When I asked the woman I like " can I ask one thing would you like to go on a coffee date on this day" and she said she was busy on that day as she had plans. I said ok and left. I saw her the next three days, just said hi you ok and there was awkwardness but keeping my distances as much as possible to not make it more awkward. I am doing other things for a couple of weeks so I won't be seeing her. Hopefully it will be back to normal when I next see her. Would it be mad if I ask her again but say if she would like to have a date with me when she is next free from work and\or plans
We did have a couple of things in common and poked a bit of fun at each other. I know a bit of me is kicking myself at not seeing if she would have suggested another day when I original asked but just got so use to women saying no so I gave up a bit quickly without slowing down to let it carry on a bit longer
What Girls Said
You forgot to mention that this girl is in her early twenties like you mentioned it on your other account where you asked the very same question. Let me just give you the same reply as I gave to your other question. Here it comes.
The age gap is something like 12+ years and to many girls, that is a no go.
If someone tells me that they are not available on a specific day, then I understand it like "don't bother to ask me again".
It could be true that she has something planned but my gut feeling is that it was her way to tell you that she was not interested. Granted, this way of saying it is not the best.
Give it a few weeks and if she comes up with another excuse, then you know that you should move on.
Yes, try again.
It sounds like you gave up very quickly.