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I asked him back in October if he was over the split and he said he was because we had a heart to heart conversation about it. However today he said he bumped into his ex mum and he said ‘ It was actually nice seeing her but I don’t think she would think the same’ part of me wants to reply back with why would she not think that? And another part of me Is annoyed his bought her up which is upset me because it’s not something I would want to hear oh it was good seeing my ex mum, seems his not over her and he shouldn’t really be dating me.
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by the way I meant HIS GIRLFRIENDS MUM! I have dyslexia so my spelling isn’t the best!
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Don't really see what his ex's mother has to do with him still been in love with his ex.
That's like saying if I like chicken I must love turkey just because both stem from the same tree don't mean I do.
Wait! Why would you be upset if he saw his “ex-mother” (whatever that is). I’m thinking it must be his birth mother who put him up for adoption. But either way, why the f**k would that upset YOU?
HIS EX GIRLFRIEND MUM!!!
Ahhhh! This is why the rules of grammar exist. My apologies, I GENUINELY thought you meant his Ex-Mum, as in a woman who used to be his mother. The apostrophe “s” Mayes ALL the difference. So he ran into his Ex’s mum? Well that makes WAY more sense. There is absolutely nothing wrong with him being friendly with his ex’s mum. I’m sure if he’s met your mother he has a friendly relationship with her, and that is completely separate to his relationship with you! If anything that should be VERY reassuring to you, because you now KNOW 100% that he did not mistreat his ex girlfriend, he didn’t cheat on his ex-girlfriend, and he damn sure did not HIT his ex-girlfriend! Because if he mistreated his ex-girlfriend in any way then her mother would absolutely HATE him! He damn sure wouldn’t be confused about why she may have not have “felt the same way” about being happy to see him. Relationships are complicated, when you are in a serious relationship, their family becomes like your family, their friends become your friends, and your favorite restaurant may become HIS favorite restaurant. So when relationships end, there are still ancillary relationships that exist within the commonality of both parties. You cannot expect a person to end all relationships that he may have had for years before he ever met you, just because he did meet you. I don’t know why you would be so insecure about him being happy to see someone he once was very close to? Again, especially his EX’s MOM? It’s not like it was his ex herself! Just look at it this way if you guys broke up, would you want him to be RUDE to your mom if he ever saw her again? NO! And now you know that the guy you are dating is kind, sweet, polite, will love your mom, and will never mistreat you! Just be happy that you are with a decent guy.
I’m dyslexic so sadly my grammar isn’t the best.
My worry was more to do with does he still have feelings for the ex or something as he said he was happy to see her. Not about the mum because I sure wouldn’t want him to be rude to her when it’s not the poor lady’s fault they broke up and like you said it’s nice to be nice to someone’s mum.
This is true! Thank you!
No worries sweetie, I have dyslexia too, and it was terribly difficult to learn how to manage it. So you have my complete and utter understanding, and my sympathy as a fellow dyslexic. I always had (and still do, I just spot it now MOST OF THE TIME!) but things like: The became Teh, does not was always doe snot, when and where became ehwen and ehwere! But like I wrote, I have learned to always proof read out loud as if i did not write it, and I do TEND to spot the errors then.
As for the B/F thing? Don’t worry, he was happy to see his ex’s mother… that is NOT a bad thing. Any man who is STILL friendly with the mother of the girl he dated, you know that’s a good man. Seriously, don’t worry about it. You are WAAAAAY overthinking this. He’s a decent guy, be happy that he is! Now if he actively hid from her… THEN I’d worry about WTF did he do to her daughter? Good luck in your relationship sweetie.
Thank you hun I appreciate this