Guys why would you block your ex on all social media but not block her phone number?

[Anonymous]

Like he made it clear that he didn’t want to see me or anything, so why would he block my socials but still respond to me texts even though he doesn’t wanna see me? Something isn’t adding up

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t want to be rude. You’re clearly going through something or fixated with him to still keep texting so maybe he feels bad. You make it not add up in your head because you still aren’t over him and wanting to mean more.

[Asker]

It’s confusing bc he doesn’t owe me kindness (assuming that he doesn’t want to be rude). The reason we broke up for good was due to me starting a rumor about him to his friends that he had an std on a public social media post….. which I know I was very wrong for that so that’s why I’m confused as to why he will still respond to me even though he doesn’t want to see me or date me. He blocked me on social media but didn’t block my number. It’s all so confusing.

[Asker]

Like if someone I dated started a rumor about me saying I had a std to my friends I’d block their number and social media and would NEVER speak to them ever again. I guess I don’t get why he still talks to me in a friendly manner.

[Opinion Owner]

Blocking you may have been an understandable heat of the moment action, but now that he’s cooled off a bit, he’s not mad at you, he just doesn’t want anything else with you. He stands by blocking you on social media since he hasn’t gone back to change that, but not mad enough to block your number, especially if he’s a nice guy then he likely feels bad due to all your apologizing (which I’m sure you have done and if not then get to it). What you did was wrong, and clearly he has no hate, but you need to leave him alone. You justify it by saying “well he isn’t blocking my number and he replies when I text him so maybe there’s still a chance”, don’t do that. He doesn’t owe you kindness, he just isn’t an asshole, but don’t take advantage of that. If you are toxic enough of a person to do what you did then you don’t need to be anyone’s girlfriend right now anyway, and instead should work on being a better woman, whether it’s with therapy or whatever else.

[Asker]

Thank my oh so much for your reply. It helps. 💜

[Asker]

Thank you so much*

[Opinion Owner]

No worries! Good luck on your healing journey🙏

[echoaj]

He doesn't an to see you visually through photos etc because it hurts him. however, he still wants a single thread or avenue where he could reach you if needed.

[Asker]

I just don’t get why if he doesn’t want to date or see me again. Like why

[misogynistic_pig]

You want to have the pleasure of rejecting the call, it's called pitching.

[Asker]

But I don’t call him, I text him and he responds. Yet he doe sent want to see me or date me again. I’m so confused