I have issues with eye contact and talking too much on first dates. It’s not intentional and probably from my ADHD. How can I improve this and relax?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Make yourself do those things until becomes comfortable.

[Guy13]

The thing is to keep going on those dates. One guy will appreciate it as you will become better managing the issue. You are brave to keep moving forward in this. Many would curl up in a ball and quit.-This aspect of your person is felt and most find it attractive. It is an energy thing. Make sense?

[Luckycharms12]

I've the same problem could be confidence things or not knowing how long or offen you do it

[Anonymous]

Guys don’t care about this kinda shit.
If you are not entitled, shallow, or mean… being nervous or giddy is cute.

[boggboss]

Explaining it before going on the date

[Asker]

I feel like none of the guys I go on first dates with actually like me in any capacity.

[boggboss]

Clearly u are going on dates with the wrong guys

[Asker]

They seemed nice and decent. I don't know what’s going on haha

[boggboss]

Maybe they are not intrested once they meet u because u give them nothing to work off

[Asker]

What do you mean by that?

[boggboss]

Dating is a back and forth thing if u give them no personality or don't interact they can't show intrest or will get bored off you

[Asker]

But I do talk a lot and try to engage. We have a lot of things in common with what we do for a living or people we mutually know.
I’m not boring - I’m a redhead 👩‍🦰 😉

[boggboss]

So maybe they ate looking for somthing different then I guess