Actually I wish I was short enough for some guys (hypothetically speaking.. I don't want to be with many guys but i met a lot of awesome shorter guys). I've dated a little bit shorter than me. And I prefer a guy a fee inches taller, not a whole lot. I'm short sighted anyway 😂 and wouldn't see his face if it's too tall.
I’m tall but I’ve been beaten out why shorter chubbier wise ass guys a few times back in the day when competing for women. I wasn’t happy about it but height was never something I thought about when I was in the dating game when I was younger.
I find it cringe when people complain about being too short when they are like 5'10. lol I think the people having serious issues with height and dating are the guys who are like 5'3 and not the ones who are at least 5'7 and up or around there.
Yeah sure a lot of women do want a man taller than her but also 1. there are women who don't and 2. short women themselves do exist enough too lol In everything true confidence is a key and humor helps a lot too
No shit sherlock. I take it memes are not a strong point of yours, unlike say, being completely delusional and coping about height. You seem to really excel there.
I'm not short but I can't imagine the hate they get from women. The hate they do receive might be the reason for not improving themselves due to lack of confidence.
I'm short, but I think being short has more advantages than disadvantages. I've played athletics all my life though. I haven't heard 1 short person I know ever blame their height for "life failings."
Men rarely fail because of one single trait such as height. You'll see lots of short guys who aren't rich, good looking or powerful with girlfriends. What they don't have is shitty attitude.
I think short men have it tough. They get picked on and made fun of and some are less likely to take a short man as seriously as taller men as they can have a child like appearance. Maybe there are other issues with those short men but I believe a lot of those issues may stem from how short men can be treated. It puts them on the defensive and likely makes them feel they have to bark loudly to be heard.
No they is not rhere height rhat is not the issue. I seen both short guys get girfr girlfriend just fine. I also has be in more relationships with short guys. They did ended. I prefer a short guys with good personality then tall men thwt has ugly personality.
Well true , but not the whole truth. It implies that short men somehow have to be otherwise perfect to get dates whereas tall men can get dates respectively. That indeed proves less height is a disadvantage.
A lot of guys are insecure about girls being taller, as long as she wouldn't mind. You shouldn't either.
Women simply lie about their preferences in height and appearance and money, and men are in major denial about it - "Just go to the gym", etc. as if that will make an ugly guy attractive to women. The only thing that works is money, and a LOT of it.
Why does "ugly" always come up when we are talking about short men? A short man can't hit the gym get ripped get successful and do well with women? I get it if you're ugly. Shit happens in life.
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Actually I wish I was short enough for some guys (hypothetically speaking.. I don't want to be with many guys but i met a lot of awesome shorter guys). I've dated a little bit shorter than me. And I prefer a guy a fee inches taller, not a whole lot. I'm short sighted anyway 😂 and wouldn't see his face if it's too tall.
I’m tall but I’ve been beaten out why shorter chubbier wise ass guys a few times back in the day when competing for women. I wasn’t happy about it but height was never something I thought about when I was in the dating game when I was younger.
I find it cringe when people complain about being too short when they are like 5'10. lol I think the people having serious issues with height and dating are the guys who are like 5'3 and not the ones who are at least 5'7 and up or around there.
Definitely!! It's mostly their character/mindset instead of their height
I agree but the so called evidence doesn't lie lol So men have a choice in life. Give up or compete.
Yeah sure a lot of women do want a man taller than her but also 1. there are women who don't and 2. short women themselves do exist enough too lol
In everything true confidence is a key and humor helps a lot too
Short women do exist that is for sure.
Compete and lose - over and over.
It's all about self confidence if a guy won't feel that obviously he would lack many things.
Short men who get rejected and blame their height for rejection are really doing themselves a disservice in my opinion.
I do think height can hurt you a bit in dating however if you have other qualities women want you’ll be just fine!
Height is an issue but if they aren't willing to try then that is on them for sure.
Height is unimportant to most women, so their real problem is inventing a problem that doesn't exist.
They did a nice job of convincing short men they are worthless for sure.
Thats just an internet troll for the most part, in the real world most women don't care about height.
Not sure what part of the world you're from but it don't be like that here.
@2b4sakn The US.
And if your neighborhood is that horrible, move.
Also: it's "it isn't like" not "it don't be like"
No shit sherlock. I take it memes are not a strong point of yours, unlike say, being completely delusional and coping about height. You seem to really excel there.
@2b4sakn Delusional? Grow up dude.
I'm not short but I can't imagine the hate they get from women. The hate they do receive might be the reason for not improving themselves due to lack of confidence.
I agree. It can be damaging for sure. Anyone can receive trauma no matter what height they are and should seek some kind of help to deal with it.
Often yes. I know a few short guys who complain but they also have like 10 other things fucked up about them. I'm not so sure it's about the height.
That is my argument 100%.
Your argument has serious flaws and is simply invalid.
I'm short, but I think being short has more advantages than disadvantages. I've played athletics all my life though. I haven't heard 1 short person I know ever blame their height for "life failings."
It's real world perspective. Short guys who go after it and short guys who cling onto bumble studies. We all decide.
Men rarely fail because of one single trait such as height. You'll see lots of short guys who aren't rich, good looking or powerful with girlfriends.
What they don't have is shitty attitude.
I think short men have it tough. They get picked on and made fun of and some are less likely to take a short man as seriously as taller men as they can have a child like appearance. Maybe there are other issues with those short men but I believe a lot of those issues may stem from how short men can be treated. It puts them on the defensive and likely makes them feel they have to bark loudly to be heard.
I don't think anyone is denying that. Like Rocky said you going to get up or stay down.
No they is not rhere height rhat is not the issue. I seen both short guys get girfr girlfriend just fine. I also has be in more relationships with short guys. They did ended. I prefer a short guys with good personality then tall men thwt has ugly personality.
Yes, absolutely.
I am short and didn't have problems attracting women.
The "I am too short" excuse is probably the weakest excuse I have never heard.
*ever
Do you believe they use it as an excuse not to improve themselves and try and compete?
Well true , but not the whole truth. It implies that short men somehow have to be otherwise perfect to get dates whereas tall men can get dates respectively. That indeed proves less height is a disadvantage.
A lot of guys are insecure about girls being taller, as long as she wouldn't mind. You shouldn't either.
This is the uncomfortable truth.
Nope I think women are absolutely shallow and petty enough for a man's height to be a massive barrier to dating.
So short guys should give up is what you are saying or can they compete?
I'm saying disregard females, acquire currency. Money is far more fulfilling than women
I don't think so. Women are notorious for not wanting to date men below a certain height.
Women simply lie about their preferences in height and appearance and money, and men are in major denial about it - "Just go to the gym", etc. as if that will make an ugly guy attractive to women. The only thing that works is money, and a LOT of it.
Why does "ugly" always come up when we are talking about short men? A short man can't hit the gym get ripped get successful and do well with women? I get it if you're ugly. Shit happens in life.
Women will equate "ugly" with short. They don't differentiate.
Agree to disagree dude. Stay safe have a good one.
A WOMAN that is so shallow that picks her husband/ boyfriend just off how tall he is. Is not a woman I would want in the first place.
Yes just like women who think they are high value or wife material because of their looks