Would you reject a girl who used to be ugly but got work done and looks different?

[Anonymous]

If you saw old pics of her and saw she was never attractive would you not give her a chance even if she has other nice qualities?

[Juicyred921]

I’m sure it would depend on the severity of the work, how much and for what reasons. I would understand if a guy were uncomfortable dating a girl with major surgery done to the point where she unrecognizable. It would feel as if there dating a filtered version of her. They might assume she’s fake and superficial. But if it’s small improvements, I don’t see why anyone would get rejected. Like skin removal after weight loss, removing a bump on the nose, even Botox. But honestly I don’t think anyone has a right to judge you for things that make you happy or how you live your life. Everyone has a story, don’t judge someone based off of one page. Deep down, we’re all just lost souls looking for a connection.

[Berethor]

I might feel cheated, the old pics show her real looks, and I might not like her real looks.

[boggboss]

No I probobly wouldn't date a girl that had work done on herself

[Asker]

Why not? Just curious?

[boggboss]

When I get with a girl I'm essentially deciding I want her to be the mother of my child with that I dont want my child looking which would essentially be ne considered ugly if I didn't like what the lady would look like before hand

[Asker]

Even if she was a cute kid?

[boggboss]

Couldn't have been that cute if I considered her ugly as a adult or teen

[Asker]

Some can be cute and turn unattractive and some can be ugly and turn cute

[boggboss]

So why would I want my child to go from cute too what I would consider ugly it can always randomly happen but why would I want it to happen

[Asker]

You wouldn’t know tho… you really wouldn’t

I’m sure your mom isn’t society’s standard of beauty and your child could look just like her. Genes play a big part as well.. it’s the mothers doing entirely …

My mom is beautiful and my dad is nice looking but I look like his mom and sisters.. they are not beautiful by society’s standards.. I only have certain features from my mom but I look nothing like her.

[boggboss]

Thats why I said it can always happen but I wouldn't want to add the risk of it happening if again I considered her ugly sure she might not come out looking the same by why add that level of risk

[Asker]

It’s not the mothers doing entirely*

[boggboss]

I have stated twice I know its not but again why would I add the rusk of them looking like somthing I consider ugly yes even if I got with someone that I found attractive they might come out ugly but thats a complete random where it wouldn't be with her as there is added chance

[Asker]

Oh okay

[boggboss]

To be fair tho with the amount of people out there plenty qouldnt care

[misogynistic_pig]

If she had surgeries, no, since I don't want my children to be ugly.

[Asker]

Even if she was actually cute as a child?

[ColHathi]

I try not to worry about looks, so no I wouldn't.

[Anonymous]

Once I know that she had plastic surgery, I am out. If I wanted a plastic girlfriend I would buy a sex doll.

[Asker]

Well some women struggle with body dismorphia or low self esteem …

[Opinion Owner]

I struggle with it too; but I know that surgery is not the solution to my problems.

[Anonymous]

Of she was ugly or not, i couldn't care less. I only fancy pretty girls, if they used to be ugly i really don't care

[FunkyMonkee]

It depends on her personality.

[Stevefiveo]

Yes.