Why did my ex refuse to block me when I asked?

[Anonymous]

but he told me to stop msging him when he got mad at me

[kylee2437]

How toxic of you to insist on him blocking you because you are too chicken to block him out of your life

[Asker]

it's hard because i love him

[kylee2437]

So why not give him space instead of saying such toxic things? You are acting too emotional and men do not like deal with women that can’t logically talk things out. You are losing value by seeking out arguments and being too needy /clingy to leave him alone

[Asker]

i left him alone and he hasn't messaged me, but imma keep it like that tll he messages me and till I move on.

[kylee2437]

If I were you , I would just act like it’s a break up. Don’t get your hopes up that he is going to message you back because in the long run you are going to disappoint yourself and possibly go even more crazy on him for waiting on him when he doesn’t owe you anything in reality. Start doing things for yourself that bring you value and maybe even make the move to completely block him if he doesn’t reach out in the next week or so.

[Asker]

Yeah thats actually a great idea, I will block him soon and try to improve myself, make more money. I feel myself going crazy and when I wake up I think about him and the pain comes back :/

[kylee2437]

@asker sorry you are going through, I know what it’s like , just have to keep pushing. Improving yourself will give you a clear vision if he is even worth the headache, in most case scenario, they aren’t.

[Asker]

what do you suggest on self improvement?

[kylee2437]

Spend more time with friends, create some small and big goals, get into new hobbies, self care activities, get a new skill, etc. maybe even get into therapy (that helped me when I broke up with my ex) it helped me sort out if I should even be feeling how I feel etc.

[Asker]

yeah thats true thank you <3

[melanieeeB]

Stop messaging him then, who cares why he said that... move on

[Anonymous]

Don't know, maybe he still wants to see your story. Block him and the problem is solved

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

It's sort of like that "I dare you thing". Thinking they will, when they actually won't

[Asker]

yeah thats so evil

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

Right?

[OfMiceandMen]

Maybe he wants to leave that door open?

[Asker]

does he want me to text him?

[OfMiceandMen]

I would give it some time and see if he messages you. No point in ticking him off. Just go about your own business and ignore him, ball's in his court.

[Asker]

The last time we saw we got into an argument and then he got angry. And texted he was going to date somebody else…

[OfMiceandMen]

If that's the case and you see him with other girls, then it's time you moved on and know that you likely avoided someone who didn't really care for you.

[Asker]

I didn’t see it but that’s what he said

[Asker]

So I should just block him?

[Guy13]

Block him.

[Asker]

I've never felt such a strong connection with someone before and i'm hoping he will reach out to me although I don't believe he will

[Saamee]

Why don't you block him?

[Asker]

I've never felt such a strong connection with someone before and i'm hoping he will reach out to me :( although I don't believe he will

[Saamee]

What about self respect?

[Asker]

that's true, i wanna block him but im scared that he will message and if he does and i miss it, he will be gone foerever

[Saamee]

Love someone who loves you more

[Saamee]

The one who loves you will never leave you

[Asker]

True, i'm trying but it's hard, he seemed so in love with me at first and then I guess his feelings just went away.