Is it wrong to reject a guy with a reason that he had ex or he dated other girl/ girls earlier?

[Anonymous]

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I like a guy with no girlfriends. So is it wrong to reject a guy with a reason that he had ex or he dated other girl/ girls earlier?

[SnowedIn]

Wrong? No, it's not wrong. But if you're looking for a guy who has never had a girlfriend, you probably won't find one. Seriously. And the older you get the harder that will be. Not joking, if that's the guy you want, try church or start attending high school graduations and check for 18 year olds. And I'm not even talking about virgin just men with no girlfriend. That's a tiny tiny tiny pool.

[SnowedIn]

Thank you for MHO!

[Anonymous]

Only if you expect him to feel bad about it. Nothing wrong rejecting him though.

[Guy13]

It is not for me but I also would like further clarification about question.

[Asker]

Updated the question. Please check it

[chilldude33]

Doesn't really make sense. If you like him, you like him.

[Asker]

Even if I like him, I don't want to accept him

[Asker]

Is it wrong to think this way?

[chilldude33]

You're just limiting yourself. Or don't like him enough because people will overlook anything for someone they are attracted to.

[Asker]

But it doesn't mean I don't like him enough. I just want to be with a guy who will love only me and not other girls. If he had past, he had love on them which I don't like in a guy that I want to date because I'm an insecure girl. Is it wrong to reject guys based on this reason even if I'm limiting myself due to my insecurities?

[chilldude33]

You can love multiple things/people. Sometimes love fades away. Sometimes it gets replaced with conflict. That's why wanting to be someone's first only is unreasonable.

But if you can't see it yet, wait until your thirst for affection will tip over your insecurity of being one and only.