Dating

Am I behaving like a “narcissist”, or I just have “a type” of boy I like?

I can’t resist men with certain features, all my biggest crushes and old boyfriends were the same “type”, not necessarily super handsome, but they did correspond to the same description and if you see them, you would say they are cousins if not brothers. Unfortunately, it’s not a type I run into very often.
A while ago, after being single for a moment, I met a guy who looked like that and immediately felt super attracted to him. We got to know each other and turned out I also liked him as a person. Unfortunately however he behaved in a very immature way, he flirted a lot with me but just led me on as eventually he wasn’t interested. However, I still cannot get him out of my head. Not a new thing, also in the past I could usually forget a guy only when I met a new one I liked.


the problem with this “crush” is that this guy comes from a wealthy and well known family, and I have a certain sense of guilt because I tell myself that maybe it’s not the combination of his “irresistible” looks and his personality that I like so much about him, but that there is some “narcissistic” mechanism that makes me want him because of the prestige related to his family. (Little side note, I discovered about his family only after having started crushing on him). Of course, at a conscious level I tell myself that no, he just has the looks and I like his personality. But I am scared that subconsciously the family might play a role…

Am I behaving like a “narcissist”, or I just have “a type” of boy I like?
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