Not married because it's difficult to impress women, is it normal?

[Anonymous]

Most men say they're not married because they're too poor, want more freedom, more time for career, etc.

I, for one, say it's because women have become much more entitled and therefore, more difficult to impress than ever. Even average women are now becoming divas and expecting so much from the men.

Also, this fat acceptance movement has increasing with the likes of Lizzo and now there's less thin women than before, with women gorging themselves on soda, cake, chocolate, burgers, etc. and hating exercise.

Everyone has a reason, but for me, it's because it's so difficult to impress women unless I look like Spartacus or have a six-digit income.

[kylee2437]

Ehhh I just think many men haven’t adapted to mentally being better people therefore it makes them way harder to succeed in relationships in todays day and age because a woman basically needed a man back then to make her life complete whether he is was abusive/a cheater or not. Now that women no longer need men to have a complete life we expect someone that is the full package with being abusive/ a cheater.

[kylee2437]

Without being abusive/ a cheater ***

[Asker]

Much of it is blamed on the media that makes unrealistic feminist messages. And I do not expect the full package, so neither should women. Therefore, your post is nullified.

[kylee2437]

@asker actually yours is because just because you have low expectations, doesn’t mean I should too.

[Asker]

Which brings me back to my original point, I am not married because it is too difficult to impress women. But nobody ever talks about this, they say other reasons.

[Asker]

Furthermore, it appears that you are glorifying being a demanding diva.

[kylee2437]

@asker blaming women for what you lack is your issue. There’s an abundance of women that want to get married vs men in this generation so again, don’t blame women for what you lack

[kylee2437]

Nope I just prefer a man that isn’t a abusive and doesn’t cheat ☺️

[Asker]

I am not abusive and do not cheat, but a lot of women these days want more than that. If you're a woman, it is easy to get a man. If you're a man, it is extremely arduous. All the men are fighting to get the woman. Just go to a bar or club and see the competition in men and the women are having fun rejecting all of them, not giving any man a chance, unless he's really handsome or rich.

[kylee2437]

@asker going to a bar / club to meet a wife is probably why you are having troubles considering most women tend to avoid men at clubs due to the fact that we think men at clubs want hook ups and you are trying to meet women where alcohol is involved. Go find smarter ways to find caring women that are sober and can uphold intellectual conversations. A lot of people blame the opposite gender for their lack of creativity and efforts when trying to talk to people

[Asker]

And even without bars and clubs, there are also two more things:

1. 49'ers Women who are 4's thinking they're 9's
2 The average woman thinks the average man is below average

I could go on, but nowadays, the modern women have overly inflated egos.

[kylee2437]

I can’t help you here if you think pointing fingers at the opposite gender is helping you lol men with victim mentalities when it comes to dating are super lame and aren’t looking at the fact that they need extensive mental health help which brings me back to my first point lol 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

Not a victim here, just asking if it is normal to be unmarried due to being unable to impress women, which was what it stated in the title. I find women to be needing of mental help, since they have such unrealistic expecations.

[kylee2437]

Most women don’t have unrealistic expectations, you just refuse to hit basic expectations that would make women consider you which includes maybe cleaning yourself up and making yourself look like a decent person.

[Asker]

I clean myself up and I work out. What more does a woman want?

[kylee2437]

Hmmm how about explore possible flaws you have? Seems like you have a difficult time pointing out what can be wrong with yourself

[Asker]

I am no angel. I have Asperger's syndrome. I take things literally. And, not to sound racially sensitive, but I am attracted to white women despite being of East Asian heritage and a lot of white women prefer white or Latino men.

[Guy13]

It is common as I have seen. They expect 30 to have Accomplishments and Assets. Start work at 20 and given 10 years…

[Asker]

I work in a warehouse and I am 32.