I am by no means saying that you should be disloyal or anything, but I was just curious whether being in a relationship changes those interaction from being fun to being annoying.
My feelings are a bit too complex for a simple yes or no lol. I think being flirted with feels good no matter what, because it's flattering, it's an ego boost, and makes me feel pretty. Even in a relationship, I'll still feel those things, except now I have added concerns. I think "Oh shit, oh no", review my behaviour to think about how I might have led them on, I'll make note it and change how I engage with them in the future, I might do or say certain things to ensure they get that I'm in a committed relationship, etc. Either way, I think whether someone enjoys being hit on is entirely subjective. I might be flattered by it whether I'm single or not, but I have friends who hate being hit on whether they're single or not. Relationship status only changes how you respond to it, in my opinion.
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before i eould probably enjoy now i am not really sure just men in general. thank goodness the men i've encountered are good pips God's hand is on the work. thank yoy Lord Jesus... i just can't imagine if i encountered the bad kind and the ones following me are the bad kind
i think i'm overthinking again. i have a good potential. i find this relieving. my experience with men involves them following me and this scares me in a way. i just need one man i don't need extras. just ine love. but i think i'm overthinking again i just find my life story bizarre but hey i saw Jesus in my drea (very kind very humble looking man ) so expect the unexpected
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If you are respectful it’s ok I will tell you im married please leave it alone after that. I got hit on the other day at a store by a guy in front of my grown son!! He said I had sexy accent, looked good in my leggings, and he liked his women tint (Im 4’11 100 pounds) I made it very noticeable I was married and wearing a wedding ring
Id take it as a compliment. Nothing more. The equalivent to "You have nice eyes/smile/etc". Though if the behaviour is persists after I said I am in a relationship Id be annoyed
Yes because I have only been hit on maybe 3 times IRL hahaha...
and I was only checked out 1 time in my life and it just happened a few months ago...No, but even when I was single I hated being hit on, so it doesn’t change anything if I’m in a relationship.
No, not at all, being friendly is good, being a clingy creep is another thing
I mean depends. If he's like my type and is polite, it's flattering. I'd turn him down anyways of course.
Of course, it's nice to know I still got it, whatever it is.
No absolutely not... Thank you.
I don't enjoy it.
It's always annoying
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