I Think My Friend Fancies My Boyfriend?

[emzchick]

I'm with My Boyfriend 4years we Love each other very much.. and we both know that.. we have had or up and downs but who hasn't...! anyway I'm friends with this girls who is going out with my boyfriends mate.. we get on really well but there's times lately were I've started to notice her trying to flirt with my guy.. he's really friendly and stuff so just jokes back I know it ain't flirting, I've told him my concerns bout her and he has been avoiding her advances at all costs.. 1 night we were all drunk and her boyfriend left her at mine and she had noway home and she cheekily said to my boyfriend to walk her home but he said he would but only if I came so I did.. but she constantly poking him or looking at him flirting .. he isn't interested in her whatsoever I know this because he has made it clear to me he doesn't.. I don't know what to do am I been paranoid or is she really interested in him? I'm not the only person to notice this! please help with some useful advice

[zombiefood]

Talk to her. Tell her that she may not mean to flirt with your boyfriend but you feel really uncomfortable with the way she's interacting with him. Don't accuse her of anything and don't get pissy or angry about it because it might just be an honest mistake.

So sit down and just let her know that it feels like she's trying to make a move on your man and ask if she could back off a little.

[Coffinspire]

Tell her to knock it off. Tell her exactly what she did and why it bothers you. Even if she denies it tell her it makes you uncomfortable and to stop. No friend should be doing that.

[emzchick]

I Really Wanna Tell her But, She Ain't Some1 I Can Just Talk Up T Like That It Would Just cause Huge Argument And I Can't Go Threw With That.. I'm Just Curious As to Do You Think I'm Paranoid Or Should I be Worried?

[Coffinspire]

To an extent you can be worried, I really feel like from what you've said that you could trust your boyfriend enough to handle it on his own. When girls hit on my boyfriend in front of me, I just lay back and let it happen because I know if it goes any farther, he'll tell them off. I feel like you're in the same situation. Don't worry about it because at the end of the day you have what she wants and it's going to stay that way.

[emzchick]

Your Right Bout That.. I Don't Wanna Confront Her because I know he wouldn't hurt me like that because he is against cheating.. just hate the way me and her get along so well and then when he's around I get paranoid by her flirting but ill ease off.. I know he won't hurt me.. Hope not anyway haha..

[Coffinspire]

He sounds like a sweetie I'm sure you two will be fine :)

[emzchick]

Thank You :) x

[Anonymous]

look just simply have a talk to her about it , and if she gets mad its because she knows she did something wrong

[TyroneJayJackson]

Look, Forget about her, He is being faithful to you, That's all that matters, So what so your friend is flirting with him, Doesn't mean that they will jump in bed together, Be thankful you have him and just sit down with her and tell her to stop flirting or you will stop her having any connection with you or him.

[emzchick]

Thanks Your Right I Know You Are.. Just Can Get Really Annoying And Just Wanted to Know If Id Been Paranoid Cause I Had Arguments so Just Said id let off steam here and suss out what to do

[TyroneJayJackson]

I know but he blatantly isn't interested... Just leave it and either tell her to buck up or get lost. Either way you've got him. :)

[Anonymous]

Yeah this situation usually ends badly. I'd nip it in the bud early on. I ended up getting drunk and f***ing one of my girlfriends friends really hard. She was a virgin and it caused a lot of sh*tty social drama