dude that buys her content would see what her partner sees, only difference is they aren't sleeping with her, but that can be a floodgate for a potential possibility if some other man strikes her interest and attraction.
Bottom line, her decision, but a man doesn't have to participate in that whole mess. Women like this would be more of an friends with benefits kind of relationship at most.
I'd fuck and use her for her money, even blow up her ego about it, but as soon as something better comes along I'm out and onto something decent. No woman is ever yours anyways, it's just your turn.
I'd go with a mix out of a and b. I would dump her but with respect. Onlyfans is a redflag to me because it's a porn platform to me. There are surely guys that would support her doing it but I'm not since currently started to get rid off porn in my life.
I would respect her though I just couldn't imagine being in a relationship with her.
Some of these responses are a bit aggressive. She does not deserve disrespect, just like you do not deserve disrespect. Personally, I wouldn't date anyone who presently does OnlyFans or previously did OnlyFans.
Dump her sleazy, prostitute ass that thousands of men see butt naked and jack off to on a regular basis.
If you (or any man) would actually make a girlfriend or wife out of a whore then you are pathetic.
It’s rlly your personal opinion. I read an article about a guy who dated a famous porn star who was still a porn star while they dated and he was fine with it, ofc his family had a problem with it but he was ok with it. Even though OF and porn are two different things (sometimes) I’m just saying the story as reference.
If it doesn’t bother u then don’t make a fuss you know what I mean?
To be honest, if she's doing that, and still poor, then she's not much of a catch anyway.
that would depend on you, I can't really tell you what to do. I personally wouldn't be a fan, I don't think I could take serious a person who has been sexually seen by so many people for money. sure, it's not prostitution (I'd honestly probably be more comfortable if it was a prostitute than a OF girl ) but it doesn't really help. Most of the OF chicks I've seen aren't really kind, much less relationship material, to begin with.
Why are you dating someone without even knowing that she does onlyfans, and if she opened an onlyfans while you are dating why is she doing this without even talking to you about it... yeah in the latter situation even if you don't mind onlyfans, the part of taking such a step without letting know is a red flag on its own.
It's according to your opinion of whatever work she does on OnlyFans. If you think sexwork is acceptable and creating pornographic visual content for clients is fine, then there's no problem.
OnlyFans also has fitness trainers and professional chefs creating content on their site for paid subscribers. If your partner isn't doing porno content, then there's no question about her work.
Whatever floats your boat... you have everything to reject her for any reason you have, just stay respectful and well leave if you can't live with that knowledge
The only thing you should do is respect her enough to not be disrespectful about it.
If you think it's a deal breaker breakup.
If it isn't break up.
Some guys don't care.
Depends on if you're a porn consumer or not. If it's respectable to watch porn then it's certainly respect to make porn.
you would be dating a girl who makes money doing porn
You can respect her decision to show it all, and she can respect your decision to show it out..
Respect her decision and support her, that is her decision to make. not yours.
u that's up to you Coach... whichever makes you happier
Depends on her content. I personally wouldn't as long as she keeps it slutty and creative.
