If you were hit on while out for an evening, would you tell your SO?

[weysally]

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the person ask in a polite way

[KarinMcDonald]

Yes I do. I can always see my husband get physically aroused when I tell him anything along those lines.

[weysally]

that is interesting to me,

[Apple1996]

Nah wouldn't want him getting jealous

[coachTanthony]

No never why would you? shit happens daily that would be a lot of unnecessary conversations.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Sure, I have in the past... it makes for very long conversations though if I start listing off all the guys that hit on me.

[AviatorTom]

Maybe, she'd probably get a good laugh.

[Smoothing]

Unless, the person who hit on me is putting too much pressure that I can't deal with, I am not telling my SO. Because that comes across as egotistical. I would only tell my SO just so that they can help show the other person that I am already taken. Other than that, there is no need. Being flirted with, or hit on, is not something we can avoid. It will happen whether we like it or not. We just have to learn how to deal with it.

[OfMiceandMen]

Probably not. I don't see where the benefit is. It seems kind of petty to me to bring it up as it could come across as... hey someone else was showing some interest in me?

As for the person that hit on me, I would be flattered, thank themn, and let them know I am in relationship. I may sit and chat them up anyway, nothing wrong with being friendly.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I wouldn't specifically not tell her but I also don't really see a reason to bring it up. If my girl walked up to me and started talking about people hitting on her it would make me think she's got cheating on her mind.

I wouldn't being something like that up unless there was something funny or especially problematic about it. Like if my boss hit on me I'd probably tell.

[Zbrody1997]

If it doesn’t slip my mind, when I’m a relationship to me getting hit on is an insignificant moment because I have no desire to be with someone else when I have a person who has proven to be worthy of my time. If I do mention it I’d do so with humor but also men rarely get compliments so I couldn’t over look the fact I’d feel better knowing I’m found attractive however in the end that’s all I’d see it as is a compliment from someone who will never have me.

[BubbaTech]

There has to be a purpose for telling your so.
If you did the right thing and rejected the offers, then you would only need to inform your so, when it wouldn't cause any scene or hurt feelings, 😉. People will make mistakes. And there is no reason for drama for a mistake.

[Surely]

Unless the person was being a real jerk or insisting and everything ended on a good note. Some things are better left unsaid!
But for the swingers of the group. It could be a turn on for the SO to hear about it.
All depends on your situation!

[Adam1978]

No, that would only cause friction. Ignorance is a bliss here. It's irrelevant because I would shut the hit down and she should trust that that is exactly what I will do. Same as what she should do in a relationship if a guy hit on her.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Yes.

If the guy was quite bad, I would laugh about it with my SO.

Of the guy was quite handsome/sauve, I would tell me SO and then let him know that all the mystery in the world wouldn't be as good as what we already have.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Yes why not I tell me boyfriend when I get hit on. Before he passed my husband would kiss me or slid his hand down the back of my pants or put his hands on my boobs if he say a guy eyeing me. Lol he loved it

[GregTurner00]

I would personally, since I'd want to know if a guy hit on her (which is frankly a lot more likely, I've only been hit on once). But, it doee tend to cause issues and paranoia, you have to go about it in the right way and make sure you commit time to explain away any concerns he has after you tell him

[Anonymous]

Why? So he can keep questioning me about it all day and see if I’m thinking about breaking up with him because he brought it up. If it was something crude and I was pissed off, I’d tell him so he could go into protective mode and not think I’m gonna cheat on him

[electromagnetic]

I got hit on once in ikea while trying to find my fiancé. The man went as far as helping me to look for him because he thought I was kidding

[Smc08]

Only if I couldn’t end the flirting myself.

[SexyRedd1966]

What's the point.. I'm hit on all the time... and whose SO wants to hear about that all the time

[weysally]

have you ever been tempted to acept

[SexyRedd1966]

No if I'm in a relationship I just focus on the guy I'm with... I admire other people but I have no interest

[NathanDavis]

sometimes I did... sometimes I did not

it would depend if it had been funny or curious in any way to share as an anecdote or not... lol

[TacosRAwesome]

I'm not sure because I'm debating if I'm telling because I'm being honest or I'm telling because I'm bragging (especially if the person is attractive).

[Justneedtokno]

It all depends like how big what is it like if they were just like I like your shoes your outfit hair no but if it was heavy, flirting, then I’ll probably let them know

[Ms_Facesitter]

I would tell him through affection. All that the guy did was remind me why I am with my SO it would make me want him more.

[lightbulb27]

yes, but be careful how you communicate you handled it.

[Jaximus-Lion]

Yes! Always. Many times she was even sitting next to me while i get hit on.

[TrueConfection]

It depends if it was funny or conversation worthy. I've told my husband some stories.

[ChooChooHaha]

unless it was particularly noteworthy, no. cause it's not worth talking about.

[loveslongnails]

Definitely, and my SO would want to know if she were hot enough to bring home for her too. :)

[CoolCatMar1]

Of course. But i would have rejected that person anyway

[bowenw]

Yes, we tell each other about those kinds of things.

[exitseven]

Yes, she would think it was cool to think she was married to such a hot guy.

[AdithyaR]

Yes, I'd find it funny that somebody was deranged enough to find me attractive so I'd tell my SO.

[KostasKouvalis]

Probably, but mostly to brag in the hopes of making her jealous

[Anonymous]

No because he wouldn’t tell me and thats ok for me

[Fryday_Knight]

I would and then I kiss her and remind her she is all I need.

[driven159]

No because I would not be taking action on the hit just ignore it

[CuriousMufuxka]

Not unless it was really funny! Girlfriends I've had would freak the fuck out otherwise.

[Frankw26]

I wouldn’t put my self in that situation to be honest and I hope my girl wouldn’t put herself In it either

[CubaPirate]

Been there done that on more than one occasion

[Bklynbadboy12]

What's the point if your attractive your going to get hit on by other people it's no big deal

[ariadneR]

Definitely. I tell him everything

[weysally]

if it wasn't a big hit on, would you then, lets say he said something like, "you are beautiful, would you go out with me for dinner"

[ariadneR]

I'd decline the guy, and yes, I'd still tell him.

[weysally]

does he know your on GAG?

[ariadneR]

Yes he does

[petitedollbabee]

Yeah, and we’d laugh about it.

[Changiis07]

Yes I would

[dustybiker]

Absolutely. Always share a good laugh.

[LazerBean]

Yes, we love a good laugh.

[SnowedIn]

Totally yeah! It's always good for a laugh.

[Date_a_Snob]

Were dating not married so no

[slatyb]

Absolutely. She would get a kick out of it.

[Bricealan]

No. Ignore it and go on.

[alcorriher]

yes i would tell my S. O

[Sisters_Of_Time]

If I know he gets a kick out of it!

[Hannajenky]

maybe if it was funny or something

[Samantha_17]

Nope. Not needed.

[Alex8736]

what if no S/O is in the picture? 😋

[weysally]

then it wouldn't apply would it,

[AimeeKyle]

Yes. It isn’t a big deal. Things happen.

[LiamJHayden]

No. And I wouldn't bite, either.

[KrakenAttackin]

No, no reason to.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Absolutely not

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

If I had an s. o. yeah, probably

[TrustOfWorthington]

yes. unless we're breaking up

[CharlieDMX]

No, she gets mad jealous too easily

[Anonymous]

maybe I don't know