I met my boyfriend through this one friend and she's the one that hooked us up. I got the feeling he may liked her because she's his type and I'm not. I asked him before in the past if he was attracted to her and he said he's never hit on her or tried to talk to her and has a boyfriend. He even told me once that she was more attractive as me as a joke. My friend is single now and he can't stop talking about it. He talks about her boyfriend too. He says he think she is may be mean in a relationship. I don't know what to do or how to figure it out but he has reassured me that he has no interest in her.
I think my boyfriend is into my friend?
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I don’t blame you for feeling like he’s interested in her, it almost seems like if she had been single before he got with you then he’d definitely had tried it with her. But you’re not going to get any confirmation on that from him, and you can’t trouble yourself with insecurities surrounding his feelings towards her. I don't know about you but I am very big on upholding my boundaries, protecting my peace, and getting rid of anyone who threatens these things. So if you find yourself not having peace of mind and worrying about his feelings towards her, then let him go.
I think this is a classic case of overthinking, but it wouldn't hurt to mention this to your boyfriend.