I know I'm attractive not to toot my own horn or anything. The guy did say I look way younger than 28 which is something I get often. He's still interested in me. I'm just surprised. I wouldn't date a guy 7 years older than me personally 4 years is a max. I'll be frank I feel like he's too young for me and he's probably not mature enough mentally. I'm a serious girl and if I am going to date a man, I'd want something serious and thinking about marriage down the road. I don't see that with a 21 year old. I just see a young guy who is barely starting his life out and I feel like he doesn't realize that I'm not looking to just have fun. I could be judging a book by its cover but that's how I feel what are your thoughts? Also surprised he's still interested 😨
Everyone has their preference. Some men prefer people their age, some prefer older women, some younger women, and some men it just doesn’t matter. Same for women with age preferences if they have any. Personally, I’ve always found myself more attracted to younger men because I like guys with baby faces, it’s just my taste. If you know of or google the actor Ryan Lee, he is 26 but looks like he’s still 22-23 but has a young face. He’s pretty much my type and luckily close to my age since I’m 24, however I see lots of men my age too or even 22-23 with beards and old looking faces due to probably heavy alcohol or drugs even! Im open to also dating older men and have crushed on some but I couldn’t picture myself with a man twice my age. It’s too weird and creepy for me really. I also look younger than my age so college aged men tend to hit on me sometimes. To each their own, take it as a compliment I mean I would but you don’t have to date him if you feel bothered by the age difference.
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I’d say he’s more interested in smashing than dating. Huge difference. Don’t jump to conclusions without getting to know him more
Some lonely young men will find that lonely older women will hook up with them, known as "cougar chasing". No the relationship does typically not last, but he gets the experience he craves, she gets to feel young again (common after a divorce or other life disturbing event). So for those people it is a win-win.
Now how about you? If you are getting "baby rabies", then definitely turn this young man down and seek an older man ready for family starting. But I do not know your situation, nor his.
If he is incredibly precocious and has a great career lined up, he might be wise beyond his tender years, although odds are that your presuppositions and judgements here are correct.
Well yes It does for me, but maybe he just wants to clap the cheeks. Maybe he'd be open for a relationship, but i don't know if he'd be willing to settle down with you because 7 years is a lot
Same as the other way around, for me anyway, if I'm the older one and she's younger by a LEGAL age gap then maybe we could fuck but to stay with her just doesn't seem right
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That isn't much of an age difference.
It could be 7 or closer to 6 years depending on when your birthdays are.
As you get older the age thing means less.
My wife and I are 9 years apart.
We didn't know each other's age when we first started dating.I think you're attaching way too much to age. @kylee2437 and @paulalove98 have some very smart things to say. That said, to some extent (not all) age is a number. Figure out if you two work together. You might find a guy who is 28 but less mature than the 21 year old you're describing. I think your comment about books and covers is spot on. My point is that you're not obligated, but I would reject guys based on age.
That's ONLY 7 years! That's not much of an age difference!
Ok let me introduce you to the age loop. Between 18 and 24 women chase older men. After 30 they become cougars and have the male youth in their claws. Male youth get older and paid and the loop begins again.
Wow, this is a complicated one. So you're attractive, and he's attracted to you? Crazy world we live in.
Not really, I prefer older women and can say that I've met 30, 40 even 50 years olds I wouldn't turn down and I'm half that last number
It varies on the guy. I once turned a woman down because she was 4 years. Younger than me. But as I've gotten older I care less about age than life experience.
It's only a problem if YOU want it to be a problem. Don't worry about what others think. It's what YOU want
some guys sure. sounds like this guy doesn't mind.
why question it? lol just enjoy it
When I was 18, I dated a 28 year old woman. It worked out well for us.
I don't like older women.
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