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Boyfriend wants to break up with me because I’m “too busy” for him? (Page 2)
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(18-24) 
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He doesn’t support you
If he isn’t happy with you being busy than does he have the balls to take care of you? If not he should shut up and sit his ass down.
You guys are young now starting to finally see some
Green light of making some money and whatever yet he is not approval of that because his dick doesn’t realize there is other matters in life to handle.. to survive. If he can’t understand that he is isn’t at your level at all. Let him fly away with his nonsense broken wings
you're not in the wrong.
but neither are you two compatible anymore
what are you supposed to do give up work or college? no you shouldn't. you still could make some time for him every now and then which I assume you could and would pull off for him, he could be understanding and be okay with it. which he isn't being.
I think you’ll have to sit and work up a schedule. It’s not gonna be easy but it is doable. If he’s pretty much ready to break up without considering him having to considering tweaking his schedule also then he’s being foolish.
Sometimes relationships are all about time it's just bad time you have a lot going on in your life right now and it really seems like you don't have time for relationship so maybe you should move on because if his heart isn't in it he's just gonna end up cheating and hurting you anyway. So let him go and if it meant to be you'll see him again
Relationship are a lot about compromise also everyone has different needs.
I would tell him it’s only temporary if it’s for a personal goal your trying to reach.
If your planning to stay busy for life then you need to find someone else.
Maybe someone more ambitious.
Ok first meet with your boyfriend tell him that you are busy because you trying to make better career and it’s important for your future.
And Tell your boyfriend that he is also important. Then both of you discuss how you and your boyfriend manage this relationship with your busy schedule.
If he still saying he want break up after this. Then my opinion is you should break up. If he doesn’t understand you then he is not the right person for you.
This is actually a thing : if you are in a relationship, both of you guys would want to see each other. If you can't because one of you is always busy, well the other one can look for someone else to hang out with. I think most people would act like that. Not me though, I would respect that.
You should made sure there was time in the schedule for him before booking up more things. So he is right you don't priorities him as much as you should if you actually loved him.
It really depends on how long it would last. If it’s just a busy spurt at work, I could deal with it, but if I only saw them a few times a year, I’d want to find someone with a little more free time. Nothing against them. But the short version is why date someone you can never see?
Women have a higher level of cheating on a guy or a man if she doesn’t feel loved and wanted. It’s obvious your boyfriend wants to spend time with you. It’s different if a boyfriend or husband is restricting his wife or girlfriend to gain success and be independent for herself as well. However, it’s a fine line to provide time and give effort. Your situation is different so I’m not going to say drop your job and your courses.
Neither of you are wrong or right. You just have different priorities.. Nothing wrong with breaking up and finding more compatible partners for each other.
You ditch his ass first, obviously. He's only your boyfriend, not your fucking husband.
Tell the fucker he ain't paying your bills or getting your education for you.
A good thought about busy women.
Well, he feels neglected. Try to manage your time and whenever you're free spend quality time with him and make him feel special.
Yes , quality time is my love language , so if he’s always busy and doesn’t make time for me , that’s not gonna work for me
You are not wrong and he is not wrong either , it's just your benefits didn't match with his.
It's okay to be busy and work a 9-5 job if he wants to break up there is always more fish in the sea trust me he's not the only guy But try to make time for him.
I understand you but thing is you can make it work. You can make time for the one you love. Explain things to him. Tell him how it is for you. There's a solution for every problem or at least one of you may have to compromise.
Hey don’t fall for that, a boyfriend already and he thinks to break up with you over a dumb time table? He’s so wrong off himself. Dump him quick. Don’t let him make you suffer over something that so simple.
Yes u are in the wrong because ain't no one wants to be with anyone who can't spend time with them that not what a relationship is supposed to be about that seems to me to be a one-way Street just for you.
God Bless