Girls, guys, this ever happen to you?

[DubiousIntentions]

You meet someone you have never seen before at a dance or other event, and you know you just want to be around this person all the time. Call it a crush, or lust, if you will. All you know is you are enamored and don't want it to end

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[lightbulb27]

but for me it took time, but I really enjoy being with my wife. Maybe not every second, I like my personal time as well, but I enjoy being with her in every day life.

I think meeting at the dance... is hormones, infatuation, in essence... fantasy in ones mind... for it is the sub conscious emotions that are creating those "connections". They may not be good if the emotions/beliefs/programming of the heart... are flawed! Everyone at that dance should come with warning labels [warning: parents divorced at 7, still harbor fears, etc..]... maybe you won't understand that until you get further in life. What's in someones heart and their beliefs in that heart are what is causing the attractions and thus very important... for they will also cause friction.

Getting to know someone and wanting to be with them... that is love, different chemicals and energy source.

I knew that song as the Bay City Rollers which I listened to many times on Saturday morning.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/CGD27WgtKhI

[DubiousIntentions]

Dusty was first so she had dibbs.

[NathanDavis]

first time I ever saw an ex-girlfriend of mine was at at his neighbours party... she was a cousin to that family

although I was very familiar with them and invited to the party, I did not attend lol... but then I heard someone's voice and such a gorgeous accent it was, that caught my attention, and then her laughter as well... I had to go and investigate, lmao

didn't really know who it was, then at some point I did notice this girl doing a little bit of dancing on her spot and oh lord... I just thought that HAS to be her, please... lmao

the rest is history, lol

[Finchie40]

Yes , when you meet someone that has amazing chemistry and connection with you and gives you the tingling feelings , it’s best to go for it if you are single of course. , why ruin a perfectly good time with someone , finding that connection and chemistry instantly like that is hard to come by , so it’s best just go for it

[DubiousIntentions]

I guess it just depends if it will last.

[Finchie40]

Don’t even sweat that , because the truth of the matter is you are being honest, if you aren’t being honest then that’s something you will have to live with knowing you are a liar and you will suffer The consequences of your actions
, if the other person isn’t honest , then that’s something they will have to live with as well. If we live our lives not trusting anyone then we will never be happy or content in our own lives , I use to live that way after I was cheated on , my trust for girls went out the window but when I realized I can only be myself and treat someone the same way I want to be treated, that’s when I realized I can only really worry about myself and value myself worth , I can’t worry about their lives , if they want to cheat on their partner with me and blow smoke up my ass then so be it , thanks for being a lying piece of shit but thanks for a good time , but it won’t be a long time. that’s all we can do in life. I have slept with married women that lied to me that I didn’t know were married until after the fact , when I found out, yes it was a kick in the ass but it was my answer to not see her again. But hey thanks for a great night and thanks for lying to me but oh well you didn’t cheat on me so not my problem , so you want to go back to your husband that you just cheated on? Have a blast living a fake happy life knowing you are a selfish piece of shit. The truth of the matter is , most people in this world are selfish and only really care about themselves. My thing is I won’t commit to someone that doesn’t know how to remove selfishness, I might end up in bed with them if they are good at lying but I won’t commit to them , I will only commit to someone that values me like I value them, someone that is honest with me like I am honest with them , someone that respects me like I respect them , someone that has great chemistry and connection with me , I don’t just sleep with anyone , I need to feel those things before I even consider sleeping

[Finchie40]

With her. Every new person we meet that we hit it off with is a 50/50 chance on whether it will last or not last , so I just choose to go with the flow of hopes of finding a girl that knows the true meaning of a relationship, that values me like I value her. That won’t cheat on me that will stay loyal and faithful to me the same way I do for her , That’s all
We can do if you want to experience true love

[MCheetah]

Not really, no. I've seen people like that online, who seem like I could learn a lot from and would want to have them in my lives as inspiration. But never in real life. If I met someone like that in real life though, I'd definitely not let them slip by.

Martial Arts black belt, painter, model, and music prodigy, Sarah Gibson

[Fireguy17]

yeppers, turned into a long relationship until she started cheating on me.
I asked her a couple of times to get married, but as it turned out for the best.

[AimeeKyle]

Absolutely. It has happened three times in my lifetime. The first had an odd / ghosting type of end. The second worked out but is slowly grinding to an end. The third…. the jury is still out…. time will one day tell.

[chicosuave]

no not from the first time of meeting a stranger. I did feel like that with a girl at work but got rejected.

[DubiousIntentions]

Not a very glorious end.

[chicosuave]

i thought it was was gonna be like that but i was completely confused. she seemed super interested in me but i guess i got the wrong message.

[Sevenpointfive]

once. and she gave her number to another guy at the party. she didn't play it off that well, so i didn't call her.

[Sparkie460]

Yes it has happened several times. You just feel an instant connection with the person.

[DubiousIntentions]

And how did they turn out in the end?

[Sparkie460]

I married her. Been married for almost 30 years

[Daniela1982]

I can only think your marriage longevity is the result of two words - "Yes dear". 🤣😂

[Sparkie460]

Nope. I don't tell her what she wants to hear. We've had our arguments just like every other married couple but we don't stay mad at each other. The two words are not yes dear, they are " yeah whatever ". Then I do what I want.

[DubiousIntentions]

That beats most people.

[Rockstarrrrr]

It happened one time and it was mutual... Really nice

[Anonymous]

Happened to me a few times. Thanks for reminding. The feeling never really went away 😔 but they did. Sad really

[SnowedIn]

Yes yes yes... and sadly, yes.

[Summeroflove]

For sure

[JPresidente]

Yes and it can be overwhelming.

[Luopio27]

Congratulations.